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The Conflict Resolution Test

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 33% on withdraw, higher than 6% of your peers.

You scored 55% on aggressive, higher than 83% of your peers.

You scored 37% on passiveagressive, higher than 74% of your peers.

You scored 58% on zen, higher than 29% of your peers.

You scored 53% on pushover, higher than 19% of your peers.

You scored 43% on victim, higher than 78% of your peers.

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The Coward

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Run Away!

Summary: The title says it all. You're afraid of conflict and will do anything to avoid it. You drive people nuts because you never stick around to finish an argument or fight. The second you sense any kind of hostility, you head for the hills. You're the type of person that can and will go to bed angry. There's always an elephant in your room and you've become perfectly OK with that. You make me sick.

Advice: Grow a pair and learn how to communicate effectively. A conflict is not the end of the world. In fact, the healthiest relationships are the ones in which both members have effective ways of handling conflict and coming to an agreeable resolution. The more you remove yourself from conflict, the more people will learn to avoid interacting with you

You scored 61% on withdraw, higher than 85% of your peers.

You scored 49% on aggressive, higher than 70% of your peers.

You scored 36% on passiveagressive, higher than 71% of your peers.

You scored 57% on zen, higher than 27% of your peers.

You scored 60% on pushover, higher than 35% of your peers.

You scored 43% on victim, higher than 78% of your peers

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Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 55% on withdraw

You scored 54% on aggressive

You scored 31% on passive aggressive

You scored 64% on zen

You scored 49% on pushover

You scored 28% on victim

Seems about right ^_^

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The Coward

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Run Away!

You scored 73% on withdraw, higher than 98% of your peers.

You scored 35% on aggressive, higher than 25% of your peers.

You scored 59% on passiveagressive, higher than 97% of your peers.

You scored 41% on zen, higher than 9% of your peers.

You scored 60% on pushover, higher than 35% of your peers.

You scored 49% on victim, higher than 89% of your peers.

Striving hard to be a he-bitch.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

You scored 43% on withdraw, higher than 24% of your peers.

You scored 35% on aggressive, higher than 25% of your peers.

You scored 17% on passive agressive, higher than 12% of your peers.

You scored 93% on zen, higher than 98% of your peers.

You scored 75% on pushover, higher than 75% of your peers.

You scored 15% on victim, higher than 4% of your peers.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 43% on withdraw, higher than 24% of your peers.

You scored 35% on aggressive, higher than 25% of your peers.

You scored 17% on passiveagressive, higher than 12% of your peers.

You scored 93% on zen, higher than 98% of your peers.

You scored 75% on pushover, higher than 76% of your peers.

You scored 15% on victim, higher than 4% of your peers.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

You scored 25% on withdraw, higher than 2% of your peers.

You scored 58% on aggressive, higher than 87% of your peers.

You scored 24% on passiveagressive, higher than 37% of your peers.

You scored 67% on zen, higher than 47% of your peers.

You scored 51% on pushover, higher than 17% of your peers.

You scored 15% on victim, higher than 4% of your peers.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 37% on withdraw, higher than 12% of your peers.

You scored 49% on aggressive, higher than 69% of your peers.

You scored 22% on passiveagressive, higher than 31% of your peers.

You scored 68% on zen, higher than 50% of your peers.

You scored 60% on pushover, higher than 35% of your peers.

You scored 32% on victim, higher than 45% of your peers.

well, I wish I was a real one... but I definitely know some "conflictually-challenged " people, that's for sure :laugh:

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

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Zen Master

"The sex was terrible and you smell bad!"

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The Agressor

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Attack!

[HIDE=Summary]

Summary: You're the kind of person that people know not to mess with, and if they don't know, they'll learn as soon as they cross you. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong in an argument, the other party will always concede out of sheer terror. You don't mince words, sugar coat, or spare people's feelings. When somebody wrongs you, you make sure it's the last time they ever do. You'll always get your message across, but don't expect your few friends to ever use the words "warm" or "easy-going" to describe you.Advice: Maybe take a yoga class or go for a walk once in a while. Stop taking yourself so damn seriously. You should learn to lighten up or you may end up in the hospital due to heart palpitations. Medication wouldn't hurt either. [/HIDE]

You scored 31% on withdraw, higher than 4% of your peers.

You scored 58% on aggressive, higher than 87% of your peers.

You scored 41% on passiveagressive, higher than 80% of your peers.

You scored 52% on zen, higher than 22% of your peers.

You scored 55% on pushover, higher than 23% of your peers.

You scored 40% on victim, higher than 73% of your peers.

Agressor? WtF! I'm going to write the test creator and tell said 'person' what an ass-hat they are. This is bullshit!

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The Aggressor (Conflict Resolution Strategy: Attack!)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ DESCRIPTION~~~~~~~~~~~

Summary: You're the kind of person that people know not to mess with, and if they don't know, they'll learn as soon as they cross you. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong in an argument, the other party will always concede out of sheer terror. You don't mince words, sugar coat, or spare people's feelings. When somebody wrongs you, you make sure it's the last time they ever do. You'll always get your message across, but don't expect your few friends to ever use the words "warm" or "easy-going" to describe you.Advice: Maybe take a yoga class or go for a walk once in a while. Stop taking yourself so damn seriously. You should learn to lighten up or you may end up in the hospital due to heart palpitations. Medication wouldn't hurt either.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

#withdraw Distribution----You scored 53% on withdraw, higher than 58% of your peers.

*aggressive Distribution-----You scored 58% on aggressive, higher than 87% of your peers.

*passive aggressive Distribution-----You scored 49% on passive-aggressive, higher than 90% of your peers.

*zen Distribution---- You scored 57% on zen, higher than 28% of your peers.

* pushover Distribution--- You scored 42% on pushover, higher than 7% of your peers.

* victim Distribution----- You scored 36% on victim, higher than 57% of your peers.

That's Odd. I'm very empathetic of people and the situation they put themselves in, so I can't be TOO pissed, unless they do something intentionally mean/rude. My horns will come out then.

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The Agressor

Conflict Resolution Strategy: [highlight]Attack![/highlight]

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You're the kind of person that people know not to mess with, and if they don't know, they'll learn as soon as they cross you. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong in an argument, the other party will always concede out of sheer terror. You don't mince words, sugar coat, or spare people's feelings. When somebody wrongs you, you make sure it's the last time they ever do. You'll always get your message across, but don't expect your few friends to ever use the words "warm" or "easy-going" to describe you.Advice: Maybe take a yoga class or go for a walk once in a while. Stop taking yourself so damn seriously. You should learn to lighten up or you may end up in the hospital due to heart palpitations. Medication wouldn't hurt either.

You scored 60% on aggressive, higher than 89% of your peers.

You scored 52% on zen, higher than 21% of your peers.

You scored 51% on pushover, higher than 16% of your peers.

You scored 41% on passiveagressive, higher than 79% of your peers.

You scored 39% on withdraw, higher than 14% of your peers.

You scored 23% on victim, higher than 16% of your peers.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off aggressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictual-challenged people how to be more like you.

Your Analysis (Vertical line = Average)

You scored 47% on withdraw, higher than 36% of your peers.

You scored 37% on aggressive, higher than 29% of your peers.

You scored 25% on passiveagressive, higher than 42% of your peers.

You scored 68% on zen, higher than 48% of your peers.

You scored 67% on pushover, higher than 53% of your peers.

You scored 40% on victim, higher than 72% of your peers.

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Another Zen Master....

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 53% on withdraw, higher than 58% of your peers.

You scored 35% on aggressive, higher than 24% of your peers.

You scored 20% on passiveagressive, higher than 23% of your peers.

You scored 81% on zen, higher than 78% of your peers.

You scored 75% on pushover, higher than 71% of your peers.

You scored 34% on victim, higher than 49% of your peers.

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Yet another Zen Master. XD

Also, did anybody else notice the random grey comments that appeared to be an in-test argument in the background? Lol.

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Curious what one change does.

:sulk:[hide=Without death metal.]The Pushover

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Just Give Up

The Pushover

Summary: You're entirely incapable of standing up for yourself. Slightly different from The Coward, The Pushover doesn't necessarily withdraw, but gives in to whomever he or she is in conflict with. Maybe you're just too tired to fight, or maybe you have no self esteem, but the bottom line is that others are going to walk all over you. Agressors love you because they always get their way.

Advice: Learn how to be more assertive. If you believe something is a certain way, then stick to your guns. Learn not to be afraid of disagreeing and possibly disappointing other people. If someone dislikes you because you have a different opinion or did something a different way, then screw them! In the end, people will respect you more if you learn how to have some integrity and stand up for what you believe in.

You scored 37% on withdraw, higher than 11% of your peers.

You scored 49% on aggressive, higher than 69% of your peers.

You scored 46% on passiveagressive, higher than 86% of your peers.

You scored 38% on zen, higher than 7% of your peers.

You scored 55% on pushover, higher than 22% of your peers.

You scored 55% on victim, higher than 96% of your peers.[/hide]:bomb:[hide=With death metal.]The Agressor

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Attack!

The Agressor

Summary: You're the kind of person that people know not to mess with, and if they don't know, they'll learn as soon as they cross you. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong in an argument, the other party will always concede out of sheer terror. You don't mince words, sugar coat, or spare people's feelings. When somebody wrongs you, you make sure it's the last time they ever do. You'll always get your message across, but don't expect your few friends to ever use the words "warm" or "easy-going" to describe you.

Advice: Maybe take a yoga class or go for a walk once in a while. Stop taking yourself so damn seriously. You should learn to lighten up or you may end up in the hospital due to heart palpitations. Medication wouldn't hurt either.

You scored 29% on withdraw, higher than 2% of your peers.

You scored 58% on aggressive, higher than 87% of your peers.

You scored 46% on passiveagressive, higher than 86% of your peers.

You scored 39% on zen, higher than 8% of your peers.

You scored 49% on pushover, higher than 14% of your peers.

You scored 51% on victim, higher than 91% of your peers.[/hide]

"...conditionally squishier than or as vicious as I may appear." Facebook/OkCupid profile snippet.

"Squishy" would only apply to the potential sobbing bit here though. Otherwise, there's the worthlessness of mere pissing contests and being perpetually on the wrong end of any political clout.

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Zen Master

Does this mean I'm as good at conflict resolution as this guy?

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I sure hope so.

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The Coward

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Run Away!

Summary: The title says it all. You're afraid of conflict and will do anything to avoid it. You drive people nuts because you never stick around to finish an argument or fight. The second you sense any kind of hostility, you head for the hills. You're the type of person that can and will go to bed angry. There's always an elephant in your room and you've become perfectly OK with that. You make me sick.

Advice: Grow a pair and learn how to communicate effectively. A conflict is not the end of the world. In fact, the healthiest relationships are the ones in which both members have effective ways of handling conflict and coming to an agreeable resolution. The more you remove yourself from conflict, the more people will learn to avoid interacting with you.

You scored 78% on withdraw higher than 99% of your peers.

You scored 45% on aggressive, higher than 56% of your peers.

You scored 51% on passiveagressive, higher than 92% of your peers.

You scored 41% on zen, higher than 10% of your peers.

You scored 53% on pushover, higher than 19% of your peers.

You scored 60% on victim, higher than 98% of your peers.

Sounds about correct..

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

The Zen Master

Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 37% on withdraw, higher than 11% of your peers.

You scored 57% on aggressive, higher than 84% of your peers.

You scored 37% on passive-agressive, higher than 72% of your peers.

You scored 58% on zen, higher than 30% of your peers.

You scored 56% on pushover, higher than 26% of your peers.

You scored 40% on victim, higher than 72% of your peers.

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Your result for The Conflict Resolution Test ...

The Zen Master

You scored 53% on withdraw, higher than 58% of your peers.

You scored 32% on aggressive, higher than 14% of your peers.

You scored 17% on passiveagressive, higher than 12% of your peers.

You scored 88% on zen, higher than 91% of your peers.

You scored 82% on pushover, higher than 92% of your peers.

You scored 26% on victim, higher than 20% of your peers.

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Your result for The Conflict Resolution Test ...

The Agressor

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Attack!

Summary: You're the kind of person that people know not to mess with, and if they don't know, they'll learn as soon as they cross you. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong in an argument, the other party will always concede out of sheer terror. You don't mince words, sugar coat, or spare people's feelings. When somebody wrongs you, you make sure it's the last time they ever do. You'll always get your message across, but don't expect your few friends to ever use the words "warm" or "easy-going" to describe you.Advice: Maybe take a yoga class or go for a walk once in a while. Stop taking yourself so damn seriously. You should learn to lighten up or you may end up in the hospital due to heart palpitations. Medication wouldn't hurt either.

You scored 31% on withdraw, higher than 4% of your peers.

You scored 68% on aggressive, higher than 96% of your peers.

You scored 49% on passiveagressive, higher than 89% of your peers.

You scored 28% on zen, higher than 3% of your peers.

You scored 42% on pushover, higher than 7% of your peers

You scored 53% on victim, higher than 93% of your peers.

I really like conflicts. I like to fight about beeing right and all.

!^^

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

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Summary: Congratulations, you deal with conflict as few people can: Calmly, logically and efficiently--all without even breaking a sweat. You're calm, cool and collected and have the perfect balance of assertiveness and respect. You piss off agressive people because you refuse to engage with them. Verbal attacks roll off you like water off a duck's back. You never need a time out to go to your "happy place" because you're already there.

Advice: You don't need any. You seem to have this conflict resolution thing down. Maybe you can teach the other conflictually-challenged people how to be more like you.

You scored 49% on withdraw, higher than 44% of your peers.

You scored 34% on aggressive, higher than 19% of your peers.

You scored 22% on passiveagressive, higher than 29% of your peers.

You scored 77% on zen, higher than 68% of your peers.

You scored 71% on pushover, higher than 64% of your peers.

You scored 43% on victim, higher than 78% of your peers.

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The Zen Master

Conflict Resolution Strategy: Everything Is As It Should Be

You scored 47% on withdraw, higher than 36% of your peers.

You scored 46% on aggressive, higher than 61% of your peers.

You scored 14% on passive-aggressive, higher than 5% of your peers.

You scored 80% on zen, higher than 75% of your peers.

You scored 65% on pushover, higher than 48% of your peers.

You scored 32% on victim, higher than 44% of your peers.

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