I NEED HELP HERE!

**awalkingcliche** · 07-09-2012, 02:56 PM

I have this fellow INTJ friend, who is a bit down in the dumps. I really want to help, but I'm not good with these kinds of things, and I always end up being either too hard-ass or I go all fortune cookie/Yoda on him. Of course, I end up saying something stupid that doesn't help the situation at all.

So, I depend on music to speak for me when I can't. I usually find the "perfect" song and I call them up and play it over the phone for them. My goal is to elicit a smile and/or an eye-roll.

But... I need help finding the "perfect" song for this situation. This lady, who he has been practically obsessed with for three years, led him on and rejected him.

I don't know which song to use! He's a fan of Coldplay, and likes pretty much all musicals.

Any suggestions?

**mieu** · 07-09-2012, 09:14 PM

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**Nostalgia** · 07-09-2012, 09:22 PM

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I have this fellow INTJ friend, who is a bit down in the dumps. I really want to help, but I'm not good with these kinds of things, and I always end up being either too hard-ass or I go all fortune cookie/Yoda on him. Of course, I end up saying something stupid that doesn't help the situation at all.

So, I depend on music to speak for me when I can't. I usually find the "perfect" song and I call them up and play it over the phone for them. My goal is to elicit a smile and/or an eye-roll.

But... I need help finding the "perfect" song for this situation. This lady, who he has been practically obsessed with for three years, led him on and rejected him.

I don't know which song to use! He's a fan of Coldplay, and likes pretty much all musicals.

Any suggestions?

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**The Dan Keizer** · 07-09-2012, 09:22 PM

Jesus Christ he doesn't need a song he needs a fucking apple pie and a hug and a reminder of all the shit he enjoys in life. Fucking Cold Play, AKA the most depressing, worthless shit ever to hit the airwaves, isn't going to pick my man up.

If you have to play a song, though... like if distance is a factor or something... I guess I would play Brother Love's Travelling Salvation Show by Neil Diamond.

**awalkingcliche** · 07-11-2012, 06:51 PM

Thanks guys! And Dan, If I could drive 600 miles to Atlanta to be with him, I would. But, I think a good song will suffice (:

**The Dan Keizer** · 07-11-2012, 06:55 PM

Alright, well Neil Diamond is a sure bet.

07-09-2012, 02:56 PM	#1
awalkingcliche New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 56	I have this fellow INTJ friend, who is a bit down in the dumps. I really want to help, but I'm not good with these kinds of things, and I always end up being either too hard-ass or I go all fortune cookie/Yoda on him. Of course, I end up saying something stupid that doesn't help the situation at all. So, I depend on music to speak for me when I can't. I usually find the "perfect" song and I call them up and play it over the phone for them. My goal is to elicit a smile and/or an eye-roll. But... I need help finding the "perfect" song for this situation. This lady, who he has been practically obsessed with for three years, led him on and rejected him. I don't know which song to use! He's a fan of Coldplay, and likes pretty much all musicals. Any suggestions?
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The Dan Keizer Core Member [110%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 4,421	Jesus Christ he doesn't need a song he needs a fucking apple pie and a hug and a reminder of all the shit he enjoys in life. Fucking Cold Play, AKA the most depressing, worthless shit ever to hit the airwaves, isn't going to pick my man up. If you have to play a song, though... like if distance is a factor or something... I guess I would play Brother Love's Travelling Salvation Show by Neil Diamond.
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07-11-2012, 06:51 PM	#5
awalkingcliche New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 56	Thanks guys! And Dan, If I could drive 600 miles to Atlanta to be with him, I would. But, I think a good song will suffice (:
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07-11-2012, 06:55 PM	#6
The Dan Keizer Core Member [110%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 4,421	Alright, well Neil Diamond is a sure bet.
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