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About avanteguardej

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    Female INTJ: I'm a Yankee Doodle Dandee!
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    on to the next, good times, noodle salad
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  1. I'm still not sure. I just want to be happy and bang on the drum all day.
  2. I believe I would do everything up to that point to not kill someone, so if, for some reason, I couldn't or wouldn't, only injure them; I don't think that I'd feel much guilt.
  3. Overall, in a lot of ways, yes. However, I meet plenty of people who are also smarter than me in a lot of ways. It really just depends on what the comparison for smart is. I like to be around people who I can learn something from and I have found that even a person who might not be considered highly intelligent has some skill, or system, or information, or process that they can offer up and I like that.
  4. I don't kill any spiders. I usually pick them up and put them outside or sometimes, I just leave them to find their own way home. I pretty much do that with all bugs.
  5. Nope. I rarely find anything offensive.
  6. I see everything but the 'bossy' and sarcastic is good!

  7. I like the little ones and they seem to like me. I didn't really want kids when I was young though, but thar changed.
  8. I've spent most of my life in a state of turmoil with my emotions. Things dont seem to affect me the same as other people and up until the last year or so, I've been pretty numb to them. I generally find my own negative emotions to be cumbersome, so I avoid them or internalize them a lot. I have trouble expressing my negative emotions properly and it feels wrong to me to not be able to control them. I do seem to have the ability to move logic ahead of emotion while the triggering event is happening, but once it's over, maybe days later, I will start to analyze each and every nuance. Nowadays, I try much harder to accept them and express them appropriately, but it's a constant battle.
  9. I basically have a friendship system where I keep friends who I consider their good traits to outweigh the bad. That refers to the traits that I personally find appealing or repulsive. It's always a sliding scale.
  10. Based on feedback and my own perceptions: Positives: Funny Smart Weird Non judgmental Friends like to use me as a sounding board Negatives: Sometimes too sarcastic Bossy Aloof, friends and family will often say they miss me. I often prefer to do things alone which can put people off.
  11. I'm not a natural redhead, so it probably doesn't apply to this thread, but my eyes are mostly green and I dye my hair red. It has garnered lots of attention from both men and women. Much more than any other color I've had or my natural color. People will compliment me all the time when I'm out in public walking or shopping or whatever.
  12. I have no idea. It seems mutually agreed upon.