[CaelestisPeste]

Ladies. Extroverted. Maybe introverted? I don't know.

[MrFox]

	Originally Posted by CaelestisPeste To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Ladies. Extroverted. Maybe introverted? I don't know.

Who cares? - take them all, CP.

[Zhen]

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	Um... there's no such thing as an ugly man with money. (female character in Scott Turow's Reversible Errors)

disagree...so many are so very ugly. and that's why they need money cos that's all they got!

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	She's a Saint. Got a photo?

haha!

[MrFox]

	Originally Posted by Zhen To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	disagree...so many are so very ugly. and that's why they need money cos that's all they got!

You got it, girl - and it works - take it from a chump who knows: a good balance sheet covers a multitude of sins, and other sorts of defects as well.

[Zhen]

	Originally Posted by MrFox To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	You got it, girl - and it works - take it from a chump who knows: a good balance sheet covers a multitude of sins, and other sorts of defects as well.

yup that's why i'm grandma and not a girl
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[zibber]

Oh, and really well dressed & groomed thin old gay dudes at the auction house I work at.

And that one sweaty dude with the shabby clothes. Win some lose some.

[MrFox]

	Originally Posted by Zhen To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	yup that's why i'm grandma and not a girl To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

I'm a subscriber to the Gail Wynand approach to male-female relationships. But hey - I mean well.

[mllebrie]

Probably the more courageous men.

[teri]

guys who think that if I smile and am polite, I MUST be interested in them (even though it is my job to smile and be polite)

that's alright though, just tell them I'm taken

[Dru]

	Originally Posted by AnaK To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Don't look a gift horse in the mouth, eh?

srsly.

anyway; i don't think there is a 'type' that i attract. or perhaps i don't give it much thought.

[Huruma]

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	The non-existent kind.

I was going to say the same thing.

[theiceman]

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	Well you are young so it isn't surprising. Some people end up in relationships that are, well, fairly shallow or mediocre, but many can't handle the thought of having to initiate a breakup unless they know for sure they've got someone else they can be with.

That's pretty bad if people are doing that. I had thought about that being a major factor into why only the taken women would be interested in me but I tried to think nothing of it. That's really shallow of anybody to begin looking for the next person while already in a relationship with somebody else. If I am in a relationship then I'm not going to be looking for any other potential partners and my partner should be thinking along that same mindset.

[WindUp]

I've attracted all sorts of males and females. There isn't really any pattern in terms of physique.

In terms of personality, I attract very many NFs. In particular, ENFPs seem to find me magnetic.

[intjistp]

People attracted to me?

50+ or too young.
Traditionalists, conventional dressers. House-wife type.

Or maybe I just don't notice others winking because they are not thread to me.

[Deliberator]

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That's pretty bad if people are doing that. I had thought about that being a major factor into why only the taken women would be interested in me but I tried to think nothing of it. That's really shallow of anybody to begin looking for the next person while already in a relationship with somebody else. If I am in a relationship then I'm not going to be looking for any other potential partners and my partner should be thinking along that same mindset.

A lot of people also look for other jobs without quitting the one they have first. This is because most people recognize that a bad job is better than no job.

It is indeed crazy that some people (not me or you probably, but many people) would rather be in an unsatisfying relationship than be alone. In fact, being alone is so completely abhorrent to some (perhaps even most) people that they can't imagine any relationship being worse than solitude. I don't know if you can say that makes them worse people.. it's part of being a human.

[Philanthropist]

I don't know, across the spectrum there isn't any particular type.

[house cat]

Guys who know how to handle smart bitchy women, I suppose

[Zolo]

Since I'm taller than average, I tend to attract women who are taller than average. Although I once had a female admirer who was only 4'11". A fair share have had anger issues too (including that 4'11" girl, haha). I've had more than one middle-aged Japanese woman tell me I'm "handsome".

Besides that, there's not much of a trend with the few women I do attract.

[ischuldt]

I would put myself in the 7-8 range as well. I guess I've had girls from across the spectrum attracted to me. I've had a fat chick literally beg me to let her give me a blow job, and I've dated a 6ft state champion golfer who was the valedictorian of my high school for awhile.

I've also had all kinds of women in between who really didn't seem to like me much at all.

What is probably the likely cause of you tendency for attracting fatties is the fact that your confidence or demeanor changes dependent on which one your interacting with. Your best bet is to treat every woman as if you're too good for her. That doesn't mean treat her like shit and look down on her just don't treat a woman you're attracted to any better than one you're not.

[Tengu]

Fat women are interested in everybody lol.

On a more serious note, young girls like 17, 18 or 19 like me after a while as they find out I'm sweet. But I can't do that. To 30-something women I look like a softie. It's horrible as I don't want to prove my manhood.

[theiceman]

Originally Posted by Deliberator To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

A lot of people also look for other jobs without quitting the one they have first. This is because most people recognize that a bad job is better than no job. It is indeed crazy that some people (not me or you probably, but many people) would rather be in an unsatisfying relationship than be alone. In fact, being alone is so completely abhorrent to some (perhaps even most) people that they can't imagine any relationship being worse than solitude. I don't know if you can say that makes them worse people.. it's part of being a human.

I didn't like your comparison between a job and a relationship but the more I think about it the more it makes sense to me. Being alone forever is one of those fears that I think everybody gets from time to time (I even get them) but I think that certain people have a stronger urge to act upon them and therefore go from relationship to relationship until they find the person that they want to settle down with. It doesn't make them worse people but it definitely shows that they have some insecurity about being alone.

Maybe I just have high standards of what a relationship should be and I project it too much onto others. I admittedly do have some rules of what to do and not to do in a relationship but I created most of those out of respect for the other person and others that are in a relationship that I'm not apart of.

[IntoTheWild]

The works. Seems like someone of every spectrum love or hates me.

Recently
Black women (20-60) - Asking if I am married and talking about how nice my hair is. I thought one was joking.

Teenage girls - Yelling shit out the window at me. I was shocked, really.

Women (40-50) - Probably ex party girls. One is real cool, but I'm not really interested.

Young women (25-30) - One of my teaching assistants back in the day. Good looking, probably a genius.

Culture - redneck/cowgirls, party girls, nerds, average girls, black girls, blondes, brunettes, latin. Whatever.

In the past

Gays/bi - Since I was 15 to 20 years old, gays hit on me. Some hate me. I think they hate me now.

Typical popular girls - Some talkative types, softball player, girl next door cute. Probably some sociopaths I'm not aware of.

Hottest/coolest girl of all time - No matter what my IQ says, I'm retarded.


Asian girls don't seem to express much interest. They seem to never like me. It is almost feels like they think I am unsophisticated or something.

Overall, I guess I look young for my age. I know some guys give me this look like, "Man, if I were you." As in, chasing college girls or whatever. I honestly, don't know how to rate myself. One person I ran into when I was 23 told me something along the lines of he bets I'm getting with all the hot girls at college. Another time, I had some friend who said something about how he wants to see me banging Hollywood chicks, or something. Talking like I'm not living up to my potential. I don't know, and I really don't know what I want anymore.

[changos]

Short ones, I'm tall.
A few into poetry.
Music freaks (I'm really into music, almost all kinds).
Older women too.
Shy and a few of bossy ones.
Nerds (I actually like them)


What I don't like is, being quiet and low profile specially at work, a lot of new girls think I'm a rat lab, nerd, or that "I need caring", want a free hug?. GTFO!!!


There was a time when I attracted a lot of religious girls
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[omniblade]

I tend to attract very very emotional/clingy guys.

[blindfish]

This reminds of a debate I had with a friend a few years ago. We were talking about how people have a "type" that they tend to be attracted to and I was insisting that this rule did not apply to me. I've been with women of all races, and am attracted to women of pretty much any body type. In fact, I say unabashedly that one of the most incredible lovers of my life was a woman who was 5'4" and weighed all of 325lbs. Anyway, as I said, I was certain that I had no "type". He was certain that I did. "Ok" I asked, "what exactly is my type?". He thought for a second and then replied "You, my friend, are attracted to women who seem as if, at some point in their life, they had a job running the Tilt-A-Whirl in a traveling carnival". After a quick scan of the memory banks I had to admit that maybe there was an element of truth to that.

On the whole, I think that the one quality that a woman has to have for me is being extroverted even to the point of being aggressive. I have never actually asked a woman out in my life. I have no "game". No great lines. Nothing. Yet I have never had a problem finding women. I just seem to attract a certain type of women, and thank god it's the type that aren't above approaching a man because otherwise I'd still be a virgin.