[Strathy]

So at a part time job I feel like I being watched by "female work/friend group" and it seems that they are starting to overlook me almost every time I walk past them, also whisper to each other after that. They didn't gave much attention a long time(about 2 years), so did I, but after this behavior It seemed weird, but when one of the "group" chick said somehow silly/flirt-y "hi" I just waved a slick "sup/hi" type gesture and walked away.

So the puzzle is this the "Hi" 1*girl seems to have a BF on FB, but the girl 2* is giving the most attention, however there is also girl 3*,4* that I don't really see/give attention, that could also be the Keyser Soze in this situation.

What the fudge I need to do ? The group is kinda hot/cute and what kind of icebreakers I should start with to find out which of them is interested in me ?

[Feral]

Um... you work with them... for two years? You need an icebreaker after working with the same people for 2 years?

[Strathy]

	Originally Posted by Feral To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Um... you work with them... for two years? You need an icebreaker after working with the same people for 2 years?

I was working in other department rarely seeing them.

[Kisai]

There is no way into those panties.

[sms444]

	Originally Posted by Kisai To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	There is no way into those panties.

This, probably. Also, it's almost never a good idea (and often against company policy).

If you want to talk to them as friends, I'd say a good ice breaker at work is to...well, talk about work. It's something you all have in common (ask about what projects they are working on, clients, etc), and then you can easily transition into talking about whatever you want once they are comfortable talking to you.

[Zodd]

Wow, a girl saying "Hi" too you... Strathy you playa!

[babsa]

Lol, my thoughts are pretty much in line with Zodd.
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Groups of people act weird sometimes, sometimes there is a strange pattern that occurs in society, hive mind i guess, that will have many people having the same mood or whatever. Whether it's a huge coincidence or an actual phenomena, i will probably never know.

[rahdam]

Originally Posted by Strathy To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

So at a part time job I feel like I being watched by "female work/friend group" and it seems that they are starting to overlook me almost every time I walk past them, also whisper to each other after that. They didn't gave much attention a long time(about 2 years), so did I, but after this behavior It seemed weird, but when one of the "group" chick said somehow silly/flirt-y "hi" I just waved a slick "sup/hi" type gesture and walked away. So the puzzle is this the "Hi" 1*girl seems to have a BF on FB, but the girl 2* is giving the most attention, however there is also girl 3*,4* that I don't really see/give attention, that could also be the Keyser Soze in this situation. What the fudge I need to do ? The group is kinda hot/cute and what kind of icebreakers I should start with to find out which of them is interested in me ?

this is a clusterfuck, and you should abort. that is what the fuck you should do.

	Originally Posted by Kisai To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	There is no way into those panties.

This situation is not an absolute counterindication, and I do have some experience in these situations, but one must be very smart and very ballsy...given the ...ahem, tone... of the author in the original post, I would advise against.

[mieu]

Women in groups are trouble. Continue as usual, if one of them is interested in you they'll start being more overt. If you approach them you run I'd say a 50% chance of finding out they were actually making fun of you rather than trying to flirt.

Don't freak out. Be cool, honeybunny.

[Kisai]

	Originally Posted by rahdam To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	This situation is not an absolute counterindication, and I do have some experience in these situations, but one must be very smart and very ballsy...given the ...ahem, tone... of the author in the original post, I would advise against.

It requires a coolness factor of at least 2.6 fonzies to peel off the panties of a member of a group of women which you have been spending years being "that weird guy who never speaks to us".

[rahdam]

	Originally Posted by Kisai To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	It requires a coolness factor of at least 2.6 fonzies to peel off the panties of a member of a group of women which you have been spending years being "that weird guy who never speaks to us".

In my laze, I was speaking to the concept of peeling the panties off of those you work with professionally, in the presence of power gradients.
In light of reading the thread more thoroughly, you are absolutely correct; this guy is fucked.

[Zodd]

A real man would just go up to them and ask, what's the worst that can happen?

[Paji eh Wong]

	Originally Posted by mieu To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Women in groups are trouble. Continue as usual, if one of them is interested in you they'll start being more overt. If you approach them you run I'd say a 50% chance of finding out they were actually making fun of you rather than trying to flirt.

'Xactly. You're the entertainment.

If you are interested in one of them, befriend the group, establish that you are a person and not the entertainment, and then choose one. It may take some persistence, and will definitely take some time.

[Strathy]

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Wow, a girl saying "Hi" too you... Strathy you playa!

Well, maybe you're right, but they didn't gave any kind
of attention before.
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Lol, my thoughts are pretty much in line with Zodd. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Groups of people act weird sometimes, sometimes there is a strange pattern that occurs in society, hive mind i guess, that will have many people having the same mood or whatever. Whether it's a huge coincidence or an actual phenomena, i will probably never know.

But they're like always actting that way when I appear
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P.S. No funzies with me. I certainly improved in the past couple of months physically, have more sense of style, even somewhat emotionally.