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I understood that you were setting it up as a "lesser of two evils" scenario, but I'm asking what your criteria are and why you seem to be locked into this false dichotomy. Does insulting people's intelligence usually enable you to waffle?
Which you will explain when? |
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Because my experience as a parent and foster parent raising multiple productive, successful children who are all well mannered seems more important than someone who works in law. |
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Yeah, I still don't see what this has to do with a program being put in place in Memphis other than for you to prove some kind of unrelated point that you say you haven't admitted to even making. Maybe I missed a comment, but I didn't see what made for this transition. From what I skimmed, the best practice model in here included what I said about having a shrink in-house but funding prevents it. I'll give it a looksie later, for I have a linguistics class I need to be at 45 minutes early to. Adios. |
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How do you figure there's any waffling?
If this is something I must explain you are literally too stupid for my time, rather than someone who might be insulted into providing a firm position.
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Assumptions that make you go thus far and no further.
You throw around terms like "efficient" and "desirable" but switch between what's efficient and desirable for the system and what you find ethical. I really don't know how many more ways there are to ask the same set of questions. The attempt at using bullying tactics is consistent with the argument, though, so at least you have that. |
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I'm so sorry you feel bullied!! Do you think it'll make you go on a murderous rampage? Is there something perhaps the state could do to intervene? |
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Why be limited by what the state has chosen so far?
One does not follow from the other. I agree with your premise but you've yet to show that "recourse" to corporal punishment is the only viable alternative.
Again, limiting. Why should it do what it used to do, instead of something else entirely?
My point was that your tactics aren't working, but they do reveal a limitation in your thinking. It's telling that you said:
That you think insulting me is a valid or necessary tactic suggests that maybe the problem isn't that alternative methods of discourse and teaching don't work so much as that you are not able to understand them.
My position is that the system isn't inefficient, but unethical, and you're conflating the two. |
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Wrong it has to do with Memphis because Memphis is the one talking about parent report cards. |
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If they leave the system as statists, then the damage is done. Do public schools even teach philosophy? |
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Best I could figure out, the topic of this thread was related to state action/potential action. I chose to bring in conversation about the actual actions of another state, foolishly hoping people here possessed sufficient intelligence to draw some parallels.
Where did you get the idea that I think it's the only viable alternative? I thought that I'd already offered an option to simply shoot children who misbehave.
I suppose we could advocate for the public education system to turn all enrolled children into rock stars, genies, or any number of other things. It seems foolish though.
You throw around the word "point" preceeded by a possessive pronoun. We must having differing definitions.
You're 100% correct in concluding that I don't understand you. I also don't understand serial killers, pedophiles, etc. Not certain this makes me stupid.
Thanks for sharing that.
I understand the theory behind the report cards. It is borne of the incredibly arrogant position that everything public schools are doing to mentor children is 100% flawless, therefore if there are deficiencies they must reside with the parents. |
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Why limit yourself to those two options instead of considering non-corporal methods?
Correction: why limit yourself to those three options instead of considering non-corporal methods?
Correction: why limit--
Ok.
I am a non corporal method.
You can have half of my sandwich too. |
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The ones I attended did as does the high school my kids have/will attend. |
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Are they statists? |
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You're more familiar with your own area than I. I'll defer to your view of your specific geography. The conditions you describe below are not present in many troubled schools here in Texas, definitely not in the ones with which I'm experienced and which were then the impetus for my own research.
The entire country is experiencing a crisis decades in the making, not just Memphis schools. The trouble is too few people realize it, others who do have no idea what the causes were and therefore none as to what the solutions may be. |
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No. I am |
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And just in case anyone missed it, what I'm saying is that child-rearing is the responsibility of EVERYONE who voluntarily chooses to be involved with children. There's no logic in one party refusing to perform based upon the personal opinion that another involved party is performing poorly.
If you're in a leaking boat, do you quit bailing because you feel others aren't bailing as well as they should or could? If we can't develop a workable solution maybe we should begin academic education later in life. Wait and see whether the parents can provide a cooperative student before wasting public funds. That's more reasonable than pointing fingers. ---------- Post added 04-30-2012 at 09:16 PM ----------
I am truly sorry you were abused. But all corporal punishment does not constitute abuse. In my view, even punishment that borders on physical abuse is preferable to the alternative of having children funneled into the prison system because we refuse to first try something less abusive than that. |
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Thank you for your concern. But a system that legitimizes corporal punishment lends itself quite smoothly to abuse glibly dismissed with lines about "a firm swat on the ass". The same glibness is one of the lessons learned as the normalized way to speak about it without worrying about placement in categories of strength based on damage done. |
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Again, in the meantime the show must go on. Until we have methods that eliminate the need for corporal punishment it stands as an option that is less abusive than one now being used instead. |
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Meaning are the public? Yes. |
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No, that's not what I meant. But at this point, we're just going to have to agree to disagree. But I do ask that you at least consider the possibility that a highly structured, regimented environment is harmful to certain subsets of children. |
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lol, good luck doing that with some of the families in control of Memphis. |
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Well, if people accept the status quo, then they deserve what is happening to them. Some people just lurve being raped by politicos. |
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Eh, the families have been in power for a long time. The ancien riche are hard to root out of any city. They don't totally rape their citizenry either. Enough is given to keep them in power. There are benefits to backing the Ford family and others. Schools just aren't really one of them.
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Are "we" limited to the methods of the state?
Is "not abusive" too difficult?
Only from incarceration.
Does corporal punishment benefit children? |
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You've asked this question in one form or another many times. I'll tell you what, assume infinite possibilities and then go ahead and provide a list of your personal top 10.
nah, just too ineffective.
Unless you're typing from a prison cell, I'd say that's mighty courageous of you.
As a matter of fact there are some studies which indicate that it does. My personal belief is that there aren't any valid studies pro or con but hey, torture numbers. |
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