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Until men get an equal "choice" on whether or not the child they helped conceive could be aborted, which will be never, I can't see any social enforcement of this coming to pass. I know women love having their cake and eating it too, but this is pushing it..
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"condom". |
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Not really a legal right is it? |
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Might want to move to where one could legally buy a condom. |
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Invalid because it's precoitus, whereas pregnancy is postcoitus. I think abortion should just be illegal, on the grounds that it's sexist. I'm tired of women having men, and themselves, brainwashed into the idea that sexism only goes one way. The only way to make abortion fair is to either just make it completely illegal, and let women keep their child support, or let men have a 50/50 say in the matter, with the option of opting out of child support if they don't want it. |
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In the US, abortion is legal based off a right of privacy. The fetus is "tresspassing" and stealing resources from the woman's body which she doesn't want stolen from her, and thus, the fetus' access to those resources are merely stopped. This results in a non-living fetus, just like stopping an adult theif from being able to steal food from a market can result in their death. But it's not murder. Pregnancies far enough along were the child will survive without the mother's body are Illegal because they will likely result in wrongful death.
This is all spelled out in Woe V Wade, haven't you read it? |
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I came up with the idea for The Matrix long before it became a movie. I want 50% of the box office and dvd sales revenue.
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I have not read that, unfortunately, as the wording in all things pertaining to "law" inspire suicidal urges in me. But if you're right, that's interesting, and I appreciate the summery. I'll add it to my endless list of instances where law contradicts reason; through a long chronologically stacked list of precedents, where each that came before the other was crafted for reasons not at all pertaining to the next. Combine this with most individuals lack of interest in core reasons, causes, and motivations, and you have a system of law with only the basic veneer of "S-type stapled-down" validity. It's easy enough to recognize our own self interests, and also easy to defend them when they are infringed upon, but stepping in to interfere with the evolutionary altruism that had until very recently been forced upon us by the eons, is crossing a line that we may not regret, but the species as a whole may.
Did you contribute something tangible, like an idea letter (or sperm), to whoever wrote the Matrix screenplay (the womb)? If so, you most certainly should be given royalties. Just coming up with the idea all by yourself, I'm afraid, mirrors little more than a sexual fantasy you might have while masturbating. What you're trying to use here, I think, is "copyright infringement," which is another perfect example of the law vs reason thing, if you look closely at it. |
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You're right; let's abolish medicine, since it helps the weak and un-fit survive and reproduce.
Whatever, the point was that one little sperm released in a fit of passion (which imo is less valuable than a good idea, you may choose to contest this point) is nothing compared to 9 months of pregnancy. |
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If the point was time relativity for conception vs pregnancy, how about 9 little months of pregnancy vs 18 years of development? Development, I might argue, that is impacted by the father even more than the mother. Pregnancy is just part of being a woman. Time to suck it up, and save the whining about it for your boyfriend/husband while you're going through it. Just one of the many reasons men used to open the door for you ladies, and stand up when you walked into a room. (It is a shame that feminists had to go and throw THOSE parts out along with the injustices, but better than than the alternative) If it's any consolation, most of my female friends who have been pregnant said they really enjoyed the process, right down to the labor.
Medicine is not murder. Abortion is not medicine. |
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I don't think it's reasonable to abolish abortion per definition. The question to me isn't if it should be allowed, the question is rather when. And condoms shouldn't be an automated answer either. Nor should birth control pills be. I mean - prevention is excellent, and solves a lot of problems, but it can't be the only solution to an unwanted pregnancy. Compare with something else. If you've been punched on the nose, the doctors remedy will not be to teach you how to dodge punches. If all we did was prevention, we'd still end up with unwanted pregnancies.
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I always figured the safe removal of an unwanted parasite from a host was always medicine. Including but not limited to, tapeworms and ticks. |
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How is that relevant? The child is not at any point thereafter solely dependent on any one person's body for survival. I don't care who impacts the development (well, I do, but not for this question).
That's not an argument at all, or if it is it's circular.
Oh, yes, absolutely. I would love to if it wasn't such a bad idea for me, for various reasons. But not everyone loves children and not everyone wants them. And they have every right to not want to. Meanwhile I'd like to have the opportunity to make something of myself since my odds of successfully bearing healthy children are so low. I'd rather not have to masquerade as a man to avoid being thought of as a worthless, broken brood-mare. I mean, I'm really smart, and this is the information age, so surely there's something else I can do that will be of benefit to society. Like revolutionizing the way we interact with computers.
No, that's just a hypothetical. "Even if it WERE a human being (which it's not) it would still be guilty of bodily domain violation, which means (Mcfall v. Shimp) that the woman has the right to deny access to her biological faculties even if it would mean the death of the other." In practice, it's not even conscious until ~20weeks and it doesn't even begin to develop a personality or long-term memories until it's around 3 years old.
And abortion isn't murder! Glad we got that cleared up.
'Cause it's funny :D and contrary to what you said, it does help if you change it up once in a while, instead of just repeating the same points over and over again. |
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Most people, I've found, actually believe and shamelessly defend the ludicrous notion that they themselves are the center of the universe, and everything else swirls and rotates around them. As I mentioned earlier, it's quite easy for people to not only argue for their best interests, but also believe that their best interests line up with some shade of universal righteousness. It's here that most pro-life and pro-choice fall victim; if the pro life argument is based on religious obligation, while the pro-choice argument is based on a fear of lack of control, and self justification. |
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Wake me when it passes the Turing Test. |
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Honestly, I'm just sick of arguing abortion with people who think they have some kind of moral high ground. If you're *really* bright, you'll eventually turn around on your own, and if you're not, then you never will. So I'll take a page out of your books and let nature run its course. |
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The "moral highground" approach to arguing for pro-life is just as erroneous as the "my own self interests" approach is to arguing for pro-choice, which I mentioned previously but may not have been clear on. My contention is that there is a very overlooked angle with which to debate pro-life; that of straight old fashioned logic and reason. |
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What concession? That's a really arrogant thing to say and presenting such poorly tested arguments as though they're simultaneously obvious and incontrovertible just reeks of hubris. |
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Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you were bowing out of our discussion. My bad... |
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:/ I was, but how can I turn you down when what you want is so obvious?
No, it has to be more important, because its life has to override the woman's right to bodily integrity.
You don't have to put words into my mouth. I'm perfectly capable of following an explicit line of reasoning, so if you think there's a flaw in mine, go right ahead and point it out, don't make wild intuitive leaps and try to paint me as a moron.
Nope. Have you seen any of the threads here about parental entitlement? Having children doesn't make people more mature. It makes them think they are more mature, sure, but the reverence with which parenthood is (rightfully) treated results in a lot of misconceptions about what it actually entails.
I'm a pretty obvious counterexample, actually, but it would be foolish of me to expect you to do your research.
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You're entire argument seems to be based around the 'potential' of the unborn life and how the 'potential' of the unborn life is a significant reason enough for a woman to stick it out and have the child. This is kind of pointless because the bottom line is we don't know what the child's life will be like and any attempts at arguing from 'potential' is just speculation. |
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Better yet! Don't let there be any choice at all and make all abortions illegal. That way you solve the dilemma of who has a right to know, and in the mean time you're letting "potential" lives go their merry way. Isn't it better to air on the side of caution?
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The woman gives up that right when she went heels to Jesus and paid her homage to the O god, and invited a fetus to be formed in her body. |
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I think there should be some sort of contractual system implemented for new couples. I can see an "Initiation of Sexual Relations" document which will outline what happens in the case of pregnancy. So if either party doesn't like the terms, they can walk away. Some people will have sex regardless, so what's left is determining what happens, the default scenario, if no contract exists. These contracts can be standardized form documents which outline some common outcomes.
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Then you'll just get the same lousy excuses that you get in other contracts cases: fraud, inducement, inadequacy of consideration, lack of mutual assent... |
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