Do you replay the day? - Page 2

**AgentofGaming** · 01-20-2008, 07:05 AM

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	I try to write down how I could have done things better.

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	I do my best thinking before I go to bed, I explore the depths.

So any of you get up in the middle of night to write stuff down?
I do, and it's so annoying but if I don't have it down on paper, I can't sleep.

**dandylion** · 01-20-2008, 09:20 AM

^Yep, I do all the time. If I don't have paper I just turn on the computer and record any details into notepad or something...

In fact, I just woke up because I had a vision of my spin on building an Eichler house, so here I am with Photoshop drawing out the house plans and whatnot... only it's 9 AM on a Sunday.

**august** · 01-23-2008, 12:27 AM

i currently have about three speeches repeating constantly in my head that i would like to tell certain people. i wrote these "speeches" before sleeping and revise them when daydreaming or when falling asleep. i'll never actually say them because it would be completely counterproductive to how i want a few relationships to advance.

and i HATE when i come up with something i should've said during the day. it tends to echo in my head for a long, long time: one or two lines, repeated over and over. sometimes it's pacifying but mostly not.

**Hdier** · 01-23-2008, 08:29 AM

I will play back conversations, correcting myself and imagining different directions it could have gone. I cannot do anything to stop this, however it has proved useful when I've been faced with similar situations.

**pavman** · 01-23-2008, 02:31 PM

Yes yes, I do this all the time... always kick myself for coming up with something better to say after the fact... I don't replay everything, just the things I view as having not been perfect or having gone horribly wrong...esp. when it comes to dating ;o)

**AgentofGaming** · 01-23-2008, 03:42 PM

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	and i HATE when i come up with something i should've said during the day. it tends to echo in my head for a long, long time: one or two lines, repeated over and over. sometimes it's pacifying but mostly not.

Me too. It always has that feeling that a much better result would have come out of it if I had worded it better.
That's why I like edit buttons on forums.

**Sheepo** · 01-23-2008, 08:00 PM

I usually replay only either extremely dissapointing situations on my part. As in situations in which I dissapointed myself. Such as times where I didn't act like myself because of stress, environment or otherwise... I also correct myself and glue into my mind what I should do next time if the same situation was to arise, but I never follow through anyway; so it really doesn't matter!

Or I either replay something funny that happened or something memorable. Then I just laugh at it, enjoy myself, as if I was watching a movie ^^.

I also replay "reading between the lines" scene in which I needed to do so. I usually just reply whatever comes into my head that fits during these times, though I notice what they want me to say. Then I just replay these scenes and see how I should approach them next time around.

**Vojnik** · 01-29-2008, 04:55 AM

When you have had a long hard day its good to reflect on things that haven't gone wrong.

**MixISTJandINTJ** · 01-30-2008, 11:45 PM

Ooh boy. I replay a lot.

01-20-2008, 09:20 AM	#27
dandylion Member [41%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,678	^Yep, I do all the time. If I don't have paper I just turn on the computer and record any details into notepad or something... In fact, I just woke up because I had a vision of my spin on building an Eichler house, so here I am with Photoshop drawing out the house plans and whatnot... only it's 9 AM on a Sunday.
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01-23-2008, 12:27 AM	#28
august New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 5	i currently have about three speeches repeating constantly in my head that i would like to tell certain people. i wrote these "speeches" before sleeping and revise them when daydreaming or when falling asleep. i'll never actually say them because it would be completely counterproductive to how i want a few relationships to advance. and i HATE when i come up with something i should've said during the day. it tends to echo in my head for a long, long time: one or two lines, repeated over and over. sometimes it's pacifying but mostly not.
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01-23-2008, 08:29 AM	#29
Hdier Member [23%] MBTI: INtP Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 939	I will play back conversations, correcting myself and imagining different directions it could have gone. I cannot do anything to stop this, however it has proved useful when I've been faced with similar situations.
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01-23-2008, 02:31 PM	#30
pavman Member [10%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 401	Yes yes, I do this all the time... always kick myself for coming up with something better to say after the fact... I don't replay everything, just the things I view as having not been perfect or having gone horribly wrong...esp. when it comes to dating ;o)
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01-23-2008, 08:00 PM	#32
Sheepo New Member [01%] MBTI: XNTX Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 17	I usually replay only either extremely dissapointing situations on my part. As in situations in which I dissapointed myself. Such as times where I didn't act like myself because of stress, environment or otherwise... I also correct myself and glue into my mind what I should do next time if the same situation was to arise, but I never follow through anyway; so it really doesn't matter! Or I either replay something funny that happened or something memorable. Then I just laugh at it, enjoy myself, as if I was watching a movie ^^. I also replay "reading between the lines" scene in which I needed to do so. I usually just reply whatever comes into my head that fits during these times, though I notice what they want me to say. Then I just replay these scenes and see how I should approach them next time around.
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01-29-2008, 04:55 AM	#33
Vojnik New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 18	When you have had a long hard day its good to reflect on things that haven't gone wrong.
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01-30-2008, 11:45 PM	#34
MixISTJandINTJ New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 24	Ooh boy. I replay a lot.
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