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  1. Blame Introverted Sensing, and all of the XSXJs that use it...
  2. Excellent and insightful post...

  3. The fact that he frequently touches you is noteworthy. It is extremely rare for me to initiate physical contact, and in the unlikely event that I were to do so (repeatedly), it would only be with someone that I was very (physically/intellectually/emotionally) attracted to...
  4. Maybe just a TiNi bit more...?
  5. To those no longer with their partner/friend INFJs: What went wrong?
  6. "Legalizing drugs in Hamsterdam allowed (Bunny Colvin) to reassign police resources to solving quality felony cases elsewhere. After implementing the Hamsterdam plan for five weeks, Colvin delivered a cumulative 14% reduction in the felony rate, unheard of in the Western district's history."
  7. Where there's an "N", there's a way.
  8. I have no doubt that most (if not all) INTJs experience emotions, but at least some of us (particularly those of us on the Autism Spectrum) also experience alexithymia, or "the inability to identify and describe emotions in the self". I also think that many of us believe (whether correctly or not) that we base our decisions and behaviors primarily on "what makes sense and is logical" to us, rather than on "what I feel like doing".
  9. "Jasmine" is objectively the world's best tea variety.
  10. I've always seen myself as more of a sidekick than a hero, more of a Robin than a Batman. One of my favorite experiences in life was being the right-hand-man to an incredible ENTJ economics professor back in the day...
  11. INFJs are probably my favorite type. I currently have a female INFJ acquaintance (she's single, I'm a married man) that I have known for nearly 6 years. We hit it off immediately upon our first encounter, and we have continued to grow closer over time. She is one of the few people in my life that I can carry a conversation with, easily and naturally. I love spending time with her. I gather it's common for INFJs and INTJs to feel like they have a "magic" connection, in part because we are the only 2 types that have Introverted Intuition as our dominant function. We both have private inner worlds that we are hesitant to share with anyone other than a chosen few that can understand us and that are trustworthy. My INFJ acquaintance is one of my "chosen few", but it took 4-5 years of spending time together before she finally decided she could trust me enough to open up. We now have a very enjoyable "confidant(e)" like relationship that is very stimulating and fulfilling, I think for both of us...
  12. Check out websites such as www.rebootnation.org and www.youbrainonporn.com
  13. "I will cut your taxes and cut bureaucratic red tape!"
  14. When people scuff their feet when they walk When people walk slowly in front of me and won't let me get by them
  15. I think "live like you're dying" is largely XSXP propaganda that INTJs shouldn't be made to feel guilty about. If you are happy with your life, then keep living it the way you're living it.