LADIES: If I were rich...

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 07:30 PM

Would you allow me to fly you in and allow me to have a date with you?

I want to meet a nice girl and most of the girls I have met are terrible. Absolute rubbish!

It would be cool to meet a woman without extreme emotional needs. We could just coexist. I could maybe even count on you being rational?

**Dru** · 08-02-2011, 07:31 PM

no. i don't know you, and these are silly questions.

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 07:36 PM

	Originally Posted by Dru To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	no. i don't know you, and these are silly questions.

I don't think it's silly. It would likely be a mutually beneficial exchange. If only because the female got a free plane trip and I got to have a social experiment.

**Dru** · 08-02-2011, 07:38 PM

maybe the lady in question is terrified of airplanes, or defying gravity... i don't think you've really thought this through.

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 07:41 PM

	Originally Posted by Dru To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	maybe the lady in question is terrified of airplanes, or defying gravity... i don't think you've really thought this through.

Would you prefer train service? And me getting to know you first?

**PRBori** · 08-02-2011, 07:49 PM

No. Being rich does not equate to being happy or worthy of ones time. There is a lot more to be considered than just money.

**Dru** · 08-02-2011, 07:52 PM

	Originally Posted by MusicalINTJ To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Would you prefer train service? And me getting to know you first?

i don't care how i travel. and yes, generally i need to get to know someone before i know whether i want to go out with them... i don't like "dates".

**NicholasIv** · 08-02-2011, 07:54 PM

	Originally Posted by MusicalINTJ To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	...It would likely be a mutually beneficial exchange...

Sounds sketch.

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 07:55 PM

	Originally Posted by PRBori To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	No. Being rich does not equate to being happy or worthy of ones time. There is a lot more to be considered than just money.

Absolutely valid. However, my wealth would enable the long distance travel and a possible relocation if both parties deemed it desirable.

**Still Standing** · 08-02-2011, 07:56 PM

Nope. If you "was" rich, you probably wouldn't be rational. Not that it actually matters to me, but most rich guys are dicks anyway. They seem to think money can buy everything and that they can get away with anything. Not good.

**VENUS 2020** · 08-02-2011, 07:57 PM

If you are interested why don't you take the flight to go meet her.

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 07:59 PM

	Originally Posted by Still Standing To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Nope. If you was rich, you probably wouldn't be rational. Not that it actually matters to me, but most rich guys are dicks anyway.

Even if my wealth was earned through the implementation of a carefully crafted, creative venture that originated directly from my dreams?

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	Originally Posted by VENUS 2020 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	If you are interested why don't you take the flight to go meet her.

Since I would be funding the flight one way or another, I feel like I would have done my 50 percent of that bargain.

**PRBori** · 08-02-2011, 08:17 PM

	Originally Posted by MusicalINTJ To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Absolutely valid. However, my wealth would enable the long distance travel and a possible relocation if both parties deemed it desirable.

Good point, but you're most likely dealing with a highly independent and possibly successful INTJ who might consider this a fishy approach. Too many psychos around and as a saying says, "nothing is free". Traveling abroad for a date with an unknown individual is simply stupid, even if there was online communication because there is no guaranteed the person on the other end truly is who they say they are.

I think many would agree that a meeting within a familiar surrounding to the women you wish to meet is important first. For me at least, unless I have met you face to face within my locale or at least in the same country multiple times I would in no way accept to travel blind folded. And just because we met it doesn't mean I would travel abroad. As I mentioned before, money is of no importance.... There are more important aspects to consider. But then again, that is my way of thinking. Someone else might be willing to take the risk.

**deckard** · 08-02-2011, 08:23 PM

	Originally Posted by NicholasIv To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Sounds sketch.

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**mllebrie** · 08-02-2011, 08:43 PM

I'd go for it. It's a date, not a life sentence. Although, since I don't know who you are, I'd make sure everything stays in a public place... you know.

**VENUS 2020** · 08-02-2011, 08:49 PM

	Originally Posted by MusicalINTJ To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Since I would be funding the flight one way or another, I feel like I would have done my 50 percent of that bargain.

Well if that is the case, no thank you. Better luck buying someone else. If I thought you were interesting enough I would pay my own way to see you.

**Muumeh** · 08-02-2011, 08:51 PM

Well first of all you'd better offer a round trip ticket...

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 08:52 PM

	Originally Posted by VENUS 2020 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Well if that is the case, no thank you. Better luck buying someone else.

What if we paid for our own flights, and then met halfway?

Though, on second thought, I might be willing to travel if I felt like there was a good possibility of love...

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	Originally Posted by Muumeh To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Well first of all you'd better offer a round trip ticket...

of course...

**Zsych** · 08-02-2011, 08:54 PM

If you're going to experiment - try rentafriend.

Also, you might want to make it sound more interesting - you could ask Dru there to go on a holiday cruise with you
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**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 09:00 PM

	Originally Posted by Zsych To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	If you're going to experiment - try rentafriend. Also, you might want to make it sound more interesting - you could ask Dru there to go on a holiday cruise with you To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Just the phrase "holiday cruise" is good enough for me...

**True Rune** · 08-02-2011, 09:02 PM

Suga Daddy Yes, please!

**MusicalINTJ** · 08-02-2011, 09:05 PM

	Originally Posted by True Rune To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Suga Daddy Yes, please!

you: automatically disqualified...

I'm not saying it couldn't be done, but it would take a remarkably clever individual to fool me into loving them while they only do it for a financial cause. I'm not terribly needy so I can't be won through my desperation.

**The Prince** · 08-02-2011, 09:05 PM

Well, I've flown to girls before. However I knew them before I flew out(in real life) and they liked me enough to take a few days of work to show me around.

**ppu6502** · 08-02-2011, 09:25 PM

(Adding another point to the many already valid points..)

Paying for other people is tricky, most decent people feel uncomfortable with that arrangement. Regardless of intent, it comes off as a power/superiority move.

**Weltschmerzer** · 08-02-2011, 09:30 PM

	Originally Posted by MusicalINTJ To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	you: automatically disqualified... I'm not saying it couldn't be done, but it would take a remarkably clever individual to fool me into loving them while they only do it for a financial cause. I'm not terribly needy so I can't be won through my desperation.

The creation of this thread seems to belie your claim. Just saying.

08-02-2011, 07:30 PM	#1
MusicalINTJ Member [16%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 672	Would you allow me to fly you in and allow me to have a date with you? I want to meet a nice girl and most of the girls I have met are terrible. Absolute rubbish! It would be cool to meet a woman without extreme emotional needs. We could just coexist. I could maybe even count on you being rational?
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08-02-2011, 07:31 PM	#2
Dru Core Member [250%] MBTI: INTP Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 10,009	no. i don't know you, and these are silly questions.
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08-02-2011, 07:38 PM	#4
Dru Core Member [250%] MBTI: INTP Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 10,009	maybe the lady in question is terrified of airplanes, or defying gravity... i don't think you've really thought this through.
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08-02-2011, 07:49 PM	#6
PRBori Core Member [108%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,358	No. Being rich does not equate to being happy or worthy of ones time. There is a lot more to be considered than just money.
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08-02-2011, 07:56 PM	#10
Still Standing Core Member [138%] MBTI: Isfp Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 5,543	Nope. If you "was" rich, you probably wouldn't be rational. Not that it actually matters to me, but most rich guys are dicks anyway. They seem to think money can buy everything and that they can get away with anything. Not good.
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08-02-2011, 07:57 PM	#11
VENUS 2020 Member [10%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 429	If you are interested why don't you take the flight to go meet her.
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08-02-2011, 08:43 PM	#15
mllebrie Member [37%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,510	I'd go for it. It's a date, not a life sentence. Although, since I don't know who you are, I'd make sure everything stays in a public place... you know.
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08-02-2011, 08:51 PM	#17
Muumeh Veteran Member [87%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 3,507	Well first of all you'd better offer a round trip ticket...
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08-02-2011, 08:54 PM	#19
Zsych Core Member [309%] MBTI: XNTX Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 12,366	If you're going to experiment - try rentafriend. Also, you might want to make it sound more interesting - you could ask Dru there to go on a holiday cruise with you To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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True Rune Core Member [200%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 8,007	Suga Daddy Yes, please!
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08-02-2011, 09:05 PM	#23
The Prince Member [29%] MBTI: XNTJ Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,173	Well, I've flown to girls before. However I knew them before I flew out(in real life) and they liked me enough to take a few days of work to show me around.
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08-02-2011, 09:25 PM	#24
ppu6502 Special Snowflake MBTI: INTj Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 11,496	(Adding another point to the many already valid points..) Paying for other people is tricky, most decent people feel uncomfortable with that arrangement. Regardless of intent, it comes off as a power/superiority move.
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