[Zodd]

This kind of experiment where you get fun and experience from scamming people doesn't sound like it's something that would cross your mind, reading from what you normally post. I mean about that you don't judge, and you care for everyone, and you don't hate anyone, but just feel pity and don't understand them blahblabhablahblablablba.

[Plato]

	Originally Posted by ppu6502 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Well, as long as it's for fun, might as well just murder babies. It's not like they don't deserve it because they cry sometimes.

It's a tough job, but someone has to teach them a lesson.

[vampyroteuthis]

Originally Posted by Samia To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Talking to one of them. An example... Understand that this has only been going on for two days. ( Show Spoiler ) To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. The top line says: "Hey, sexy where have you been all my life." This one also sent pictures of his body and we only just started talking a couple of hours ago. He is obviously after one thing and all of a sudden I'm the bad guy?? I mean, woman.

Yeah, he's a jackass. I'm not getting what part of this is fun for you, though.

	Originally Posted by Causa Mortis To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Falling in love is supposed to be the entire point of the venture, and even when you're playing, your heart doesn't shut off.

Also, pretty much this. Someone's going to get hurt. Seemed like you felt overwhelmed enough the last time you were in that situation, when your friend told you he liked you and you didn't reciprocate. I'm wondering if this new idea of 'fun' is a way of dealing with that?

[Zodd]

	Originally Posted by Othesemo To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Nope, he's fucking with you too. And if you were fucking with him as well, you'd be no better.

He isn't a dick and he isn't fucking her. He shows his dick and wants to fuck her. You are calling everybody who has had a one-nightstand a dick who fucks with people (figuratively).

[Othesemo]

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	He isn't a dick and he isn't fucking her. He shows his dick and wants to fuck her. You are calling everybody who has had a one-nightstand a dick who fucks with people (figuratively).

I was actually referring to the use of pick-up lines over electronic communications, not one night stands.

[Zephyranthes]

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Fun? You just want guys to pay for restaurants for you, pretending that you're interested while you'll never have sex or a romantic relationship with them. That guy is making it very clear he wants sex (according to you), you on the other hand are playing hot and cold. How much money are you going to leech of him?

Why is it her priority to be looking out for his interests? Why should she care how much he wants anything from her?

	The fuck? What's wrong with that? Why can't he do that? She is playing hot and cold. He's being honest.

So it's ok to be pushy about sex if he's "honest", even though it might not be attractive to her, or she doesn't actually care what he wants from her? I'm always amused by guys that think it's ok for them to do whatever they want and getting used for it is HER fault, lol.

[Distance]

Samia, if you're trying to build up a gallery of penis shots, cyberspace is the place to do it. You'll be getting plenty without needing to solicit them. Eyerolling, annoying and hilarious, all at the same time!
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[Zephyranthes]

	Originally Posted by Distance To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Samia, if you're trying to build up a gallery of penis shots, cyberspace is the place to do it. You'll be getting plenty without needing to solicit them. Eyerolling, annoying and hilarious, all at the same time! To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ooooh, this is quite true. Go make a dating profile, and enjoy the overwhelming flood of messages you'll get without even having to be online. :P

[Shahira]

Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Fun? You just want guys to pay for restaurants for you, pretending that you're interested while you'll never have sex or a romantic relationship with them. That guy is making it very clear he wants sex (according to you), you on the other hand are playing hot and cold. How much money are you going to leech of him? ---------- Post added 08-17-2012 at 05:28 AM ---------- The fuck? What's wrong with that? Why can't he do that? She is playing hot and cold. He's being honest.

Money?? You think this is about money?? This has only been going on for two days and some of the guys are teenagers! You are making it out as if I some woman scheming off old, rich men and as if I am a golddigger! Way to fucking exaggerate!

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	This kind of experiment where you get fun and experience from scamming people doesn't sound like it's something that would cross your mind, reading from what you normally post. I mean about that you don't judge, and you care for everyone, and you don't hate anyone, but just feel pity and don't understand them blahblabhablahb

Now, you are using my personal thoughts feelings against me? If you don't like what I post in my blog, then stop posting and reading my blog!

	Originally Posted by vampyroteuthis To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Yeah, he's a jackass. I'm not getting what part of this is fun for you, though. Also, pretty much this. Someone's going to get hurt. Seemed like you felt overwhelmed enough the last time you were in that situation, when your friend told you he liked you and you didn't reciprocate. I'm wondering if this new idea of 'fun' is a way of dealing with that?

I do understand there may be problems. I haven't talked to that guy for about two weeks. I cut him off completely.

[Zodd]

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Why is it her priority to be looking out for his interests? Why should she care how much he wants anything from her? So it's ok to be pushy about sex if he's "honest", even though it might not be attractive to her, or she doesn't actually care what he wants from her? I'm always amused by guys that think it's ok for them to do whatever they want and getting used for it is HER fault, lol.

Oh, ok, so it's like that. You don't see anything wrong with loverboys then also? Con-artists?

How is he pushy? Samia can just block him, anyways.

[vampyroteuthis]

	Originally Posted by Samia To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I do understand there may be problems. I haven't talked to that guy for about two weeks. I cut him off completely.

Understood. I'm going to push a little anyway and suggest that cutting him off doesn't mean that this might not be tied to unresolved feelings over how that went?

[Zephyranthes]

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Oh, ok, so it's like that. You don't see anything wrong with loverboys then also? Con-artists? How is he pushy? Samia can just block him, anyways.

I don't know what you are referring to about "loverboys". Wrong? It's not particularly "nice"? But again, it's not everyone else's priority to make sure you aren't being used or played with.

[Zodd]

	Originally Posted by Samia To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Money?? You think this is about money?? This has only been going on for two days and some of the guys are teenagers! You are making it out as if I some woman scheming off old, rich men and as if I am a golddigger! Way to fucking exaggerate! Now, you are using my personal thoughts feelings against me? If you don't like what I post in my blog, then stop posting and reading my blog!

Are you going to pay for your own dinners then? You're a teenager yourself. If a billionaire steals a million form another billionaire, or if a teenager steals 10 dollars from another teenager is pretty much the same. Not implying that you're stealing.

If you contradict yourself in a previous thread, why shouldn't I point that out?

[Zodd]

	Originally Posted by Distance To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Samia, if you're trying to build up a gallery of penis shots, cyberspace is the place to do it. You'll be getting plenty without needing to solicit them. Eyerolling, annoying and hilarious, all at the same time! To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Better would be tied up to a bed with a ballgag in their mouth.

[Marcus Septim]

Originally Posted by Samia To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

I've started doing some kind of experiment... I don't have any experience sexually or romantically. I've never gone out with someone, had sex or whatever. I'm a virgin, but I have been kissed. Once. And that was I think two weeks ago. I have not been interested in anyone romantically or sexually. I'm not asexual. I do get turned on. I went to a party two days ago and whenever a guy asked for my BB pin or number I gave it, but only if they were hot, which was kinda superficial, but I didn't give a fuck. I'm bored and I want to have some fun. So I am going to "play" with these guys. I'm going to make it clear that I am not interested in getting into a relationship. Those guys are only looking for one thing, but the thing is... They are not going to get it. I'm just going to play games with them a bit and so far I'm having fun. I haven't told them that, but I want to see how far they will go. I know this is kinda wrong, but I don't feel guilty about this... I think it's going to be fun. I see boys who run around chasing girls just so they can get laid as just that... Boys. And I want to take advantage of that and see how they like being taken advantage of just like they do to other girls. These guys I know are the kind who do those kind of things and see me as just another girl they are gonna fuck. I'm gonna manipulate and play games with these guys. I think they should be taught a lesson. What are your thoughts on this "experiment"? What are your thoughts of men or women who do those kind of things?

So with your non-existant experience in dating
You assume every *hot* guy out there,only wants your vagina?
What if someone is genuinely interested in you IMO?
Can you tell the difference?
In any case,the superficiallity of others does not justify yours lol!

If you wish to play with people,do so *Shrugs*
But not because they are mean ol players

That's the silliest thing i heard this morn..

[Shahira]

	Originally Posted by vampyroteuthis To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Understood. I'm going to push a little anyway and suggest that cutting him off doesn't mean that this might not be tied to unresolved feelings over how that went?

It could be I guess.

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Are you going to pay for your own dinners then? You're a teenager yourself. If a billionaire steals a million form another billionaire, or if a teenager steals 10 dollars from another teenager is pretty much the same. Not implying that you're stealing. If you contradict yourself in a previous thread, why shouldn't I point that out?

I was talking about people that are generally seen to be "evil" and I have stated that it can't be like that all the time.

But you have been implying that what I am doing is horrible and wrong while the guys involved are not doing anything wrong.

[Yuri]

Originally Posted by Samia To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

I've started doing some kind of experiment... I don't have any experience sexually or romantically. I've never gone out with someone, had sex or whatever. I'm a virgin, but I have been kissed. Once. And that was I think two weeks ago. I have not been interested in anyone romantically or sexually. I'm not asexual. I do get turned on. I went to a party two days ago and whenever a guy asked for my BB pin or number I gave it, but only if they were hot, which was kinda superficial, but I didn't give a fuck. I'm bored and I want to have some fun. So I am going to "play" with these guys. I'm going to make it clear that I am not interested in getting into a relationship. Those guys are only looking for one thing, but the thing is... They are not going to get it. I'm just going to play games with them a bit and so far I'm having fun. I haven't told them that, but I want to see how far they will go. I know this is kinda wrong, but I don't feel guilty about this... I think it's going to be fun. I see boys who run around chasing girls just so they can get laid as just that... Boys. And I want to take advantage of that and see how they like being taken advantage of just like they do to other girls. These guys I know are the kind who do those kind of things and see me as just another girl they are gonna fuck. I'm gonna manipulate and play games with these guys. I think they should be taught a lesson. What are your thoughts on this "experiment"? What are your thoughts of men or women who do those kind of things?

My best friend just did this to me two weeks ago.
And that was how he died.




I'm kidding - just don't get hurt, alright?

[Shahira]

	Originally Posted by Marcus Septim To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	So with your non-existant experience in dating You assume every *hot* guy out there,only wants your vagina? What if someone is genuinely interested in you IMO? Can you tell the difference? In any case,the superficiallity of others does not justify yours lol! If you wish to play with people,do so *Shrugs* But not because they are mean ol players That's the silliest thing i heard this morn..

What I find funny is people keep stating that I think every hot guy wanted my number and what I actually said was that I only gave my number to guys that asked my number and that I thought were hot. Did I not say that I was being superficial? Yes, I can tell the difference. Those that seemed genuinely interested I stopped talking to. Those like that guy in the screenmunch are the ones that I am talking to now.

[Zodd]

It isn't wrong per se in my book, it should be wrong in your book I think because you aren't one for vengeance on people you superficially judged to be a bad guy. But how do you know if someone is evil if the only thing they did was ask your phonenumber on a birthdayparty? And how do you know they aren't looking for a relationship? And what is wrong with that guy showing pics of his body and saying he's been looking all over the world for you? Unless he thinks you'll believe it and it isn't just to make you horny for sex. If you are playing hot and cold with him and never give him your pussy, don't you think that's immoral, while he only wants sex, but you make him pay for dinner and stuff and then throw him away?

[Zephyranthes]

	Originally Posted by Zodd To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	And how do you know they aren't looking for a relationship?

She isn't looking for a relationship, or sex. Why do you keep insisting women should care what men want from them?

	And what is wrong with that guy showing pics of his body

I'd just say "eww" and laugh at a guy trying to show off his sex appeal, but that might just be me.

	saying he's been looking all over the world for you?

Desperate, emotional, impatient, overly dramatic? I'd guess you think this is "romantic" (it isn't).

	If you are playing hot and cold with him and never give him your pussy, don't you think that's immoral

Yeah, damn you wimmenz for not doing everything us men want you to do! How dare you think of yourself! Jeez, if you hand out your number, he obviously deserves sex, he's just going after what's rightfully his. Damn irrational women. [/sarcasm]

	but you make him pay for dinner and stuff and then throw him away?

Pro tip, guys will throw themselves at women and offer to buy dinner and gifts without her opening her mouth. Why do you feel it's a woman's job to make sure men don't get used and thrown away? Maybe he should take some responsibility for himself and learn how to treat women a little more respectfully than "hey sexy, look at my hot bod, wanna smash"?

[Zodd]

And what do you mean with "hot" guys? Physically attractive? So you only care for looks? Or do you mean their brain? that would imply you are hurting the people who think like you, but just want you for a onenightstand, and that's enough to be punished?

And what does it matter if they're hot? You arent going to touch them or be romantically interested right? Especially with people who only want you for your pussy? They don't mean anything for you. Or you want to punish the hot people, because hot people are evil?

[Causa Mortis]

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Why is it her priority to be looking out for his interests? Why should she care how much he wants anything from her?

Because those of us who have the gift of a lot of observing ego - and thus the capacity to steer our lives, careers, bodies, and relationships in whatever direction we desire - have a moral duty to affect outcomes that are not destructive of ourselves or others. That is, to only kick out win-win deals.

The problem is more complicated when others sell us win-lose or lose-lose, but in the case of leveraging "I love you" I'm rather appalled. Does the OP realize that this could be genuine?

[Marcus Septim]

Originally Posted by Samia To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

What I find funny is people keep stating that I think every hot guy wanted my number and what I actually said was that I only gave my number to guys that asked my number and that I thought were hot. Did I not say that I was being superficial? Yes, I can tell the difference. Those that seemed genuinely interested I stopped talking to. Those like that guy in the screenmunch are the ones that I am talking to now.

How can you even compare lol?
You have no prior experience

Mistakes are allowed,bad behavior is still not justifiable...

And i never said every hot guy wanted your number i said,from the people who did the leap and talked you too,those who seemed hot..to you

Some of them might be just as clueless like you are
Awkward,dorky..IMMATURE! lol

Entering the dating world and putting yourself out there is NEVER easy,even for people who've done it before

But do you really wanna come out as a flaky chick..?

[Zodd]

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	She isn't looking for a relationship, or sex. Why do you keep insisting women should care what men want from them?

That doesn't make it right for keeping someone on a leash letting him hope there is something and dumping him anyway.

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I'd just say "eww" and laugh at a guy trying to show off his sex appeal, but that might just be me.

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Desperate, emotional, impatient, overly dramatic? I'd guess you think this is "romantic" (it isn't).

Probably is in the London ghetto.

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Yeah, damn you wimmenz for not doing everything us men want you to do! How dare you think of yourself! Jeez, if you hand out your number, he obviously deserves sex, he's just going after what's rightfully his. Damn irrational women. [/sarcasm]

That guy seemed honest. Besides we don't know what Samia has said before that. And she already said she's using the hot and cold strategy.

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Pro tip, guys will throw themselves at women and offer to buy dinner and gifts without her opening her mouth. Why do you feel it's a woman's job to make sure men don't get used and thrown away? Maybe he should take some responsibility for himself and learn how to treat women a little more respectfully than "hey sexy, look at my hot bod, wanna smash"?

Only losers do that, and it only works on women with low self-esteem.

I already replied to your last sentence in above paragraphs.

[Distance]

	Originally Posted by Zephyranthes To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Ooooh, this is quite true. Go make a dating profile, and enjoy the overwhelming flood of messages you'll get without even having to be online. :P

Just don't understand the fascination with this, especially since most women get grossed out by strangers sending genitalia to us. Not surprising why these guys are cyber-wannabe players. Embarrassing.