[AnnaMolly]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I've just gotten so used to being the one who is chased, so being the aggressor was completely unknown to me. If that boy forces me to switch my style, then I deserve a reward, thus I am allowed to rape him. Rape is my reward for a job well done..

For the love of a deity whose existence I doubt, please stop blatantly misusing the word "rape". It doesn't sound sexual or funny or whatever you intend to convey with it, it's just obnoxious and highly offensive.

Also, you should seriously respect his decision. He's not a "boy", he's a guy. His partner was older, which indicates he's probably into older guys. He wanted to have sex with an older guy, not with you. Grow up.
Besides, I still can't begin to understand how you can spend hours feeling bad and bitching about missing out on an experience that would've been less than an hour, probably. You really didn't lose out on anything especially meaningful or important.

[Uriel]

	Originally Posted by AnnaMolly To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Besides, I still can't begin to understand how you can spend hours feeling bad and bitching about missing out on an experience that would've been less than an hour, probably. You really didn't lose out on anything especially meaningful or important.

But he was sooooo cute! Less than an hour is plenty of time for sex. Goodness, can you even imagine getting a penis inserted in and out of your hole for an hour or more?
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As an experiment try it with a finger, and report back to us with your findings.
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And how dare you say sex is not especially meaningful or important? How very dare you.

	Grow up.

No.

[eagleseven]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I've just gotten so used to being the one who is chased, so being the aggressor was completely unknown to me. If that boy forces me to switch my style, then I deserve a reward, thus I am allowed to rape him. Rape is my reward for a job well done.

If anything, you deserve to be assaulted by the older balding man. Maybe if he's particularly generous he'd top you, afterwards. It's a good thing he blocked you from your "prey."

Uriel, you need a serious attitude adjustment. This isn't healthy.

[IotaNull]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	And how dare you say sex is not especially meaningful or important? How very dare you.

She's saying that *casual* sex isn't meaningful. Which is true by definition. If you want meaningful sex outside of carnal pleasures, you shouldn't be going to a sex sauna. If you just want the "hottest lay", you're pretty much whining for no other reason than that you got outcompeted. If you wanted a potential relationship, he obviously either didn't want one or didn't think you were the best candidate, making it one of the above. Regardless, you don't have any good reason to be emotionally reacting to this other than that you're bitter that another guy was more attractive than you, so stop pretending you do.

[seeyouatx]

	Originally Posted by Vermillion To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Looks like my bucket list has just been updated! To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Agreed.

*adds to her lengthy bucket list*

[Uriel]

	Originally Posted by Iota Null To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Regardless, you don't have any good reason to be emotionally reacting to this other than that you're bitter that another guy was more attractive than you, so stop pretending you do.

But I really was more attractive than the other guy. That's what makes it hurt so much.
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[IotaNull]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	But I really was more attractive than the other guy. That's what makes it hurt so much. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Prove it. And no, convincing people of it is not sufficient.

[idoj]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	But I really was more attractive than the other guy. That's what makes it hurt so much. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Maybe??? She chose someone unattractive b/c she didn't want to feel for him the way she did for you? Maybe she was just removing environmental factors to check for the impact of them? You never know what someone pictured in their mind just b/c they changed the source material...

[Uriel]

	Originally Posted by Iota Null To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Prove it. And no, convincing people of it is not sufficient.

I'm not in the mood for a logical debate right now, God damnit. I want emotional molly-coddling.

[Purgatid]

You can't get that from INTJs.

[Dryer]

I haven't experienced an emotion in over one year.

[Seablue]

People, have you never seen a gay guy into "drama queen" mode, or what ? Don't take it too seriously. ...Well ok, I can I can't ask that from INTJs.

	Originally Posted by Dryer To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I haven't experienced an emotion in over one year.

Sure.
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[eagleseven]

	Originally Posted by Seablue To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	People, have you never seen a gay guy into "drama queen" mode, or what ?

I have little patience for it in-person, too.

[Artio]

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	Alphawolf. When I was a kid and went too big indoor swimmingpools there were places that made me feel naughty/awkward/excited somehow. Places like bubblebaths, saunas, those blowholes, the changing area, dark and secluded places. You just knew sex happened there.

Must be a cultural thing. There is absolutely nothing erotic in sauna for me (= a Finn).

I have had sex in sauna several times and it is like having sex in hell, not in any possible good way, so I agree with Alphawolf here.

Sorry if I got distracted a bit from Uriel's original question. For several reasons I can't imagine going to such places. If I hunt, I prefer to do it in environment where I feel comfortable.

[Uriel]

	Originally Posted by eagleseven To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I have little patience for it in-person, too.

You get irritated by homos drama fits online?

	Originally Posted by Artio To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	For several reasons I can't imagine going to such places. If I hunt, I prefer to do it in environment where I feel comfortable.

Perhaps being females -who are generally indirect with their intents- find the sauna (bathhouse) environment too direct for their tastes. What kind of environment would you feel comfortable in?

[Grimace]

I'm not one to pass judgment on lifestyles. But doesn't this seem just a little bit grimy to you OP? I mean, even your own descriptions of this place are ghastly, so you're clearly aware of it. Just wondering.

[Uriel]

	Originally Posted by Grimace To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I'm not one to pass judgment on lifestyles. But doesn't this seem just a little bit grimy to you OP? I mean, even your own descriptions of this place are ghastly, so you're clearly aware of it. Just wondering.

I was just being hyperbolic. Even if guests feel unsanitary in that place, they can always take a nice shower which is yet another part of the establishment.

[eagleseven]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	You get irritated by homos drama fits online?

I've had queens go off on me too many times. Half the reason I don't like LGBT forums.

In-person they don't even try...probably because I'm physically intimidating/exciting.

[Anhedonic Lake]

It's due to ultra promiscuous behaviour such as this which gives ammo' to Conservatives when the issue of gay marriage and gay adoption are raised.

	Originally Posted by Seablue To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	People, have you never seen a gay guy into "drama queen" mode, or what ?

Yes. Total histrionics and ultra bitchy. They moan about gay stereotypes yet they themselves create these stereotypes with their "Pride" marches-ironic as they believe they're born gay so it makes as much sense as having a green eye parade. To be fair they're not all like that but some of them just are way too over bearing, uber promiscuous and bitchy. I feel bad for the decent and sensible gays.

[Vermillion]

	Originally Posted by Anhedonic Lake To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Yes. Total histrionics and ultra bitchy. They moan about gay stereotypes yet they themselves create these stereotypes with their "Pride" marches-ironic as they believe they're born gay so it makes as much sense as having a green eye parade.

First of all not every gay person participates in gay pride parades. Basically your statement was along the lines of something like "Black people moan about black stereotypes but they themselves create these stereotypes by eating fried chicken and watermelons." In other words, you're saying it is gay people's fault for the bigotry they have to endure.

Also, gay pride parades are more about fighting back against the bigotry and oppression they deal with than being proud of how they are born. If green eyed people were treated like shit by society I guess we might have green eye pride parades too.

	To be fair they're not all like that but some of them just are way too over bearing, uber promiscuous and bitchy.

Can't that statement be applied to the human race in general? Or do you think it only applies to gay people and that straights can't be promiscuous (which is none of your business anyway, why are you interested in what goes on in someone else's bedroom?) and bitchy?

[Anhedonic Lake]

	Originally Posted by Vermillion To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	First of all not every gay person participates in gay pride parades.

Never said I did, but most do. It should be about gay rights, not gay pride. However most of these rights have been won in the west. Ultimately gay parades have as much relevance to rights as Saint Patrick day parades have to religion. Both are just an excuse to get drunk and have a shag.

	Originally Posted by Vermillion To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Also, gay pride parades are more about fighting back against the bigotry and oppression they deal with than being proud of how they are born. If green eyed people were treated like shit by society I guess we might have green eye pride parades too.

What bigotry? The only rights gays are denied in the west are marriage and adoption. Gay saunas-which are orgies in essence- don't exactly help the gay marriage and gay adoption issue.

	Originally Posted by Vermillion To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Can't that statement be applied to the human race in general? Or do you think it only applies to gay people and that straights can't be promiscuous (which is none of your business anyway, why are you interested in what goes on in someone else's bedroom?) and bitchy?

Straight men are just as promiscuous as gay men. However straight men can't be ultra promiscuous as straight women are, in general, not as promiscuous as straight men. Net result is that gay men engage in far more promiscuity than straight men. It's not a value judgement, just a fact.

[scorpiomover]

Sounds like a park. Why parents do not let their children in parks after dark any more.

[Tath]

So I hit sounds interesting without reading the implications. Sex in a sauna sounds cool. Not so much into the homoerotic aspect.

[GoldBoost]

	Originally Posted by Uriel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I did not get to make my move because that fag who was in there totally threw off my mojo.

Lost it there.

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Agreed.
But I need to find one with women in it.
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[Elena]

For the question, no I doubt I would. The atmosphere and heat/steam just . . No.

	Originally Posted by Anhedonic Lake To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	It should be about gay rights, not gay pride. However most of these rights have been won in the west. Ultimately gay parades have as much relevance to rights as Saint Patrick day parades have to religion. Both are just an excuse to get drunk and have a shag.

I have to disagree about St Patrick day parades being used for the example. It is still not an excuse to get drunk and get a ride, many people take it seriously here and its connected with past festivals and events.