Clicks and passion

**volt** · 08-03-2012, 07:27 AM

I would personally define a passionate dating relationship as one where a smile is always on my face accomplished through strong emotions of affection, feelings, desire towards my SO.

INTJs, do you feel that an instant click with a person leads to a passionate dating relationship?

If there is no instant click, do you feel that a passionate dating relationship can develop?

**Lucrezia Borgia** · 08-03-2012, 08:18 AM

Well, I don't know about the "constant smile" thing but personally speaking, as an INFJ woman, I only instantly click with someone if there is a mental connection first and foremost. The deeper and more significant the connection is, the more I find myself passionately drawn to the man.

I suppose it's possible to develop a passionate relationship in time. It would depend on many factors and the priorities of the two people involved. Personally speaking though, I need to recognize and feel that connection in the man right away or it just wont work out.

**mieu** · 08-03-2012, 08:20 AM

I feel the click when the physical attraction is matched by attraction to their personality. I think its the thing that'd make me want to date someone, but it doesn't always lead to a deep romantic relationship. 'Clicks' can be undone and completely obliterated by overwhelming character flaws.

08-03-2012, 07:27 AM	#1
volt New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 69	I would personally define a passionate dating relationship as one where a smile is always on my face accomplished through strong emotions of affection, feelings, desire towards my SO. INTJs, do you feel that an instant click with a person leads to a passionate dating relationship? If there is no instant click, do you feel that a passionate dating relationship can develop?
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08-03-2012, 08:18 AM	#2
Lucrezia Borgia Member [04%] MBTI: INFJ Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 182	Well, I don't know about the "constant smile" thing but personally speaking, as an INFJ woman, I only instantly click with someone if there is a mental connection first and foremost. The deeper and more significant the connection is, the more I find myself passionately drawn to the man. I suppose it's possible to develop a passionate relationship in time. It would depend on many factors and the priorities of the two people involved. Personally speaking though, I need to recognize and feel that connection in the man right away or it just wont work out.
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08-03-2012, 08:20 AM	#3
mieu Core Member [183%] $/)^3^(\$ MBTI: xNTx Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 7,346	I feel the click when the physical attraction is matched by attraction to their personality. I think its the thing that'd make me want to date someone, but it doesn't always lead to a deep romantic relationship. 'Clicks' can be undone and completely obliterated by overwhelming character flaws.
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