[Faux hawk]

Manipulation. Once I realize a "partner" is tayloring information in order to ensure their wants be met above their honest appraisal of a situation I'm out. I can handle the truth. I can't handle half truths and the only thought given to a situation being it's end meet one person's need over another's. At that point, in my mind the partnership/connection is dissolved and you're now polite competitors. Competition has very little place within a romantic relationship.

[Artio]

I've got only three deal breakers:
#1 lie to me intentionally
#2 hurt me intentionally (mostly by using violence, everything else is mostly covered by the rule number one - don't assume that anything conventional is a default with me)
#3 constant and utter stupidity - though in this case it's already my failure already, I should've realized it waaaay before...

[zeroemission]

not reading anything, just making random comments and splitting. it's my thread. i can do this.

then there was the goofy typical that was outside a bigtime muff flashing and everything hoochie bar that was outside taking "lean over" pics on a parked police cruiser with her girlfriend and probably the loser they were going to sandwich in about 10 minutes taking crappy low res pics on a cellphone.

i ran up the the foreground one, without so much as a "hi! how ya doin'! started slapping her buttocks snuggling daisy dukes about 4 times and the bounded away going "whoop! whoop! whoop! whoop!" in a very rare fit of impulsiveness.

"i love that guy!" *giggle giggle giggle*

sorry TYPICAL. i keep telling you you're not my type. sweet gal probably, but wired backwards to perpetuate this stupid self destructive species. it never would have worked out, but that was some firm gluteous maximous and a fun story to tell.

[Midhiel]

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not reading anything, just making random comments and splitting. it's my thread. i can do this. then there was the goofy typical that was outside a bigtime muff flashing and everything hoochie bar that was outside taking "lean over" pics on a parked police cruiser with her girlfriend and probably the loser they were going to sandwich in about 10 minutes taking crappy low res pics on a cellphone. i ran up the the foreground one, without so much as a "hi! how ya doin'! started slapping her buttocks snuggling daisy dukes about 4 times and the bounded away going "whoop! whoop! whoop! whoop!" in a very rare fit of impulsiveness. "i love that guy!" *giggle giggle giggle* sorry TYPICAL. i keep telling you you're not my type. sweet gal probably, but wired backwards to perpetuate this stupid self destructive species. it never would have worked out, but that was some firm gluteous maximous and a fun story to tell.

What...the fuck...?

Okay, no sympathy. None.

[zeroemission]

NO MEANS NO!

[Collide]

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REALLY ANNOYING trait of women #2? they dish rejection out much better than they take it. even when you KNOW a woman is nothing but a fatal attraction waiting to happen and tell her, to her face, "you aren't my type and your flirting is most unwelcomed and don't be another idiot that takes that as a challenge. it's never going to happen". it will just go in one ear and out the other and bring out he most unappealing lies and manipulation traits. the PERFECT woman doesn't even realize it and thinks she's nothing special AND isn't another cookie cutter whore for the devil. there's at least one somewhere in the world. the entire female species can't be social climbing wastes of time. even though she was "responding to red" (ANOTHER annoying trait!!!!!!!!!!!) because of a rastafarian tie dye i was wearing i'm sure, i thought one gal that started a ... now that i got that off my chest, i can resume ignoring this thread as no one that addresses me directly has had anything to say i don't want to argue against to my last breath. the "perfect woman" doesn't have it in her to argue. she tries to negotiate solutions acceptable to all. if you ever see her... tell her i've been looking EVERYWHERE for her. ...

1. You really should stop making horrible generalizations of women. Obviously you have some bad experiences. Couldn't you at least say "The women I've met have been..." instead of "Women are..."?

2. Many of the obnoxious traits you have spoken about appear in both males and females. They aren't exclusively women traits.

3. Really? You're trying to find a "PERFECT woman"? Why are you so certain you want one without confidence?

4. What is this "responding to red" reference?

[zeroemission]

la la la la... still not listening. anyways. this is how misogynistic i am...

i still very much love my first love. she never believed it when i said it, or almost anything else for that matter, and recently reminded her of it when i thought she was the only person in the world i could trust. i hope she at least believed me when i told her i hope she's found happiness. such a bastard i am.

i'm so misogynistic, my second love, the first one i proposed to, only had to ask "when are you coming back?" to me from across the country a couple years after kicking me to the curb for the aforementioned cheater beater she wedded blissfully, to give her a second chance to turn me out when i got back and cried as i tried making love to a woman that didn't want to say it back as much as feel empowered or something i don't know. had she married me, we wouldn't of had any of that S&M porn crap she's "talented" at. then there was the time i said to her, just before she waived me off the 2nd time,
"why is it you aren't happy unless something's wrong?"
to which she replied
"you read me like a book"
that was the weirdest compliment i think i've ever gotten. i don't miss that gal. hate on me all you want

i'm so misogynistic that i drive women that don't want to hear "sorry, i'm not that into you" out of their minds and "passionate" to the point they just have to kill you for failing to perform the private services that DO delight you like giving full body massages and avoiding the fun spots on purpose or waiting for the "i got mine!" chime before i go for mine... but i don't do bondage or spanking.

i'm SO misogynistic that even though i'd never respond to her "hurt me now" requests, i still consider the year i spent living with a woman as friends only & watching her date scum that gave her what i wouldn't the best relationship i ever had, though open marriage is just not my thing, even common law ones.

i'm so misogynistic, that now i refuse to give into a woman if i'm not genuinely attracted to her, in big part out of a self preservation instinct and excuse me if i'm typing that with a sarcastic tone in my head. i'm not even starting it. that good guy thing every woman says she wants, but don't, lest they call you misogynistic for speaking truths bluntly.

i'm so misogynistic that i've only hit a girl once when a jealous mean spirited b#### of a control freak neighbor peer pressured me into slapping my beautiful ethnic gal pal that was sweet and exactly opposite of that b####. that's right, you know she was for that, when i was around 8 and enduring daily abuse myself. yeah... wanting to stay the eff away from ANY of that social climbing & hurtful type noise make ME misogynistic? you have just got some kinda nerve. no, i'm serious.

here's a wish for the wish thread...

i wish that essentially nice gal that wanted me to hurt her would magically say "i love it when you don't hurt me and all that other nice, and honest, goody goody stuff you're always doing and NEVER spanking or hurting me stuff all the other stoopid boys don't do."

something like that would be so, "and you're not like all those other stupid girls yourself there angela. peachy keen.

check yourselves before you claim to know me.

[Awesome]

Violent and overly aggressive behavior.
Insensitivity.
Hygiene deficit.
Religious.
Overly extroverted without any calm.
Unintelligent.

[Typhon]

Lack of
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.

[zeroemission]

your reasonable requests are on my to do list dear

[Saggita]

Aggressive behavior, for sure. Being too much emotional and whiny is also a deal breaker... Hygiene is good, so better be clean... I think that forcing religious beliefs down my throat is a major turn off for me too.

[Traverser]

Don't mock my job! Sure, it's sales, but it's honest work.

[v1fan]

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it's bad enough being judged as doodoo covered wuss by all of the normas of the world for the crime of being nice and honest, but to be judged here for refusing to settle for losers is insufferable, especially when i don't see my standards as being unreasonable. i like hippy chicks. i'm sure a lot of hippy chicks like nice guys, until they get frustrated trying to actually find one and start going to ani difranco (can NEVER remember her name) concerts. it REALLY is true... all of the good ones are married gay or crazy! when i rode past a line for a difranco concert, i couldn't believe all of the nerdy hippies. it's a shame that they just hide in the closet. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. you still feel like arguing? really? if i am the "abusive sociopath" that you ladies are labelling me to be (i bet you even fail to see the IRONY of your hen pecking), then it's BECAUSE EFFING WOMEN HAVE DRIVEN ME TO IT! i'm sick and tired of being dismissed by EVERY woman i've ever been attracted to in favor of losers i'm better than in EVERY way, uh, except being abusive, so if anything, i'm playing the game YOU (women) want because it sure hasn't worked being honest and being labelled "brutally honest" for it because i refuse to tell you an outfit makes you look good if it's, say, some retina burning royal blue faux silk chinese jumpsuit. having some b#### that you've been nothing but considerate to try to kill you in your sleep, or crush you on stairs with a refrigerator will give you a new perspective on the "sugar and spice" myth. i'm also hostile about stupid women that only respond to hostility and don't you DARE deny the truth there. i'm not a tow the line & pretend women are flawless and examples of perfection myth that sickens me and the double standards it obfuscates. tell a woman she's the best thing that you lover her and wish to marry her, and she'll chose instead a TOTAL loser that: you're smarter than by a factor of 10, funnier than, better looking than, WAY more honest than, nicer than, a much better dancer than and so on so poor little miss than gets married to him and be cheated on within a month of the marriage where you would NEVER have done that, because, among your other hideous traits like honesty, you're inherently monogamous. tell a woman you hate her guts and wish she'd just go away and play in traffic, and you can't get rid of the stupid hoe. eff you and your trying to twist my words around s###! being nice has NEVER done anything for me except get women to run away ASAP. if you REALLY think i'm so abusive, then why do i have this collection of rejections: "you're a nice guy, but... (as soon as you hear those words... you KNOW you're dealing with another stupid woman who thinks with her scum seeking vagina... deal with it... i'm keeping it real and breaking the "pure as the driven snow" myth once and for all) - i don't think of you like that - you're not my type (2x minimum) - you're like a brother to me - i'm interested in someone else - i don't want to ruin our friendship (with you as my devoted slave worm boy) - i'm just getting over a bad relationship - it's not a good idea dating someone you work with and probably a few others i'm forgetting yes, dealing with such stupidity in women my ENTIRE LIFE has made me bitter. you effing bet ya! heck... just a few DAYS AGO, a "sociopathic nympho" i have zero interest in as i can spot a fatal attraction a mile away now after my last one with a loser i treated TOO NICELY and that i've REPEATEDLY told "it ain't ever gonna happen, you're not my type, i like goody goodies & hippy chicks and you ain't either, and don't take that as a challenge either." (in much nicer words, mind you) decided to play the suicide overdose card in an attempt to trap me (another WONDERFUL female trait... NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) and when i tried to comfort her and eventually chase her into the rain barefeet and put myself between her and the heroin she was out to score to put herself out of her misery, i got a cigarette burn in the neck for it with a "that's what you get!" upon which i finally let her go because i have limits to my patience. how dare you sit there and judge me! how f###ing dare you! i have NEVER raised a finger on a woman ever, even when she was begging for it, and, in fact, am disgusted by women who want to be abused for fun. it isn't in my nature. telling it like it is, and not what the lying sacks of the world want you to go along with though, yeah, that is definitely me! it wouldn't be so bad if women weren't such duplicitous insane hypocrites who love to complain about men's bad traits when those are exactly what they're attracted to because, god forbid, they ever actually met a nice guy that treated them like a goddess, they gotta think up some lame "you're a nice guy, but..." excuse for WHAT SCIENCE HAS UNEQUIVOCALLY PROVEN SO ROTATE ON YOUR OBFUSCATION BECAUSE I'M DEALING IN FACTS HERE need an example straight from the mouth of a woman herself? can do! call me a liar... i dare you... i'll fight the whole lot of you before i budge a millimeter from the truth and the reason i'm all worked up is that you're trying to hide behind the myth and silence the truth... over my dead body... almost tested THAT theory. rest assured though... you don't ever have to worry about dating me... i don't like snotty condescending women one bit. just like masochists that want to turn me into an abuser, you disgust me. save your lies for fidiots who actually believe them and that will keep them propped up at any costs. i won't back down from the truth for anybody ever.

Interesting...maybe your ex is a BPD. They usually try to convince you to give yourself the radiator fluid...

[zibber]

No face. Not having a face.

[Midhiel]

	Originally Posted by zeroemission To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	la la la la... still not listening. anyways. this is how misogynistic i am...

Calm down. Stop giving reasons to think you're misogynistic if you're not.

And be fair. Your ex is as entitled to like BDSM as you are to dislike it. There is nothing wrong with either of you for having these preferences. I don't understand why you keep coming back to that - she enjoys some sexual activity that you don't, so you weren't compatible. End of.

Don't act like you're under attack, and do what you say you want to do - wait for a girl in whom you're really interested and who doesn't have your dealbreakers. Then go for her. Simple. If she doesn't come along, and you need someone, adjust your requirements. If she doesn't come along, and you don't need anyone, calm down and don't assume everyone's evil.

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	No face. Not having a face.

That is a bit off-putting.

[MechanicalSun]

Rough hands.

[N0c7urn3]

Religious
Dumb
Pretentious

And I don't know what to call this, but someone who only likes things that are currently popular i.e. music in the top 40, books on the bestseller list, clothes that are in fashion. Trendy?

[blackboard]

	Originally Posted by N0c7urn3 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Religious And I don't know what to call this, but someone who only likes things that are currently popular i.e. music in the top 40, books on the bestseller list, clothes that are in fashion. Trendy?

Trendy? No. Lazy!

[zeroemission]

- heavy metal
- lies
- halloween
- plushymons
- orgies
- tobacco
- S&M
- ahole friends anywhere near my castle, especially contemptable queens
- racism
- petroleum worship
- junkies
- being deaf to "you're not my type, don't even think about it"
- hunting & fishing.

i think i offended a gorgeous asian woman who worked in a chinese restaurant when she suggested i fish with her brothers when i was still a vegan. she'd offered me a piece of candy the time i ordered hot & sour soup the visit before i think. i don't like seafood even as an omnivore. i have fished and just don't like the WTF?! experience the fish must experience. i'd rather feed fish. i quit keeping goldfish the 2nd time everything got sick & died before i could solve the problem.

[FarmlandTension]

Dishonesty, smoking... Being into hunting and animal cruelty would probably be a dealbreaker too. Other than that, I think there are a lot of things that would generally put me off, but could potentially be overlooked if they were awesome in other ways. I'd almost put being too tall as a dealbreaker, I like my men under 5'10", but I wouldn't completely refuse to go out with someone based solely on their height.

[Akeish]

Physically - bad teeth, bad hair cut, and dirty nails

Characteristically - overbearing, worthless, jobless, goal-less, mediocre, static, ok with status quo, oke doke (accepting of all things without one inquiry)...
I guess thats it

[SirJamesIII]

sloppy vagina

[peppersasen]

i don't know if this is an appropriate place to say this, but i'm beginning find it rather pathetic how people have such extensive "deal breaker lists". especially if the person is single. it's like those people who THINK they know why they're single, but don't (and they blame it on society, when the truth is... nobody wants them because they just have a rotten personality and there's nothing else to it). it almost comes off as a way to make excuses why you're single (but it's THEM, not me... kind of like the person who INSISTS they did the dumping and they weren't the ones being dumped). i think the truth is, they're so full of other people's deal-breakers, but they don't know how to improve themselves, so they resort to convincing themselves that they're turned off by others, and not the other way around. kind of like the
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, but slightly more pity-inducing. the world is interesting and funny like that, isn't it? sorry if that was harsh. honest thoughts. i think the people who act the most like "people connoisseurs", like they're Anna Wintours weeding through outfits at fashion week are the ones who are the real "undesirables" offline. some of the things people list here are equally harsh.

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	Texting, shopping, watching tv and going to a bar are not interests. I don't know how people float through life with absolutely zero hobbies, but they are in the majority.

some people work 12-14 hours a day to make a living. when they do have free time, it is spent running errands ("shopping"). if i worked less hours, i wouldn't be too tired to
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in my free time (assuming i had much of it). and i wouldn't be slouched on couch in front of the TV trying to sleep or posting unfocused posts here. some people out there work more hours for less, they don't have time for "hobbies". sometimes people like that feel like they "have no life" and say whatever they do in their free time is their "hobby". i don't understand why you're so judgmental.

[zeroemission]

being single has it's merits. peace and quiet is a rare treat in this world full of irrationals. being in a relationship where you're merely settling isn't fair to anyone either and only leads to drama eventually.

i know my type. i know it exists. i danced with a gorgeous mellow chick and made some fool jealous enough he had to panhandle her until she walked away. ah them gals with the sundresses. i respect mennonites and all, but those work boots have to go.

[peppersasen]

	Originally Posted by zeroemission To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	being single has it's merits. peace and quiet is a rare treat in this world full of irrationals.

what i don't get is, if people enjoy being single so much, why do they complain so much about what turns them off about people? how is it relevant to someone? if someone's not your cup of tea, then they're not. what i sense going on here (and this is pure hunch, just a feeling), many users who post on this list are really bitching post-negative experience. they're really bitching/badmouthing someone who disappointed them in the past/didn't like them back, as opposed to sharing ideals and values.