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Where to start...
Okay, men and women: from what I understand, we have slightly different genes, chromosomes, but, basically, we start as the same embryo, look alike as babies, diverge through our prime, then start to look alike again as elderly. The culprit in the divergence is hormones. From foetal hormones into adulthood, we just have different levels, I can't find them all in one source, but, from memory: women have more dopamine, prolactin, estrogen, oxytocin, men have more testosterone. Each one of these little chems affects behaviors, brain function, body traits predictably. If you have X, then Y. There is no way for a person to inherit a behavior or evolutionary trait except for a physiological mechanism. Important for a few reasons, one, because it's a proof that men and women are, in fact, different. Naturally, inherently, measurably. But, since I assume that everybody already knows that the sexes are different, just doesn't like to admit it, moving along. The hormone thing also matters because fits into my explanation for the riddle of how any thinking population could ever be made to believe otherwise. My theory is that the modern environment has been lowering men's testosterone levels, which are lowering at 1% per year, 50% lower since 1940. Different factors, I'd guess that diet is a culprit, excess fat, "pace of modern living". Second is that sunlight makes testosterone, and I'd guess that people are spending less time outdoors, more time in classrooms or watching television. Third is that exciting orgasms increases prolactin and decreases testosterone receptors and gender-specific hormones. I'll go ahead and blame birth control pills for releasing an excess of estrogen into the environment and population. Men have become less manly, less different, less like what men are supposed to be, less what they've been throughout history. Therefor the idea of gender equality holds more sway. Also, urbanization is a factor, since the natural role of men is to lead, obey and establish order. In a large community, it's harder to establish clear lines of authority, and the nesting (get along) role of women becomes predominant. The downfall of men causes women to rise in comparison, ascending to the leadership position in most homes and schools, especially since divorce and single-motherhood has removed men from homes entirely. Therefor men become more and more patterned after women as time goes on, like a dog raised by cats. What real institutional authority that does remain establishes the morality of gender equality, with typical pecking and shaming to enforce the system, and manhood loops in on itself. The natural desire to protect women gets driven into protecting "equal rights", chivalry becomes femalry. End of explanation theory on how gender equality becomes ingrained: Now, reality, according to me: The role and function of women in a population is to build the human, the flesh, the animal. They birth every the population, raise it, feed it, tend to its needs, install the feelings, and bind it together. That is the purpose of their emotions, the oxytocin, the estrogen, the endless chatting and empathetic problem resolution. Neither sex can exist without the other, but we are not equal. In their natural environment, men are the leaders of society. In history, we are the kings, lawmakers, shamans, chiefs, judges, politicians, generals, lieutenants, captains, religious leaders, cult-leaders, business owners, scientists, God Himself. We've built every building, fought every war, explored every land, written every rule. What we consider a civilization is us. Answering the question that brought this on, since men set the rules, establish the order and hold the natural leadership position, they are more responsible for their actions, and receive an unequal portion of the blame for any action done with a woman. Also, inherent differences, I expect men to be more logical and detached, women to be more hormonal and emotional. Also, with women, it's understandable that she'd shop for men if her current beau isn't living up to his natural leadership responsibility in the home, therefor a husband deserves responsibility for his wife's infidelity. Anticipating the arguments:
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I think you are right. I don't agree with feminism as they deny feminity. They try to create a strange drone that should be exactly a man but angry, promiscous and with different body. I reject this as I don't see anything wrong with being a woman.
It is sad indeed that I have to agree that men are less manly, especially in first world. I will put an example of this. In 1989, a spree killer got into a ingeneering class in the Politechnique of Quebec. He had a gun and ordered all the men out. It was about 30 men if I am not wrong and about 15 women. All the men complied and didn't even dream of trying to stop this guy. The guy killed the women while the men ran scared. Is this what the society is making of men? People who are no able to react as a man is supposed to, they became submissive and indifferent? Funny enough, ever since, there are manifestations here in Montreal against machismo. The manifestation, in my opinion, should be against feminism. |
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My main objection to your argument is here, the emboldening is my own. |
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There are certainly physical, physiological, and psychological differences between men and women, but as sentient beings capable of rational thought, I would hope that we would emphasize our conscious ability to decide for ourselves who we are and what we choose to be, rather than making ourselves willing prisoners of predetermined biological perspectives.
The ideological chains forged to define people by sexual identity are just as ugly as the chains that have been have forged to define people by racial identity. In the end, what we all have in common is probably the more essential aspect of humanity to keep in mind than the various details that make us different. |
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You are correct, we are castrated by the water, the food, the social systems. Unable to act like men, we do not become women, instead we are more like boys. This leads to frustration in the men who still feel a pull to their evolutionary role. It leads to dissatisfaction amongst the women who are unable to find the qualities they desire in a man.
Those who claim we are free floating intellects, male and female alike, are fools. We are hooked to our evolutionary past through our bodies and our brains. The most important factor for us long ago ceased to be predation by animals. We have evolved to fight off those that would take our resources and to take theirs instead. Men have evolved for warfare, not modern warfare but tribal warfare. We bond into warrior bands, we understand the idea of violence again the other, we instinctively want to protect our women. The women have evolved for their role too, they would prefer the certainties of such a world and seek such men out. The taking of women back to your own village either by warfare or by marriage has left its mark on the female mind, allowing them to rapidly integrate. We are not free, we are the product of our past.
A perfect example of failure to recognise reality. We are no more able to change our nature than anything other creature. Every horse I have ever encountered acts like a horse, every dog like a dog. We are not being given the choice of what a human is, we are what we are. Force a dog to act in the manner of sea lion all you get is a very stressed out dog, you don't get a sea lion. |
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Why didn't the 15 women do anything? What if it were reversed? A dick doesn't make me bulletproof. Besides, just as you aren't my piece of ass, I'm not your meatshield, you know?
Humans are, by nature, extremely versatile, and many traits are provably learned with absolutely no intrinsic default other than to learn.
Our drives are naturally conflicting and in no way designed to make us happy. You're basically arguing against rational thought here. That's quite fitting considering your entire argument there is circular and contradictory. You're saying what a man is supposed to be then backing it up by simply repeating saying it's what he is while admitting he's not.
Men started with dirt and made the damn microwave. Time-binding is human as are many examples including language. Much of our nature is just a setup for nurture. |
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True, but I do think there is something deep down in guys that causes them to react differently to violence against men and women. If two guys decide to have a bar room fight, that is accepted as the way things are. Warriors fight other warriors it is natural behaviour. But suppose a guy started beating on a pretty waitress, most guys blood would begin to boil at such. They would want to intervene and say "take me on instead", or perhaps its just because I am the warrior type. I have a sense of righteousness "Men are for fighting, women for fucking".
We are not driven by pure reason. The rational man fared poorly in the real world and was eliminated from the gene pool. Game theorists always loose when the other guy is not rational. |
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You just described your average stupid violent criminal while rationalizing it just like they do. |
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Perhaps it is perspective, and not intellect. As Sun Tzu said about warfare, Recklessness leads to death, cowardice to capture. I suggest that, like the scarecrow, you lack courage and use "reason" as your excuse for your condition. |
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Given my current occupations (Chemist / Pilot) I have to disagree with a good majority of your post but I find it interesting that you view the changes in society this way.
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Where to start...
Okay, men and women: from what I understand, we have slightly different genes, chromosomes, but, basically, we start as the same embryo, look alike as babies, diverge through our prime, then start to look alike again as elderly. The culprit in the divergence is hormones. From foetal hormones into adulthood, we just have different levels, I can't find them all in one source, but, from memory: women have more dopamine, prolactin, estrogen, oxytocin, men have more testosterone. Each one of these little chems affects behaviors, brain function, body traits predictably. If you have X, then Y. There is no way for a person to inherit a behavior or evolutionary trait except for a physiological mechanism. [/QUOTE] I agree for the most part, but behaviors can also be learned from example and endless repetition, indoctrination.
Yes, well said for the most part, (naturally, inherently, measurably, excellent point) but to suggest that hormones have such a pervasive and strong influence on behavior, while discounting other factors such as cultural or social influences, if only half the equation.
So, according to this, women that want total reproductive freedom are responsible for men becoming less manly...not sure I agree.
Biology may have determined that men have greater muscle mass, less fat, and different levels of horomones, etc---but to suggest that leadership and establishing order are "natural" roles for men is going a bit too far. Leadership requires more than brute strength.
While there is some science in this part of your argument, the "endless" chatting you mention and "empathetic resolution" behaviors are still more of gender stereotypes than actual behavior.
Whoah! Eau de sexism, here. Yes, men in history, blah blah, kings and chiefs, blah blah---but to suggest that man=civilzation is going a little far.
Still sexism and not science. All people are responsible for their own actions, and neither male or female deserves greater or lesser blame. |
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You confusing courage with rage and claiming to justify senseless violence on your whims. I know rage. It's a family "gift" which already put two in prison. You're trying to justify—either reasoning or rationalizing, pick one—going back to dumb apes because some delusional notions of the good ole days gives you a woody. They weren't good. The closest ones to what you're thinking weren't even that old. Tribes aren't that old. Bands preceded them and didn't have alphas. Any leaders had to as rational as possible, or they'd die, and people very much knew this in a way you don't seem grasp. We're slow, weak, and soft compared to other animals. Why do you think we evolved our rational capacity? |
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my theory for the effect has been more along the lines of 'the best genetics have been destroyed in wars, starting in america with the war of northern aggression'. since i tend to look at genetics before i look at environmental factors, this is consistent with my thinking.
but, as far as the general effect, most men aint worth a shit nowadays. they're not 'men' by my definition-and i'm not talking about sexual orientation. i know some women that are better 'men' than some men....they have better principles of life, they are more consistent, less emotional, and they understand motivation, leverage and power far better....their sexual equipment and hormones do not bar them from correctly analyzing life. one might congeal this to mean 'the lack of principle in modern life makes humankind less valuable', and i would not disagree with that. |
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I too would not completely disagree with your observations. However, as Rudy said, what a man or woman is supposed to be is not defined solely by biology. In most cases, people become what society or need pressures them to become. That men were initially hunters is only logical. They didn't have the option to hold an IT job and shop at the supermarket. In the same light, women kept the home because day care wasn't an option. |
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Source? |
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If you want the bigger picture, than why do you ignore the 99 percent of men who never were, aren't, and never will be kings or chiefs or leaders of anything? Most men have the same amount of influence that most women have, which is to say, next to nothing. How many laws have you written? How many continents have you mapped? How many armies have you commanded? How many diseases have you cured? The fact that society worked itself out in such a way as to leave these options open for a small group of people who mostly were men doesn't mean that men as a group are more favored in general terms. I think that in the big picture, most women have worked just as hard as most men for just as little personal gain. |
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Every so often these stories crop up. Its good journalism since no man wishes to be less of a man than his father or grandfather. Google it and you will find reports, some quoting the original scientific papers.
Testosterone levels in males are related to status in the pack. I read papers on this long ago, and just saw it again on the wiki page. One doesn't have to be a king to have this effect, so long as he can kick the dog. A high status male will raise testosterone to breed more, such attempted breeding by a low status male would get him killed. Thus his body adapts. Women who make their man feel like he is in charge will end up getting more sex from him, the reverse is also true. |
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There's something I didn't find people addressing:
Testosterone levels may be dropping for more than just the reasons listed above. Guess what's also been happening since the 40's? You may have guess it -- a chemical revolution. Organic chemistry, primarily. You know what you're wearing? Polymers. You know what you're eating off and drinking out of? Polymers. Hell, the stuff you wipe your ass with is polymers. A lot of the chemicals we use to manufacture, as well as in our daily lives has been found to cause emasculation of male animals, notably reptiles and amphibians (those pollutants we dump into natural environments? Yeah, it's lowering sperm count, testosterone levels, and testes size in male animals. Amphibians and reptiles are noted for being much more sensitive to the environment than mammals, which means they are an indicator for what will happen to us). There's a very simple reason for this: Males on the whole are much more sensitive to chemical changes in the environment than women are. In chemical manufacturing cities and near chemical plants, one will find the gender ratio very badly skewed towards female children. Where are all the male children? They are naturally aborting because they are more sensitive to the chemicals in the environment. It's well known that males have a 5-25x higher mutation rate than females do. In general, men are more susceptible to the environment. Just because we're human, doesn't mean we're immune to the effects of these chemicals. While our livers and kidneys are good, they aren't that good. Pesticides, herbicides, you name it, you're eating it or wearing it. And it is affecting you and your children. Simply put, a lot of the causes listed above may be potential reasons, but seem superficial at best. Feminism is simply a public face to something that's existed for a while -- there are plenty of historical cases of women being more dominant than men. Being indoors was pretty common in the Victorian era. No, for such a drastic change (1% a year? That's drastic) in 60 years, something significant has to have changed. The only logical thing I see is the chemical revolution, which slowly started in the late 1800s and early 1900s, but really kicked into gear after WWII. |
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lol! |
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Do you know where the original papers can be found? |
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This is the stupidest thing I have heard yet. Do you have actual data to back this up or is it one of your male chauvinist ideals?
Last edited by JustMel; 05-02-2009 at 12:08 PM.
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The one line that really stuck out from the Time article that Thod posted a link to...
Perhaps this desire to go back to the days of being a knuckle dragging, club weilding chauvinist are nothing more than the frustration of guys who aren't getting all the sex that they want. |
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I'm not agreeing with him or with you, but this isn't a statistical sample by any stretch of the imagination. Granted, he doesn't have a statistical sample to present to us either, but two failed arguments don't make a valid one. |
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I didn't intend for it to be a statistical sample. I was using it to show another viewpoint.
(same link as above)
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here is one:
From wikipedia: Testosterone
Wiki:Libido
I am not saying anything controversial. The human body reacts to changes in pack status by changing hormone production. Its an adaptation that make them fitter for the environment. |
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