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About bluelotus

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  1. The second hairstyle souits you better :)

  2. *sigh.* I'm fairly patient. So your stand is you think firstly that rape jokes are funny? Secondly you fear censorship of it. Thirdly you want everyone who is against them to shut up? Point is far more than clear.
  3. Oh yes. That makes sense, because one person is outraged suddenly I'm the leader of a circus of rings of people who want to have censorship. As if the rest of the world didn't matter at all? *raises eyebrow*
  4. Doubt that. Then what's the point of voicing an opinion. amount of care given= a lot.
  5. No just that it have a stricter cap so people don't have to run into it by accident on a website. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 05:58 PM ---------- Why is it punching you in the face? I thought freedom of speech was the whole defense for rape jokes. How is my opinion on it offending you? Look it's simply resolved with effort. Don't like something you can read and turn from, don't read it. However running into pictures with large captions on the internet is a whole other thing. It's something we can't stop that's immediate. It's not something people control very well because we don't know what it's about. Reading though in paragraph form is different from spotting 6 or so words on a posted picture. Reading in paragraph is something you can tell yourself you choose to ignore. What people can't ignore is things like headings or titles on rape jokes that we can't defend ourselves from. Why not censor it? ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 06:02 PM ---------- It does appear as if they are directed at rape victims because of the displays of scenarios. Believe it or not people actually tell jokes aloud once read enough. We are a product of our surroundings after all. It's when people do like what others have done in this thread and post videos and people not knowing what it's about until they get there that's most disturbing. It is too open and people fall into having seen it or read it like in the above responses to others state. There is actually a debate on governments wanting to censor the internet. It's actually happening as we speak. Doesn't this deserve some looking into?
  6. If you don't like it you don't have to be on the thread you know. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 05:10 PM ---------- We are talking about facebook right?
  7. No toward rape victims, society wasn't built by one person alone. It is built by policies and rules, regulators, and self restraint. Yes my feelings are hurt. My feelings aren't the main problem. The main problem is how it is degrading, distasteful, vulgar, disrespectful, a form of bullying if you have all the different pictures or videos, and in a sense abusive. Rape jokes will never be funny. I want censorship to keep society going to a better place. People don't need to over hear vile language, they don't need to come across offensive pictures, or be sent videos of any sort that are "funny". ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 04:57 PM ---------- Our own problems become others problems when no one helps one another. Why do you think people become psychotic in the first place?
  8. It's funny how people say people are overly emotional. Then people try to defend rape jokes with their own emotional load. :) I am amused continue. If you rely on a dictionary to tell you what is a fact, you miss the point of having a dictionary writer. You should also define society, roles, and niches. Maybe even interaction, and society. Society is meant to be worked on as a whole. It is in no way an island. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 04:23 PM ---------- We do need more censorship. Rape victims feelings aren't your problem, then when you run out of gas, need money, are in need of help because of a mugging, I can only imagine who's problem that will be. Are we so stupid we can't see how much we impact one another? ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 04:24 PM ---------- Look up ^^^
  9. Anything that isn't a real joke would be considered an "off color" phrase in an attempt to be a joke.. "off color joke" - shorter. which ends up being = sexual harassment. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 12:13 PM ---------- This I agree with. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 12:15 PM ---------- true. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 12:18 PM ---------- I agree to this.
  10. This is very informative. This is why we need to draw a line. It's just wrong. Rape is never funny. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 10:16 AM ---------- If it's not funny to about 1/4 of the population of females alone [which increases with the number of rape victims in men also.] Then chances are it's no longer a joke. It's more like sexual harassment now. It's an off color joke. ---------- Post added 05-30-2013 at 10:20 AM ---------- Yes I know. I read it in Freud's work. [Although I didn't know the name] It's still not funny. Feminism is actually just = if you believe women and men are equal you're considered a feminist. On a side note I've been called submissive multiple times so I can't say others can really define me.
  11. I can't agree. Jokes aren't jokes sometimes... "don't wrap it and tap it, tape it and rape it" is not a joke.
  12. Rape jokes are basically like sexual harassment in my mind.
  13. No I'm not typically outraged. I have actually gone through things like near rape and sexual harassment. It's simply not funny to me. I've had guys on trains feel me up, I've had guys touch me in halls as a teenager. I've had guys stalk me in stores. In this situation had it not been for my being with my family I'd of been in trouble. You don't know how serious something is until it's happened to you. I've experience first hand what it's like to go through something. Also giving that the few things I've gone through gives you similar reactions to actually having been raped, I can only guess what they must of gone through. Even now after I've been safe from being touched for 4 years I can't go out publicly without having some sort of paranoia. [Even if I do have schizophrenia, my fear of being raped the idea it's self is very unappealing.] I don't like it. How can people be so disgusting? I don't think it's humorous at all. I can stand racist jokes about my kind. I can stand "beaner jokes" about my kind. I can stand "wetback jokes" about my kind. I'm not one to take easy offense. What I am is someone who doesn't want to take this. What I want is support. I want nothing more than that. I'm wondering how many people it will take to of had gone through a problem for them to realize it's not funny. It may be funny to them on another site. But mixing it in with socialization suddenly feels like it's not a joke. It's a serious issue. It's then more like bullying. It feels like people make fun of me. Like I deserved to of had gone through that in some way. What could ever make someone of had earned being raped? How can it be such a happy topic? It's one thing to have it on another site. It's one thing to see it in private. It's another thing to make posters of it. It's another thing to make videos and share them. To see things happening as they happen. It's not what you could ever imagine. It feels like suddenly after hearing what people say about rape being funny, I can't defend myself. Everywhere rape victims go, there's so much abuse. Why can't we as a society tell each other to knock it off? Why can't we stop making abuse funny? If bullying isn't funny because of the suicides, why is rape funny? Rape does sometimes results in suicide. How can that be funny at all?
  14. There is a super long thread on FB about how rape is "funny." Which in the end disgusted me and I ran away like a chicken but took one screen shot about what's going on. Apparantly a majority of people on FB think it's funny to post videos on rape and laugh at them. Not only that make jokes. Not only that, let facebook do nothing about it! The best part is ... It's on an INTJ forum! I'm outraged at this. What kind of people would even think to allow rape to be funny? What can we do to stop people from thinking physical abuse is okay? What can we do as masterminds to stop this? Surely with all the INTJ's on here we could all make a pseudonym FB and voice ourselves. Anyone with me?
  15. Certainly a lot of blue in these photos :)