[lifesight]

I don't feel at ease with how much i am growing emotionally attached to you, but if it wasn't worth it, i would have probably turned my back by now.

[PRBori]

I know you're going to do your best to keep me with you and I do like it, but I still think we need our own space. I need time and my own space so I don't get on your nerves and/or you on mine.

And yes, I love you with all my heart, you are a great man who knows how to treat a women... there are a few caviats that do drive me nuts and a lot of it has to do with my old style thinking, to some extend. I know you are getting better on the drinking, no more whiskey only wine, I know, I see it, now is a matter of minimizing intake a bit more I guess.

In any event, you're right, I should not jump into that little house, but I did found another one on the prime location I want near the parks I enjoy and a lot closer to work, so will see. And yes we can still see each other and maybe, just maybe, things will fall back into place. I just need my space and the ability to do my exercises and you need your space to be your way. I get that my desk and computer collection is driving you bananas right now on your tiny place, and the fact that I can't do what I need is driving me nuts too. That is certainly putting a lot of pressure on this relationship, not to mention my drive to work back and forth. If I get the place I want my drive will be 30min instead of 1.5hrs which is a lot of saving on my end. Will see, hopefully it goes thru.
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[superflax]

You really hurt me and you know you did. You tried to apologise but you saying sorry to my best friend a year later and not me wasn't exactly what I was hoping for. Especially when I had gotten used to the fact you were just somebody I used to know.
You caught me off guard. Again. But I like it. A lot.
Just like old times, when I thought I finally had you sussed out you would go do something really unexpected. I can't put into words how much I love how you put me on edge. Making me always think everything I knew was false. Turning my certainty upside down with just one look. Unnerving me and exposing my bare naked truths with just the intensity in your eyes.
If I didn't feel so lame doing so, I would've told you all the reasons I love(d) you.
Every time I see you I'm transported back into that time when I was head over heels for you.
You look the same yet very different. You look just like the person I fell in love with but you have so many new marks. I just feel that there are so many new depths to you and I would love to just sit there and listen while you fill me in on what I've missed. Like you used to. You'd sit there going on and on and on and on. And you weren't convincing anyone, least of all yourself but it was better than baring the silence and the thought I was judging you.
I was never judging you. I was falling in love with you, stupid. It was just such a strong feeling I couldn't speak any sense even if I tried.

Do you miss me like I miss you? Do you think about me like I think about you? Do you listen to the same Lana Del Rey songs I do? Do you still watch Desperate Housewives? Do you still wear those small black shorts that make your arse look so fucking irresistible? Do you still worry over what I think about you? Do you wish things had turned out differently that night? Do you hope I would stop and just talk to you like I wish you would me?

Alas!
I know it's all in my head. You don't care. You never did. And all the dreams I have of our reconciliation are in fact just dreams.
I'm not going to run up to you and just kiss you and tell you it's all OK we can go back to how we were.
Instead, I'll just keep it to myself (even if I'm not fooling anyone) and spend the rest of my life wondering what could have been if I had just grown a pair, went up to you and talked to you, instead of waiting for you to talk to me.

MASSIVE SIGH.

PS You > every other girl I've been with since.

[ppu6502]

Dear Mary, mother of Jesus,

I want to ravage you and call you Lucifer's cunt mistress.

<3

[Async]

I miss you intensely

[notabugiswear]

It's hard missing you, but harder when you're becoming the man I want to spend forever and a day with. I'm going to be so sad when you leave. But, I'll love you like I'm fearless.

[JackCY]

My dear,

there is no need to feel brokenhearted,
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Yours,

J.

[thecase]

Mine went something like this. via email or text:

"I just want to say that I really like talking to you. That's what one cocktail with dinner does to me. Haha... 
"

and here is his INTJ response.

"A cocktail with dinner and you're telling people you like talking to them...you're crazy!

Really, though, I like talking to you too."

So simple!

[Noelle Winters]

Dear Husband,


If your standards for yourself were the same as your standards for me, this relationship would work out perfectly.

I thought that was a very simple concept. I'd like to find in your brain exactly why that simple notion doesn't compute.


Sincerely,

Me.

[Harmony]

Dearest,

I'm so glad you are the way you are. You are a shining example of how intelligence, passion, humor, and love really can be rolled into one.
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Love always,
Me

PS... Thanks for always putting the seat down.
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[GreatAlias]

It feels like it has been a year. Has it really been just a week since I saw you? Honestly, I have been a wreck, but I'll never tell you that. Please call me soon.

[Fecal McAngry]

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[PRBori]

You are a great man, even with the little things that drive me nuts. I just need time-out for a little bit and a different living arrangement. I found a place that I like a lot, so fingers cross that I get it. If I do, I'll be out as planned by the end of the month or earlier.

And I know you will miss me, me too, but I need some space to sort thru my head away from you. And even if things do not work out, I know you will be OK. You will find someone who can understand you better and she will be a very lucky lady. I mean it from the heart. I just think right now we are both clashing on how we see things and I'm very old style on certain things.
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[notabugiswear]

I know you're stressed and whatever, but so am I, so stop being sarcastic and get back to doing whatever it is you need to get done.

This month is hard, I get it. Exams, no sleep, and whatever the rest - but making our conversations go sour with your defensive sense of humor, isn't very humoring..

[GreatAlias]

I just want you to know that if I seem impatient about where we are at or if I seem that I am moving to fast, it is just that I like you a lot and love my time with you. Take whatever time you need, whenever you need it.

[Async]

would love to cuddle with you

[Headswabby]

Dear girl from work,

I don't normally do this, but I find you fascinating. The more I learn about you, the more I want to know. Your giggles make me melt, and your smile brightens my every day. You are my reconciliation of classical quantum mechanics and general relativity. That's right, I said it. Basically, what I'm trying to say is...

Will you go out with me?

-Me

P.S. You're hot.

[koakuma]

Dear ENTJ,

I absolutely love to "argue" with you, you snappy quick-wit! I love the challenge and I know you enjoy it too.

Yours,
INTJ

[Symphi]

Dearest ESFp,

I know I'm not your usual type of woman. I hope you aren't disappointing when I say that I'm not going to become what you're used to. I am gentle, usually quiet, modest, and prefer to not be the center of attention. Heels, done-up hair, and self-confidence are all well and good, but they are tiring in a part of life that I need all the energy I can get.

I'm making an effort because I adore your silly boyish grin, so please don't take it for granted.

To set things straight, you're not the type of man I thought I'd stumble into either. But I can honestly say that difference is exactly what I need.

I love you, but you're not going to hear it until I see the glimmer mirrored in your eyes.

We've been together for a little while now, and soon I'm going to start leaking bits of myself to you. Those pieces of my heart are entrusted to your care in hopes that you won't smashed them carelessly. There are only so many times that I can put up with heartbreak caused by irresponsible men. Please, don't be one of them.

My friend, my lover, be honest with me and let's flourish in life together.

Truly,
Your Affectionate INFJ

[PRBori]

I got approved and I'm static about the change of atmosphere. I look forward to some freedom and having friends over, well, hopeful co-workers who could make it to the next level of friendship outside of work.

In any event, I know you will feel the hit once I move and we can give it a try, but I can't guarantee it will work. You are a great man, I'm just not sure your the one for me, besides I'm scratching the "family" option for a very long time and I know that's a must for you, but will see.

One month and counting....
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********

Ok, sorry I do love you but deep inside I already know you are not for me. I know you love me and care about me, but you killed it with the fishing trip and my b-day attitude. And I know you wish I would stay, but I simply cannot. We both know we are both set on our ways, I have specific items that I'm looking for which can over-write everything else and you have yours. I know we do have a lot in common and yes you have been the only man who have treated me right, but I do have a hard time understanding you. I wish I could, I wish I could erase the negative items that killed this relationship, but I can't. They are very important to me along with the other requirements I had.

I certainly enjoyed our times together, and i will never forget all the great times we had together, the trips, the games.... You flipped my life and allow me to see it from another way, but you know where you fail .... you have improved greatly on many of those areas and I congratulate you. I hope you continue to improve as it will make everything easier, but as I said before, the next women who understands you will be a very lucky lady. You are one in a million, have no doubt about that, just not mine.
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[GreatAlias]

Hey,
So, I guess is the last time I write here. Funny that I am writing HERE our last note, but I do need some place to put it and what good would it do to tell you this if I ever even got the opportunity.
I saw some much potential in us. I know that you did too. Everything was going so well, we connected, we were excited to see each other, we loved talking.
Our first date, was amazing. We explored what we wanted and how we saw the world. We were so similar in the important areas and different in the areas where we should be. I got to see your passion and zest, and you got to see my compassion and generosity. You invited me to the next date.
And that is where I start to feel used and really bad about all this. I know it is not about money, but I feel like you played me along to wine and dine you, which I did gladly. It is not that I wouldn't do it again, I would, but when I saw the sparkle in your eye at the end of our second date I thought that it was for me. Now it feels like I had nothing to do with it, you were just impressed that I could romance you enough. Am I right? When I kissed you, it was funny and odd and a great story. The kind that you tell your grandchildren about. It was a beautiful moment in its clumsiness. I thought you agreed.
We talked the next day, excited to see each other again. We set up a couple of dates.
The third date was really fun and playful. I was really into you by this point. You told me about what you were looking for in a mate and mirroring back what we had talked about before. Our next date was just a few days later and I couldn't wait.
The last date was great too. We could see what it would be like in a relationship with each other. You brought up marriage again and children and the future. We were on the same page. I thought you could be the one. When I kissed you I could hardly let go. I can still feel you. You walked to your door. Then you turned and gave me a little wave. I thought you were expressing a bond, but maybe you were waving goodbye.
Then, just WTF happened? That is what drives me crazy. When I have been let go before I could always understand it, but this? Also in the past everyone of the girls has respected me enough to call me. If your penultimate text had been from anyone else I would have taken the hint, but we were so into each other I thought. Word of advice - don't talk about children or marriage with someone who cares about you when you don't care about them. It isn't right and it isn't the way you treat people. I thought you were much better than that. I thought you wanted openness and honesty, but when I gave you my heart you treated me selfishly and ignored what I needed.
Even still, when I tried, you went the subtle route again. Sure, you may call and I hope you do because I still care for you. I am not sure I trust you right now, though.
But, still, I do owe you a thank you. This experience, however sad it makes me, has taught me some things about myself and exposed some weaknesses I need to work on. I made a mistake of falling for you too fast. It was a little out of my control, not completely, but a little. But you also gave me the 'all clear' signs. Sigh. I forgive myself for making those mistakes and I forgive you for everything because I know you were just doing the best that you knew how too.
So, I am sorry. I guess that I wanted to say. I am sorry for me that you were not the one. I am sorry for yo that you couldn't see how amazing I am and how great you had it. I wish you the very best on your journey. :`(
Me

[Lilie]

I get to see you again tomorrow! I seem to have invited myself over to your house. "Oops." No, seriously, now that I've asked pretty much everything I can ask without looking (too much) like I'm conducting an investigation, it's time to take the investigation to the next level.

You may see my house next time, though it is mostly full of other people's stuff. I have some books, but I'd probably want to hide half of them before you came over. Especially the self-help/psych books. I can probably get away with the more technical/intellectual stuff, but no one whose mother loved her is going to have Mean Mothers in her tiny collection, and I don't really want to talk about/admit that yet.

[deconspire]

Girl, if you have any question in your mind as to whether I can satisfy you, bring your body to me now. I will satisfy you. Bring it on to me, and I will love you like nobody can. I will sex you like nobody can. I will freak you like nobody can.

I am ready for you now.

Lay your body down, and I will show you love. I will drape you in the finest black silks. I will travel to the finest Asian nations to attain this silk. Then, I will run my fingers through your hair. I will caress your body slowly and whisper in your ear while I do so. I will tell you such things as, "You are the most beautiful woman in the world" and "Your skin is like the most expensive Swiss chocolate money can buy" and "Your eyes are like windows to paradise," and other romantic things that will make you tremble with desire.

I will then hit you doggy-style.

All you have to do is tell me what to do and when to stop. And I promise, you will not want it to stop until the break of dawn.Bring your body to me now, and I will show you a night of love that you have never known. I will take you to a level that no lover could ever take you. We will be in the atmosphere. I will take you higher and higher, to heaven and even further. We will be love astronauts, colonizing other planets with our passion. We will bump to Jupiter. Grind to Pluto.

Damn.

The next morning, I will cook breakfast for you. I will fry up several eggs, each in a different style for you to choose from. There will be scrambled eggs, fried eggs, boiled eggs, baked eggs and even egg sandwiches. There will be a smorgasbord of taste sensations for your tender lips to enjoy. I will then pick a beautiful red rose from outside the bedroom window and put it in an elegant glass vase upon your food tray. The tray will be only the finest food tray from the far reaches of the earth.

I will also serve cereal.

[PRBori]

Today I finalized all the paperwork, is official, I'm heading out by the end of the month. I know you don't want to loose me but you messed up and you know it. On my end I already know you're not the one... But you will find someone who can understand you better and be able to deal with you. I simply cannot see myself dealing with the issues for the rest of my life. I got my own things to take care off. And thank you for caring and understanding my decision, it was not easy, but is done. There is no turning back this time. Good luck!!!

[Mari]

I'm so glad we can talk and not talk and still communicate. And the fact that our emotional/physical boundaries match up so well is wonderful. You make me feel so safe. I just worry that I'm going to mess this up somehow. I worry that I'm going to start pushing you away and ruin this, and I don't want to. I really do like you, more than anyone else ever. I wasn't lying when I said that. I wish you would believe me when I told you that. You always tell me how you don't feel attractive or smart or good in any sort of expression of goodness. This surprises me so much, because I don't feel that way about you at all.

That one time when you asked me to never talk to you again really scared me. I'm sorry I don't talk about my feelings that much with you, I've been kinda trained out of it. No one really wants to hear what I have to say, and I had gotten used to that. The fact that you do is so weird to me. I don't ever want to stop talking with you. You're not an idiot. When you insult yourself it hurts me.