ENFP wanting to understand INTJ

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 12:44 AM

Hi, new ENFP here. I'm curious if INTJ is really suppose to be my soul mate. I've only dated Artisans...is it really different dating a INTJ?

Cooper · 02-16-2012, 12:49 AM

Welcome to the Alley...

Works for me. Dating an ENFP, that is. And, some of us are artists....

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 12:53 AM

lol...I guess i'm slightly frustrated cause the guy I've been crushing on (INTJ) isn't interested and I'm wondering what I'm missing. I figured this sight might give me insight.

**IreOfDesire** · 02-16-2012, 12:53 AM

If by Artisians you mean xSxPs then yes, there's nothing in common.
Welcome.

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 12:54 AM

fyi I'm slightly drunk and mad due to the rejection...sorry for the error in typing

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I just don't understand how someone your suppose to be perfect for couldn't be into you. Please explain the mind of the INTJ

Cooper · 02-16-2012, 12:57 AM

You can always start a thread in the Gender and Attraction sub-forum asking such a question. You will get more replies there then you will here in Intros.

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 12:59 AM

straight forward answer....most appreciated. Thanks!

**IreOfDesire** · 02-16-2012, 01:02 AM

MBTI dating predictions generally fail miserably. Relationships are much more complicated than 4 scales and 8 functions.
It's a common saying that INTJ-ENFP is the perfect match, but there are far too many exceptions and disagreeing to call this a rule. I don't fall for ENFPs (anymore) nor dedicated artists.

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 01:13 AM

Wait...so who do you date?

Cooper · 02-16-2012, 01:18 AM

	Originally Posted by IreOfDesire
	MBTI dating predictions generally fail miserably. Relationships are much more complicated than 4 scales and 8 functions. It's a common saying that INTJ-ENFP is the perfect match, but there are far too many exceptions and disagreeing to call this a rule. I don't fall for ENFPs (anymore) nor dedicated artists.

Its worked for me.....

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 01:26 AM

Hmmmm. Ok thanks ill think that over cheers!

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Btw bad ass image Cooper...me likely

**ppu6502** · 02-16-2012, 01:28 AM

There are plenty of us INTJ here, just select one from the pile, leave a small tip and enjoy your day!

**151artist** · 02-16-2012, 01:30 AM

Lol thanks I needed that. I know im going to regret posting to this site in the a.m....curiosity killed the cat

**intjistp** · 02-16-2012, 01:30 AM

Hi!

I always confuse Artesans with Courtesans.

Cooper · 02-16-2012, 01:37 AM

	Originally Posted by 151artist
	Lol thanks I needed that. I know im going to regret posting to this site in the a.m....curiosity killed the cat

But you'll come back anyway.

**RedOrange823** · 02-16-2012, 02:09 AM

Welcome to the forum

**superflax** · 02-16-2012, 03:54 AM

I would like to know if an ENFP is my ideal partner too so don't hesitate to message if you want to ask something!

But, I am a very weak J. Not sure if that changes that much but it might do.

Anyway, welcome to the forum!

**deconspire** · 02-16-2012, 06:44 AM

Hello, welcome!

Me, I don't correlate soulmates and typeology. Although in theory, it would be amusing to administer mbti tests to girls I meet. "Hi. You're pretty. Now fill this out."

**JackCY** · 02-16-2012, 07:20 AM

welcome, just don't get stuck on MBTI or other descriptions/definitions, everybody is different though we share a little of some similarities

enjoy the forum

**DelphianEtude** · 02-16-2012, 09:01 AM

Hello 151artist.

**Koarla** · 02-16-2012, 04:41 PM

Most intj girls ive meet have not interested me. Most girls i have been interested in have been intj, though.

**SarcasticVlad** · 02-16-2012, 05:14 PM

Welcome.

Rudimentary creature of blood and flesh. You touch my mind, fumbling in ignorance, incapable of understanding.
We are in a realm of existence so far beyond your own you cannot even imagine it. We are beyond your comprehension. INTJ is just a label created by feelers to give voice to their destruction. In the end, what they choose to call us is irrelevant. We simply... are.
Our kind transcends your very understanding. We are each a nation. Independent. Free of all weakness. You cannot even grasp the nature of our existence. We impose order on the chaos of organic evolution. You exist because we allow it, and you will end because we demand it.

This exchange is over.

**theiceman** · 02-16-2012, 10:08 PM

Hi, welcome to the forum.

Can't give you an answer to your question, I've never dated an ENFP...or most types for that matter.

**Krinoh** · 02-17-2012, 01:03 PM

Don't regret posting - this isn't only for INTJ's. If you're interested in the dialogue, stay.

02-16-2012, 12:44 AM	#1
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	Hi, new ENFP here. I'm curious if INTJ is really suppose to be my soul mate. I've only dated Artisans...is it really different dating a INTJ?
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02-16-2012, 12:49 AM	#2
Cooper Core Member [1363%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 54,541	Welcome to the Alley... Works for me. Dating an ENFP, that is. And, some of us are artists....
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02-16-2012, 12:53 AM	#3
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	lol...I guess i'm slightly frustrated cause the guy I've been crushing on (INTJ) isn't interested and I'm wondering what I'm missing. I figured this sight might give me insight.
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02-16-2012, 12:53 AM	#4
IreOfDesire Member [16%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 667	If by Artisians you mean xSxPs then yes, there's nothing in common. Welcome.
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02-16-2012, 12:54 AM	#5
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	fyi I'm slightly drunk and mad due to the rejection...sorry for the error in typing ---------- Post added 02-16-2012 at 12:55 AM ---------- I just don't understand how someone your suppose to be perfect for couldn't be into you. Please explain the mind of the INTJ
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02-16-2012, 12:57 AM	#6
Cooper Core Member [1363%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 54,541	You can always start a thread in the Gender and Attraction sub-forum asking such a question. You will get more replies there then you will here in Intros.
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02-16-2012, 12:59 AM	#7
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	straight forward answer....most appreciated. Thanks!
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02-16-2012, 01:02 AM	#8
IreOfDesire Member [16%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 667	MBTI dating predictions generally fail miserably. Relationships are much more complicated than 4 scales and 8 functions. It's a common saying that INTJ-ENFP is the perfect match, but there are far too many exceptions and disagreeing to call this a rule. I don't fall for ENFPs (anymore) nor dedicated artists.
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02-16-2012, 01:13 AM	#9
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	Wait...so who do you date?
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02-16-2012, 01:26 AM	#11
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	Hmmmm. Ok thanks ill think that over cheers! ---------- Post added 02-16-2012 at 01:28 AM ---------- Btw bad ass image Cooper...me likely
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02-16-2012, 01:28 AM	#12
ppu6502 Special Snowflake MBTI: INTj Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 11,806	There are plenty of us INTJ here, just select one from the pile, leave a small tip and enjoy your day!
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02-16-2012, 01:30 AM	#13
151artist New Member [01%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 7	Lol thanks I needed that. I know im going to regret posting to this site in the a.m....curiosity killed the cat
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02-16-2012, 01:30 AM	#14
intjistp Member [24%] MBTI: xxxx Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 993	Hi! I always confuse Artesans with Courtesans.
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02-16-2012, 02:09 AM	#16
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02-16-2012, 03:54 AM	#17
superflax Member [33%] MBTI: ENFJ Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,335	I would like to know if an ENFP is my ideal partner too so don't hesitate to message if you want to ask something! But, I am a very weak J. Not sure if that changes that much but it might do. Anyway, welcome to the forum!
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02-16-2012, 06:44 AM	#18
deconspire Core Member [192%] MBTI: INTP Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7,706	Hello, welcome! Me, I don't correlate soulmates and typeology. Although in theory, it would be amusing to administer mbti tests to girls I meet. "Hi. You're pretty. Now fill this out."
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02-16-2012, 07:20 AM	#19
JackCY Core Member [111%] MBTI: INTj Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 4,457	welcome, just don't get stuck on MBTI or other descriptions/definitions, everybody is different though we share a little of some similarities enjoy the forum
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02-16-2012, 09:01 AM	#20
DelphianEtude Member [09%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 367	Hello 151artist.
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02-16-2012, 04:41 PM	#21
Koarla Member [02%] MBTI: ENFP Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 111	Most intj girls ive meet have not interested me. Most girls i have been interested in have been intj, though.
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02-16-2012, 05:14 PM	#22
SarcasticVlad Veteran Member [66%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 2,649	Welcome. Rudimentary creature of blood and flesh. You touch my mind, fumbling in ignorance, incapable of understanding. We are in a realm of existence so far beyond your own you cannot even imagine it. We are beyond your comprehension. INTJ is just a label created by feelers to give voice to their destruction. In the end, what they choose to call us is irrelevant. We simply... are. Our kind transcends your very understanding. We are each a nation. Independent. Free of all weakness. You cannot even grasp the nature of our existence. We impose order on the chaos of organic evolution. You exist because we allow it, and you will end because we demand it. This exchange is over.
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02-16-2012, 10:08 PM	#23
theiceman Member [42%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 1,705	Hi, welcome to the forum. Can't give you an answer to your question, I've never dated an ENFP...or most types for that matter.
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02-17-2012, 01:03 PM	#24
Krinoh Member [09%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 382	Don't regret posting - this isn't only for INTJ's. If you're interested in the dialogue, stay.
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