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	Originally Posted by Causa Mortis To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	If you withheld information to trick me into a relationship and I found out, I'd just dump you for lacking empathy. If you outright lied about the information, I would feel enormously disrespected, and would not feel any need to show you anything other than the most foundational of human courtesies.

^ this would have made my decision had he not already made up his mind. Man you INT are confusing.

Fyi I was completely high when I wrote this. Hence the over thinking.

---------- Post added 08-12-2012 at 09:51 PM ----------

Originally Posted by KonTiki To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

First of all, there's a big difference between INTPs and INTJs, including when it comes to relationships. An INTJ, with introverted feeling, is going to know whether or not he likes you. An INTP may not. The INTP, with extroverted feeling, is more likely to be attracted to you if you are attracted to him. He'll also be more likely to hint at asking whether or not you are seeing someone, because he wants to know whether it's safe to express feelings for you. Also, he's already picking up on your ambivalence towards him. So, you should probably talk about your conflicted feelings, but in a way that leaves a safe path towards him expressing his interest in you. (Yes, that's hard to do.) Secondly, if he is an INTP (or an INTJ, but especially an INTP), you've got a project on your hands. Thus far, the get-to-know-you period has been lonely and frustrating, yes? Get used to those feelings. Sadly, that is often what life is like with an INTP, until he develops enough maturity to be in a relationship. To end this post on an optimistic note... if he is an INTP, he is very concerned with how you feel. And your big ENFP feelings are powerfully attractive and scary. If you wanted to, you could use that leverage to have him wrapped around your finger in no time.

I had him test.. he tested a slight p over j. Thanks for the insight. Much appreciated

---------- Post added 08-12-2012 at 09:56 PM ----------

Originally Posted by Causa Mortis To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

You *MUST* tell him. Agree entirely, but if she wants a relationship, dishonesty or de facto dishonesty is a terrible way to start a relationship. There's nothing wrong with fucking around, there's a lot wrong with fucking around while pretending to be a church girl ---------- Post added 08-10-2012 at 06:00 PM ---------- ENFP's and INTJ's are like crack for each other for reasons that I can't fully describe. A lot of ENFPs are promiscuous. That's OK, and it doesn't hurt your relationship potential that much with most guys. What's not OK is selling church girl while being very promiscuous.

Def don't pretend to be a church girl and I'm not even close to being promiscuous. I rebounded to my ex who is the only person ive slept with I. 5+ yrs.





I could reply to all these but seeing how he isn't speaking to me it seems rather pointless.

I love hanging out on this forum. All if you make such interesting points and give great advice.

---------- Post added 08-12-2012 at 10:01 PM ----------

Excuse my typing errors. I'm on my kindle and I'm horrible at touch screens
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