[Nightmare]

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The thing about us INTJ's is that we are so much smarter than most people. Your roomie probably recognizes your intelligence and so feels the need to run things past you. And b/c we are smarter we tend to become impatient when others do not understand what is clearly obvious to us. I agree with what's already been said-- that he probably looks up to you. It's reasonable to think that he would not understand why you are irritated with him. But you are the only one who can change the way he makes you feel. In fact, the ball is in your court. You either get over it already or do something else.

Your INTJ praise is indeed cordial, but I would like to make clear I am not INTJ. I'm a strong ENFP
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[Muse]

Sometimes when people say "For real?" I say "No, for fake."

At least he talks to you. Sounds like a decent roommate.

Sircockburn is right; First world problems. After enough really tough situations and life experiences I came to the conclusion that a persons speech pattern isn't nearly as important as their behavior pattern.

I would probably turn it into a joke if I was you. Use a British accent and say
"Indeed sir, for I am very truthful." Or maybe a quote from the bible.

"Well, I am the truth the way and the life."

[Haumea]

You're mad at him because of what appears to be a face-saving reflex?

You've already said he's a moron, you want him to be a humbled moron as well?

[ctiquila]

Oh, my bad. You exhibit the classic symptoms of superiority found in most INTJ's.

Most ENFPs will exhibit the following strengths with regards to relationships issues:

Good communication skills
Very perceptive about people's thought and motives
Motivational, inspirational; bring out the best in others
Warmly affectionate and affirming
Fun to be with - lively sense of humor, dramatic, energetic, optimistic
Strive for "win-win" situations
Driven to meet other's needs
Usually loyal and dedicated

I just didn't see much of this in your post.

[Nightmare]

Originally Posted by ctiquila To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Oh, my bad. You exhibit the classic symptoms of superiority found in most INTJ's. Most ENFPs will exhibit the following strengths with regards to relationships issues: Good communication skills Very perceptive about people's thought and motives Motivational, inspirational; bring out the best in others Warmly affectionate and affirming Fun to be with - lively sense of humor, dramatic, energetic, optimistic Strive for "win-win" situations Driven to meet other's needs Usually loyal and dedicated I just didn't see much of this in your post.

I'm going through a rough time at the moment. I'm mostly just bitter.

[followthehippos]

I don't blame you for being annoyed man. I'm very careful to never get caught up with certain phrases as a generic form of response. It's like, going through the motions when having a conversation, who wants that? So, I agree with you.

It's funny though, because I do say true from time to time in response to explanations others provide. Usually it occurs when I getting into a logical fret with someone and they make a very valid point and I respond, "true" as if to say, "touche, you just lightened a truth I hadn't considered/recognized."

However, the way he uses it seems pretty pointless which is why I find it absurd. If I were in your shoes, I'd simply be like, "is it?! is it true?!" to catch him off guard but make sure he knows you're annoyed. Then when he asks what's up, or whenever the conversation shifts that way (you could delay it for however long you wanted to vent some emotion), and you just explain your annoyance at his use of the word.

I'm not sure if that's the best approach, but I feel showing emotions can really help express the importance of the situation. Even though this is minor. So, maybe don't freak out too much, just enough to get your point across.

P.S. I think my advice is terrible, but I'm going with it. Cheers!

[EdmontonAspie]

Originally Posted by nightmar149 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

My roommate says "true" as a response quite a lot. It bothers me incredibly. Is anyone else bothered by this? The reason I get pissed about this is that I feel it is an arrogant mask covering unintelligence or lack of knowledge in an area. It leads to appearing falsely omnipotent. I'll give you a typical situation where this bothers me: Him: What are some foods that are high in protein? I'm looking to get more protein in my diet. Me: Fish is high in protein, and is lean. Similarly, turkey and chicken are good choices. Him: True. I may be overreacting, but I internally rage every time this situation occurs. He asks me a question, then when I respond with the proper answer, he responds with "true", as if he knew the answer but was looking for another opinion. Here's the thing: he doesn't know. He's a moron. RAGE.

Ok. Go on. Tell me more. I...wasn't sure what you just said. Could you explain that?
All right. Mm-hmm. (In other words, invite him to use other ways to show his interest in your current subject of conversation.)