[Muse]

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	Right. It isn't very interesting to be in a relationship with 99% of people we meet. With the 1%, there has to be a strong physical attraction to blind us to how ordinary that person is. And we are ordinary too. When the intense sexual interest wears off we than have to work on getting along.

Now that I think about it, all of the INTJ I know are excellent conversationalists. I talk to 5 regularly (2 male 3 female), and I don't mean that just the quality is good. We talk for hours about a multitude of things and it is very interesting, as well as extremely humorous since we can make intuitive jumps from serious to funny very quickly.

The whole "INTJ aren't good at conversation" thing seems to me to be a false judgment about introversion, intellect, and social interest. Two of them weren't even a "slow warm up to conversation" situation; we started talking about a ton of things right away. They were both female too.

[Urshulgi]

My physical preferences are tall, blonde, blue/green eyes, and slim.

I'm currently having some sort of relationship with a girl who is 5'4", slim, with hazel eyes and dark hair. The conversation and sex is good, and it turns out that we have an emotional and intellectual connection.

We'll see what happens. We all have certain preferences we imagine, but those preferences don't always match the reality of what we find. If you connect with someone, you connect, and preferences be damned.