[s4nder]

He's Dutch as far as I know so doors aren't just left unlocked because no-one lives within a thousand miles. Not all societies are the "every man for himself" cut-throat model of USA where the biggest douchebag always wins.

[zibber]

	Originally Posted by Shadizar To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	There are no northern provinces; there are provinces and territories, territories being north of the provinces... and there are only three of them, yukon, northwest, and nunavik. And anyone north of 50 can leave their front door open, never mind unlocked.

Righto. Thank you for your relevant and important contribution?

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What makes you think this is a specific comment? Everyone has to take such precautions generally. Why the fuck do you think the legal profession exists? Why do actuaries have jobs? Why are hedge fund managers paid so much to manage risks of investments?... Everywhere you look, people are trying to take advantage of other people in all kinds of ways. Either you figure out how to protect yourself, or you get fucked. Maybe you think it shouldn't be like that. Well, tough shit, this is not heaven, it's not ideal. You are free to cry all you want, and complain all you want, but it won't change the nature of life on this backwater rock we inhabit. Btw, where are you on that thread where a woman is advocating that guys take advantage of women? Seems like you'd have an amusing voice to throw in, if only for the shits n giggles.

I'd respond, but I'm not sure what you're going on about and either way, you're too suspended to read this.

[Harmony]

I never was much for the "cad" type... I was always drawn to the nerds. Probably because they wouldn't make fun of me for playing video games... Maybe I just haven't noticed it, but I can't say that I've ever been attracted to a different type when I was ovulating. I've always been attracted to the pasty white red heads regardless of hormone levels.
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As far as abuse... The worst physical abuse cases I've seen have been from women, oddly enough. My aunt (that we no longer speak to) freaked out one day because she knocked her husband to the ground and was kicking him in the ribs so hard she was afraid she broke his ribs. (I should add that the guy stayed with her for 12 years, until she asked for a divorce... And now she's been married to another guy that she abuses and they've been together for 18 years) On the flip side, my cousin's jerk of a boyfriend abuses her and she almost always leaves him, but eventually ends up back with him... So far, the latest time, she's kept her distance. *crosses fingers* And then there was the Hooters girl I used to hang out with... That girl was a fighter. She beat the crap out of her boyfriend (who was a bouncer), and when he called the cops, they came to the house and asked if she was okay, meanwhile he's in the kitchen with a bloody nose.

Hmm... Maybe they should do a study on female abusers and see if there is a connection to their ovulation and when they abuse their mates.
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Honestly though.... I just hate being judged for other women's actions/desires. I've always been a tom boy, so I've always had a hard time relating to the "typical" woman.

[LadySpock]

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Maybe this explains some of it: The object relations theory postulates that because women are mostly responsible for parenting, mothers emphasize the importance of relationships to their daughters while pushing their sons into independence. Sarah Rosenfield uses this theory to argue that males and females develop different kinds of symptoms when they are mentally ill. Men display externalized symptoms, expressing problematic emotions in outward behavior. Women tend to develop internalized symptoms, where problematic feelings are directed towards the self. In accordance with the internalized-externalized dichotomy, women are more commonly diagnosed with mental illnesses such as anxiety, depression, phobias, and borderline personality disorder. Men more commonly experience substance abuse, antisocial disorders, and violence.[2] Both men and women are more likely to be institutionalized if their diagnosis is not typical of their gender (Martha Lang, 2006).

Perhaps the problem is here "women are mostly responsible for parenting." A child needs both parents. Little boys 7 girls who have hardly any real & meaningful interactions with their male parent could be the issue - not that the mothers are "parenting wrong."

The couple is living wrong in behaving as if parenting is primarily wimmin's work.

[curiousgeorge01]

	Originally Posted by LadySpock To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Perhaps the problem is here "women are mostly responsible for parenting." A child needs both parents. Little boys 7 girls who have hardly any real & meaningful interactions with their male parent could be the issue - not that the mothers are "parenting wrong." The couple is living wrong in behaving as if parenting is primarily wimmin's work.

I don't think the parents' are necessarily teaching their children wrong. After all, if the man doesn't want the child then it does primarily become the woman's job to raise the child. This happens in the majority of the cases, that the woman is "stuck" with the child.

[SeverusSin]

	Originally Posted by LadySpock To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Perhaps the problem is here "women are mostly responsible for parenting." A child needs both parents. Little boys 7 girls who have hardly any real & meaningful interactions with their male parent could be the issue - not that the mothers are "parenting wrong." The couple is living wrong in behaving as if parenting is primarily wimmin's work.

I think history tells us its primarily women's work, not because I say so or because I agree with the statement, I actually don't think it should be viewed as such. It so happens that looking back throughout history, from our current standpoint, that is what we are taught. Its also prevalent cross-culture. I hope someone can highlight cultures outside the Western world where this isn't the case though as I'm sure there must be a few.

[what yeah okay]

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	Ovulation Leads Women to Perceive Sexy Cads as Good Dads Kristina M. Durante The University of Texas at San Antonio Vladas Griskevicius, Jeffry A. Simpson, and Stephanie M. Cantu University of Minnesota, Twin Cities Campus