Relationships starting on INTJforum-- Experiences?

**AkaruiRain** · 01-29-2012, 03:38 PM

Wondering who here has managed to find a relationship within INTJforum.

If you have, please describe it. xD

**JustMel** · 01-29-2012, 03:56 PM

There have been several relationships that started here on INTJf. Two marriages that I know of and a couple more that are serious still.

There's a thread somewhere that people post their dating profiles I believe.

**AkaruiRain** · 01-29-2012, 04:01 PM

	Originally Posted by JustMel To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	There have been several relationships that started here on INTJf. Two marriages that I know of and a couple more that are serious still. There's a thread somewhere that people post their dating profiles I believe.

Oh snap, even marriages? That's pretty impressive.

Must feel good, creators of the forum. xD

**JTG** · 01-29-2012, 05:06 PM

Any time you have a gathering of people, there's potential for sparks

**Nightmare** · 01-29-2012, 05:19 PM

I wouldn't mind a go at this. Though I'm not entirely sure how to start. Suggestions?

**JTG** · 01-29-2012, 05:55 PM

	Originally Posted by nightmar149 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I wouldn't mind a go at this. Though I'm not entirely sure how to start. Suggestions?

You're asking how to start a relationship here on the forum? Step one is to find the biggest, baddest dude in the weight room, and kick his ass.

After that, it's just a matter of talking to people and finding somebody who floats your boat.

Mostly the latter.

**intjistp** · 01-30-2012, 12:29 AM

	Originally Posted by JTG To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Any time you have a gathering of people, there's potential for sparks

Speed dating in Power plant?

Better than OKStupid.

Not seriously looking here (but always seriously looking). Have got a couple of new friends trough INTJf which was nice. I am so damn picky with them.

Storm · 01-31-2012, 11:30 AM

I wasn't aiming for it.

**mieu** · 02-01-2012, 03:31 PM

	Originally Posted by JTG To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	You're asking how to start a relationship here on the forum? Step one is to find the biggest, baddest dude in the weight room, and kick his ass. .

Don't forget to pee all over everything to mark your territory

**Wongette** · 02-01-2012, 05:13 PM

Wasn't there one disastrous case where two married INTJs had an affair with each other? And decided to tell all on INTJf? That one was a mess.

**CaelestisPeste** · 02-01-2012, 05:33 PM

Uhhh...

	Originally Posted by Wongette To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Wasn't there one disastrous case where two married INTJs had an affair with each other? And decided to tell all on INTJf? That one was a mess.

Is the thread still there?

**DelphianEtude** · 02-01-2012, 07:16 PM

Of course, not everybody answers the poll, but so far I'm impressed that over 30% of the people who have answered the poll on here have formed a relationship of some kind. Seems like most of the friends I make on this forum get banned/restricted/warned on a fairly regular basis. Dirty troublemakers.

**mllebrie** · 02-01-2012, 07:20 PM

	Originally Posted by Wongette To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Wasn't there one disastrous case where two married INTJs had an affair with each other? And decided to tell all on INTJf? That one was a mess.

Juicy... I can only imagine how that played out.

**Wongette** · 02-01-2012, 08:56 PM

	Originally Posted by CaelestisPeste To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Is the thread still there?

	Originally Posted by mllebrie To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Juicy... I can only imagine how that played out.

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is the thread. I doubt the guy's wife knew he was sleeping with another woman.

**pock** · 02-01-2012, 09:20 PM

	Originally Posted by JTG To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	You're asking how to start a relationship here on the forum? Step one is to find the biggest, baddest dude in the weight room, and kick his ass.

If you actually tried that, you'd get YOUR ass kicked! Maybe then you'd get pity love from all the girls? Haha, good luck man!

**JC22** · 02-01-2012, 09:46 PM

Hey, anything is possible.
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**Beric** · 02-01-2012, 10:00 PM

I've made 3 IRL friends off of here. So yes, anything is possible.

**Distance** · 02-01-2012, 10:28 PM

	Originally Posted by Wongette To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. is the thread. I doubt the guy's wife knew he was sleeping with another woman.

Kind of cruised through the thread. Maybe, maybe not and something easy to verify for the opening poster. She should have asked to speak to his wife.

psykhe · 02-01-2012, 10:32 PM

So far, so good.

For INtJ and INTj relationships, I think we are pretty at peace with each other's me-time.

The most intellectually and emotionally-fulfilling relationship I have so far. And we intend to keep it. But of course, we are not robbing each other's personal space.

Distance kinda sucks at times...but we're working on it.
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**Zodd** · 02-01-2012, 10:54 PM

I don't find it weird at all there are relationships being made on this forum. INTJ's often base their values for how much a person is compatible with the topics discussed here on the forum and don't care much for actually seeing eachother, I think.

**reckful** · 02-01-2012, 10:56 PM

	Originally Posted by Wongette To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Wasn't there one disastrous case where two married INTJs had an affair with each other? And decided to tell all on INTJf? That one was a mess.

	Originally Posted by Wongette To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. is the thread. I doubt the guy's wife knew he was sleeping with another woman.

	Originally Posted by Distance To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Kind of cruised through the thread. Maybe, maybe not and something easy to verify for the opening poster. She should have asked to speak to his wife.

I actually
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for posting in that linked thread (condemning the man involved) without having bothered to read the OP with the slightest care and basically not having a clue what was going on.

The guy was not an INTJf member until after the events transpired, and joined after he found out Caretta (the "other woman") was posting about the situation here. The guy's wife was not a member, and they had an open marriage.

Nine months later, still without a clue as to what was going on there, Wongette is now directing readers of this thread to that one with a completely inaccurate description of the situation. Nobody involved in that thread met by way of INTJforum.

Way to go, Wongette. If nothing else, your consistency is impressive.

psykhe · 02-01-2012, 11:13 PM

	Originally Posted by reckful
	Nobody involved in that thread met by way of INTJforum.

True story.

I, psykhe, INTJf's Gossip Girl reporting.

**Wongette** · 02-01-2012, 11:38 PM

	Originally Posted by reckful To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Nine months later, still without a clue as to what was going on there, Wongette is now directing readers of this thread to that one with a completely inaccurate description of the situation. Nobody involved in that thread met by way of INTJforum. Way to go, Wongette. If nothing else, your consistency is impressive.

I never believed he was actually in an open marriage. It's called "going behind your wife's back and lying to your mistress." And I never said they met on INTJf, only that they decided to share with everyone on INTJf.

But thank you for complimenting me on my consistency.

**idoj** · 02-01-2012, 11:43 PM

You'd be surprised how open it is...

You should trust what people say more often...

Just b/c one doesn't want part of the relationship doesn't mean they won't lobby like hell for a tax break that may have saved their one true love... A house... but still...

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01-29-2012, 03:38 PM	#1
AkaruiRain Banned MBTI: INTP Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 592	Wondering who here has managed to find a relationship within INTJforum. If you have, please describe it. xD
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01-29-2012, 03:56 PM	#2
JustMel Core Member [422%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 16,891	There have been several relationships that started here on INTJf. Two marriages that I know of and a couple more that are serious still. There's a thread somewhere that people post their dating profiles I believe.
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01-29-2012, 05:06 PM	#4
JTG Core Member [246%] MBTI: INFJ Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 9,844	Any time you have a gathering of people, there's potential for sparks
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01-29-2012, 05:19 PM	#5
Nightmare Member [29%] MBTI: INFP Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,184	I wouldn't mind a go at this. Though I'm not entirely sure how to start. Suggestions?
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01-31-2012, 11:30 AM	#8
Storm Administrator MBTI: xxxx Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,680	I wasn't aiming for it.
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02-01-2012, 05:13 PM	#10
Wongette Member [13%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 532	Wasn't there one disastrous case where two married INTJs had an affair with each other? And decided to tell all on INTJf? That one was a mess.
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02-01-2012, 07:16 PM	#12
DelphianEtude Member [09%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 367	Of course, not everybody answers the poll, but so far I'm impressed that over 30% of the people who have answered the poll on here have formed a relationship of some kind. Seems like most of the friends I make on this forum get banned/restricted/warned on a fairly regular basis. Dirty troublemakers.
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02-01-2012, 09:46 PM	#16
JC22 Core Member [112%] MBTI: xxxx Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 4,509	Hey, anything is possible. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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02-01-2012, 10:00 PM	#17
Beric Member [33%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,331	I've made 3 IRL friends off of here. So yes, anything is possible.
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02-01-2012, 10:32 PM	#19
psykhe Core Member [236%] MBTI: iNfJ Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 9,452	So far, so good. For INtJ and INTj relationships, I think we are pretty at peace with each other's me-time. The most intellectually and emotionally-fulfilling relationship I have so far. And we intend to keep it. But of course, we are not robbing each other's personal space. Distance kinda sucks at times...but we're working on it. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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02-01-2012, 10:54 PM	#20
Zodd Core Member [168%] MBTI: xxxx Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 6,730	I don't find it weird at all there are relationships being made on this forum. INTJ's often base their values for how much a person is compatible with the topics discussed here on the forum and don't care much for actually seeing eachother, I think.
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02-01-2012, 11:43 PM	#24
idoj Banned MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 2,603	You'd be surprised how open it is... You should trust what people say more often... Just b/c one doesn't want part of the relationship doesn't mean they won't lobby like hell for a tax break that may have saved their one true love... A house... but still...
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