"I need time to think"... - Page 2

**ALLIELIV** · 07-07-2012, 09:56 PM

so if it basically means "its over I just don't want to be mean", then I don't have to be the bad gu..yay!

But the whole offering the phone number & cash still has me confussed. If was breaking up\tleast in my mind) I wouldn't give you another way to cntact me,id want to break cntact. And I dang sure wouldn't offer any money! Were not dating, not my problem! And the whole "don't worry, I won't sleep wth anyone else" is weird to.if its over who cares who you sleep with? Def. Isn't your ex's business! Wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't do any of that..would you?

Hope it was just a curtesy or he felt guilty or something and he really is gone lol

**Causa Mortis** · 07-08-2012, 12:08 AM

	Originally Posted by warweasel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	When I say I need time to think, I actually mean exactly that. I need time to think. Time & space. However... the last time I said that, I thought myself right out of a relationship, for what that's worth.

That's really the crux of the issue, isn't it? When in good relationships, I don't even think about it at all. Unless you've got kids or significant financial entanglements, move the fuck on.

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 01:24 AM

He just sent me an email that says "I hope you're ok allie.I miss you." Then he attachs his lab work due Monday & asks me to overlook if its right.

I don't think I should respond at all.

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 01:27 AM

Just do his homework for him!

Jesus woman! Stop being so difficult!

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 01:48 AM

He asks for time to think then thinks ill check over his hw? Pssh whatever! Get used to me not being there because I'm already over it & gone.

Midhiel · 07-08-2012, 02:07 AM

Hahaha, wow. I mean...it's not funny, but it really is. I would love to know what on earth is going on in his head right now.

That's definitely the final dick move, though. I'm glad you're moving past him, because that's just...stupid, it's stupid. xD

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 02:09 AM

He's tryin' to get his woman to act correctly, but she's bein' a bitch!

That's what's goin' through his head right now!

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 02:18 AM

Oh yea lol..I was worried about leaving & a small(really really small) part of me wanted to stay but really.you contact me so I can help you with your hw?!? I'm done! I'm too good a person to deal with this bull. You can check your work & sleep with whomever you please..just like I can. Best beieve the hottie at the gym(I've gone every day since he left) who asked for my number today,most def. Got it lol it was the first time I looked at a man sexually & didn't feel guilty since I met that pos excuse for a man lol.

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 02:38 AM

Man, sounds like this guy just didn't know how to fuck you.

What a wuss.

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 02:49 AM

	Originally Posted by AlfredSchnittke To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Man, sounds like this guy just didn't know how to fuck you. What a wuss.

Well according to him, I'm the one that didn't know how to fuck lol..because I didn't hve orgasims durng sex all the tim something was wrong with me because ALL of his other gf always orgasimed..I orgasimed once in over 2 1/2 years lol..i my problem was an arrogent assphalt who only wanted me to orgasim to feed his ego! But I digress lol

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 02:54 AM

Or maybe you suck in bed...

Or don't suck enough...

How are you at sucking cock?

Midhiel · 07-08-2012, 02:57 AM

	Originally Posted by AlfredSchnittke To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Or maybe you suck in bed... Or don't suck enough... How are you at sucking cock?

I somehow feel that her lack of orgasm wasn't due to not giving enough or good enough blowjobs.

But, you know, everyone is different. I could be wrong.

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 02:59 AM

Hey, well, her pleasure is her problem.

That's what all the bitches in the fake orgasms thread said.

The guy did his part, he shot his load inside of her right?

That's really all that's required.

Maybe if she sucked his dick better he'd fuck her better or something.

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 03:18 AM

	Originally Posted by AlfredSchnittke To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Or maybe you suck in bed... Or don't suck enough... How are you at sucking cock?

Yea ok lol..the dude would blow his load in like 5 minutes! There was no foreplay & if I tried he always said "no,I want to be inside you". Umm yea, warm the oven bro cause dry vagina is not a welcoming host! And it hurts like hell! No,trust the problem was him. I tried to fix it,he fucked another woman(well really 2)
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Never heard any complaints till he got caught cheating. Then I suck in bed because I don't make him feel like I "want" him like she di and I don't orgasim during intercourse like she did. Then we needed a threesme so I could "learn how to fuck"...yea right!

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 03:21 AM

Well, it's your responsibility to get your pussy all wet for your man. Ain't his problem.

Jesus, slow him down with a blowjob or some shit!

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 03:24 AM

	Originally Posted by AlfredSchnittke To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Well, it's your responsibility to get your pussy all wet for your man. Ain't his problem. Jesus, slow him down with a blowjob or some shit!

Yea but for example. Your sleeping.he wakes you up with a boner and says "roll over I wanna do you" and tries sticing his dick in you..took loonger to get it in than he lasted!

Blowjob. Tried. He said he "loved the feeling inside" me and it was better than a blowjob.he said they didn't suck,but intercourse was better...whatever!

**superflax** · 07-08-2012, 03:25 AM

Even if it isn't his way of breaking up, why don't you take it as that and move the fuck on? What else is there to hold on to in this disaster of a relationship?

It's like holding on to the ashes of your house swearing you'll mend it with these very ashes after the whole thing's burnt down.

:/

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 03:28 AM

	Originally Posted by ALLIELIV To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Yea but for example. Your sleeping.he wakes you up with a boner and says "roll over I wanna do you" and tries sticing his dick in you..took loonger to get it in than he lasted! Blowjob. Tried. He said he "loved the feeling inside" me and it was better than a blowjob.he said they didn't suck,but intercourse was better...whatever!

Well, whatever I guess...

Hopefully you find a guy that can fuck you properly.

You ever orgasm on your own?

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 03:36 AM

	Originally Posted by AlfredSchnittke To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Well, whatever I guess... Hopefully you find a guy that can fuck you properly. You ever orgasm on your own?

Yea hopefully.
Oh most def .on my own..its not that I can't,its that I couldn't with HIM! Lol

**AlfredSchnittke** · 07-08-2012, 03:48 AM

Why were you even with a guy that couldn't make you orgasm?...0.o

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 04:05 AM

	Originally Posted by AlfredSchnittke To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Why were you even with a guy that couldn't make you orgasm?...0.o

Well he's the only man I've been with lmao..I talked to my friends and they said "its normal" so I said ok I guess this is sex! Nothing to compare it made it seem normal.I mean it wasn't BAD per say, but it wasnt anything exciting..[shrugs] live & learn right? Lol

**warweasel** · 07-08-2012, 09:32 AM

	Originally Posted by Causa Mortis To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	That's really the crux of the issue, isn't it? When in good relationships, I don't even think about it at all. Unless you've got kids or significant financial entanglements, move the fuck on.

Apparently so...

**ALLIELIV** · 07-08-2012, 02:56 PM

So he actually meant he wanted the time to think about things and get his out of control emotions together NOT think about leaving me. He "could never leave" me!....means I have to do it...OY!

**INTroJect** · 07-08-2012, 03:18 PM

The only time I have ever used it was when I wanted to put some separation to let the waters calm, and then end the relationship.

He may think that the relationship needs to be ended because he cheated, you found out about it, and this is how the narrative is supposed to go. You found out about this situation, but maybe there are some things over the course of history that you don't know the whole story about.

'Open relationship'? Screw that boring idea. 'Cheating' is more fun.

Midhiel · 07-08-2012, 04:21 PM

	Originally Posted by ALLIELIV To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	So he actually meant he wanted the time to think about things and get his out of control emotions together NOT think about leaving me. He "could never leave" me!....means I have to do it...OY!

So are you ready?

07-07-2012, 09:56 PM	#26
ALLIELIV Member [02%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 108	so if it basically means "its over I just don't want to be mean", then I don't have to be the bad gu..yay! But the whole offering the phone number & cash still has me confussed. If was breaking up\tleast in my mind) I wouldn't give you another way to cntact me,id want to break cntact. And I dang sure wouldn't offer any money! Were not dating, not my problem! And the whole "don't worry, I won't sleep wth anyone else" is weird to.if its over who cares who you sleep with? Def. Isn't your ex's business! Wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't do any of that..would you? Hope it was just a curtesy or he felt guilty or something and he really is gone lol
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07-08-2012, 01:24 AM	#28
ALLIELIV Member [02%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 108	He just sent me an email that says "I hope you're ok allie.I miss you." Then he attachs his lab work due Monday & asks me to overlook if its right. I don't think I should respond at all.
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07-08-2012, 01:27 AM	#29
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	Just do his homework for him! Jesus woman! Stop being so difficult!
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07-08-2012, 01:48 AM	#30
ALLIELIV Member [02%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 108	He asks for time to think then thinks ill check over his hw? Pssh whatever! Get used to me not being there because I'm already over it & gone.
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07-08-2012, 02:07 AM	#31
Midhiel Veteran Member [86%] MBTI: IxTJ Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 3,459	Hahaha, wow. I mean...it's not funny, but it really is. I would love to know what on earth is going on in his head right now. That's definitely the final dick move, though. I'm glad you're moving past him, because that's just...stupid, it's stupid. xD
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07-08-2012, 02:09 AM	#32
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	He's tryin' to get his woman to act correctly, but she's bein' a bitch! That's what's goin' through his head right now!
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07-08-2012, 02:18 AM	#33
ALLIELIV Member [02%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 108	Oh yea lol..I was worried about leaving & a small(really really small) part of me wanted to stay but really.you contact me so I can help you with your hw?!? I'm done! I'm too good a person to deal with this bull. You can check your work & sleep with whomever you please..just like I can. Best beieve the hottie at the gym(I've gone every day since he left) who asked for my number today,most def. Got it lol it was the first time I looked at a man sexually & didn't feel guilty since I met that pos excuse for a man lol.
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07-08-2012, 02:38 AM	#34
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	Man, sounds like this guy just didn't know how to fuck you. What a wuss.
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07-08-2012, 02:54 AM	#36
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	Or maybe you suck in bed... Or don't suck enough... How are you at sucking cock?
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07-08-2012, 02:59 AM	#38
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	Hey, well, her pleasure is her problem. That's what all the bitches in the fake orgasms thread said. The guy did his part, he shot his load inside of her right? That's really all that's required. Maybe if she sucked his dick better he'd fuck her better or something.
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07-08-2012, 03:21 AM	#40
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	Well, it's your responsibility to get your pussy all wet for your man. Ain't his problem. Jesus, slow him down with a blowjob or some shit!
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07-08-2012, 03:25 AM	#42
superflax Member [33%] MBTI: ENFJ Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,335	Even if it isn't his way of breaking up, why don't you take it as that and move the fuck on? What else is there to hold on to in this disaster of a relationship? It's like holding on to the ashes of your house swearing you'll mend it with these very ashes after the whole thing's burnt down. :/ Last edited by superflax; 07-08-2012 at 10:49 AM.
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07-08-2012, 03:48 AM	#45
AlfredSchnittke Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,268	Why were you even with a guy that couldn't make you orgasm?...0.o
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07-08-2012, 02:56 PM	#48
ALLIELIV Member [02%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 108	So he actually meant he wanted the time to think about things and get his out of control emotions together NOT think about leaving me. He "could never leave" me!....means I have to do it...OY!
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07-08-2012, 03:18 PM	#49
INTroJect Restricted [forum rules] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 7,677	The only time I have ever used it was when I wanted to put some separation to let the waters calm, and then end the relationship. He may think that the relationship needs to be ended because he cheated, you found out about it, and this is how the narrative is supposed to go. You found out about this situation, but maybe there are some things over the course of history that you don't know the whole story about. 'Open relationship'? Screw that boring idea. 'Cheating' is more fun.
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