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hi5yourface

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About hi5yourface

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    INFP
  • Enneagram
    4 SP/SO/SX
  • Global 5/SLOAN
    RCUAI
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    considerate creator

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  1. Long live the new flesh!

  2. You can think of INFPs as not being afraid of verbal expression of emotion. Communication on an emotional level is not something they'll be afraid of even if they don't expect the same from you. Maybe let her know the way that you express your own feelings so she can understand you better. It seems like she's over sharing in an effort to prompt you to share.
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  4. I approve of this fanfiction. It's opposites attracting in the best way and I'm crossing my fingers for a shipment on this one.
  5. I approve of this fanfiction. It's opposites attracting in the best way and I'm crossing my fingers for a shipment on this one.
  6. I approve of this fanfiction. It's opposites attracting in the best way and I'm crossing my fingers for a shipment on this one.
  7. INFJs imo are some of the most rigorous to form a relationship with people you'll ever meet. They expect a lot from a partner and betray their trust and they'll never get over that. Honesty in all things with an INFJ.
  8. Yes I have come to this point and I understand the dilemma you face. When you feel yourself focusing too much on how to get love in return those are the moments you need to actively give it to yourself by listening to your body and mind in the moment and moving in the direction of what you really want.
  9. I've come to recognize people who generally brag about how good they are at lying or ignoring people or just generally congratulating themselves on asshole behavior as major red flags for any interpersonal dealings. These attitudes and traits are more important than common interests or even your ability to get along as these types of people usually would barely flinch at betraying you in deep ways. It seems that on a level you're afraid of him which isn't uncommon when you sense predator like behavior. He sounds like a sociopath, your simultaneous feelings of hate and pity even suggest it as pity is what they use most to manipulate you into staying in the abuse cycle.
  10. Why should sex be an intimate act?

  11. It can be, I would say it should be but it isn't always an intimate act. Sometimes it's demeaning, sometimes it's shallow, sometimes it's just an addiction.

  12. That's true, it's not easily found and it doesn't mean failure if one hasn't found it but the arena of thinking that dating means looking at hot, young girls in a lineup and picking at a buffet is certainly gross and can be picked up on by the girls themselves who almost always find it creepy. I don't mean to sound judgmental about people looking for connection but most girls don't even want to be approached by men who are only interested in them because they're hot or young. It's demeaning, at best and especially when approached by a much older man which you would think sounds hot but is pretty much mostly gross.
  13. why isn't sex an intimate act?

  14. Not connecting with most people is the point. Real intimacy isn't something you can attain with everyone you're physically attracted to but it's always better when you can. Sex alone isn't really a very intimate act though I would argue that it probably should be and that most people, even the ones who are paying for it are seeking greater intimacy than just sex. The point isn't whether or not people like to look or touch beautiful things but that true connection comes from more than just that.