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Old 01-23-2008, 11:17 AM   #1
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Ok im going to list 4 MBTypes and place them on the semi-traditional model of a familly. Mom Dad Two Brothers and I would like you guys to come up with what you think each person thinks of the other person. EX:

Mom thinks Dad is
Mom think Son 1 is
Mom thinks Son 2 is
Dad thinks Mom is

Etc...

Now it dosent have to be that strict of statements, actually I would prefer that you would elaberate further, "Dad interacts with Son 1 more than Son 2 Because..." and such ok here we go:

Mom:ISFJ
Dad: ESTP
Son 1: INTJ
Son 2: ISFP

And Begin!
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Old 01-23-2008, 11:21 AM   #2
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Are you sure you want us to tell you what we think of your family?

And anyway, I think nothing happens, the world implodes because the ESTP is bored; the ISFP and ISFJ annoy the shit out of each other; and the INTJ just thinks everyone is stupid. The ESTP leaves, and the others go hide in their rooms, the INTJ with books, and ISFx's with some sort of unhealthy sensate activity.
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Old 01-23-2008, 11:25 AM   #3
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Not MY fammily, I just chose random types and stuck them in that order. =p
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Old 01-23-2008, 03:41 PM   #4
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Son 1 (you) is misunderstood. Son 1 doesn't have his abilities and talents fully appreciated. Son 1 may have developed esteem issues for having his talents under-rated in the household while growing up. Now, son 1 is older and rebuilding confidence in everything that was formerly unappreciated or destroyed by finding out that there are others on this earth who encountered similar experiences as son 1.
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Old 01-23-2008, 03:53 PM   #5
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  Originally Posted by Provoker
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Son 1 (you) is misunderstood. Son 1 doesn't have his abilities and talents fully appreciated. Son 1 may have developed esteem issues for having his talents under-rated in the household while growing up. Now, son 1 is older and rebuilding confidence in everything that was formerly unappreciated or destroyed by finding out that there are others on this earth who encountered similar experiences as son 1.

Having two S's as parents truly sucks. To attempt to see from the parents' perspective, maybe they feel odd because Son 1 never truly seemed to need them. He had his own strong views from the beginning and the parents never really felt like they were able to teach him anything. And isn't that the normal function of parents, P1 and P2 both wonder...as guides and role models?

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Old 01-23-2008, 04:30 PM   #6
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  Originally Posted by Provoker
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Son 1 (you) is misunderstood. Son 1 doesn't have his abilities and talents fully appreciated. Son 1 may have developed esteem issues for having his talents under-rated in the household while growing up. Now, son 1 is older and rebuilding confidence in everything that was formerly unappreciated or destroyed by finding out that there are others on this earth who encountered similar experiences as son 1.

Not sure how you guys are coming up with that conclusion, and would love to hear how you are, because as I have stated Random Selection on random Roles.

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Old 01-24-2008, 10:06 AM   #7
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  Originally Posted by the natural
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Having two S's as parents truly sucks. To attempt to see from the parents' perspective, maybe they feel odd because Son 1 never truly seemed to need them. He had his own strong views from the beginning and the parents never really felt like they were able to teach him anything. And isn't that the normal function of parents, P1 and P2 both wonder...as guides and role models?

I agree that having two S's as parent's truly would suck (my dad's an S, mom's an N), but I disagree with your reasoning as a universal rule. When I was younger, my dad impacted me greatly. Although his opinions don't necessarily sway me much now, he has to convince me, when I was 10ish and younger all he'd have to do is make a random comment about something, and I would imprint it into me. Not much of it carried over into today, though.

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Old 01-24-2008, 11:06 AM   #8
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Dad thinks of Son2 to be too much like a girl and tryes to change him while Mom thinks he's ok and they're fighting on this subject constantly, Son1 doesnt gets along with Dad at all, Son1 is always very critique on his Dad's actions which makes Dad mad each day. Son2 is secretly wishing to become an artist of some kind and is fearing the reaction of Dad while Mom already knows and encourages him. Son1 doesnt have a strong relationship with neither of his family members thing which hurts Mom badly, actualy Son1 doesnt seem to belong to the family. Mom and Dad loved eachother and the family was very hapy for 15 years but since boys grew up they both feel they failed with kinds and blame each other.

well.. one hapy family :D.. very nice exercise, but it would have been cool if we could relate to a real family to know how things realy evolved there
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Old 01-24-2008, 08:25 PM   #9
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  Originally Posted by Hdier
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I agree that having two S's as parent's truly would suck (my dad's an S, mom's an N), but I disagree with your reasoning as a universal rule. When I was younger, my dad impacted me greatly. Although his opinions don't necessarily sway me much now, he has to convince me, when I was 10ish and younger all he'd have to do is make a random comment about something, and I would imprint it into me. Not much of it carried over into today, though.


From the type of the parents to the ultimate conclusions, you've robbed me of everything I could say to help the thread. Curse you.
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But I'll give it a try:

Mom thinks Dad is someone who'll take care of everything she's bad at, but is still someone with whom she can talk to, and understand. She likes his extrovertedness and spontaneity, and while she might accuse him of being cold from time to time, she knows he loves her and his family, he's just been raised that way. She thinks Son 2 is almost perfect, but he needs more discipline and structure in his life. She thinks not being that way is going to be a handycap in the future. She can't really understand Son 1. She thinks he's taken the coldness after his father, but he also operates on an entire different wavelength. She might think he spends too much time focusing on the future instead of dealing with the present.

Dad thinks Mom is a delicate but surprisingly strong person. He trusts her to take care of the household and the "feelings" issues. He thinks Son 2 is too much like his mother for his own good, and he should be less emotional and more outgoing, or he'll be in for a lot of heartbreak in the future. He thinks Son 1 is fine, but he's concerned that he might spend too much time alone and daydreaming, out of touch with reality.

Son 1 thinks the rest of his family are too nearsighted to understand him. Son 2 gets all the attention (specially from his mother), and his father is too different from him to be of any help. He'll probably get out of the house as soon as he can.

Son 2 thinks his brother is too concerned about useless stuff, like future plans, studying, working and all those things that aren't fun. He thinks his mother is cool, but too rigid, and he thinks his father is too cold and outspoken, but he desperately wants to please him (or wanted to, at some point). He'll pretty much be (if he isn't already) spending all his time with his select group of friends or his girlfriend (and he'll probably smother her).

Satisfied?

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