[jammi]

	Originally Posted by Mientame To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I will admit my view has over time gone from 'he is a good person who can occasionally make a miss-step.' To 'he is a good person when others can admire that he is being a good person'

To me, he sounds like a scumbag. If I were you, I'd just put him in ignore mode.

[Mayu]

Your gf will have to make the call. If she's uncomfortable with the attention he has been showering her, then she should tell him off, not you. Frankly, you have no right to tell your friend what not to do even though he was being obviously ethically incorrect. The implicated one who is in this case, your gf, will need to take a strong stand. The moment she wavers....well, say goodbye to your relationship then.

Edit: On a separate note, your friend is one sick b@stard.

[Mientame]

	Originally Posted by zibber To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	Why on Earth would you continue hanging out with this person? Sending INTJ/ENFP death spiral links to your partner? For reals?

We get along very well, when a significant other isn't involved.

	Originally Posted by jammi To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	To me, he sounds like a scumbag. If I were you, I'd just put him in ignore mode.

I'll definitely be more cautious.

Originally Posted by Mayu To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Your gf will have to make the call. If she's uncomfortable with the attention he has been showering her, then she should tell him off, not you. Frankly, you have no right to tell your friend what not to do even though he was being obviously ethically incorrect. The implicated one who is in this case, your gf, will need to take a strong stand. The moment she wavers....well, say goodbye to your relationship then.

Once I talked to her again (about a week ago) and told her in a more organized way (similar to the opening post in this thread) she definitely saw the weirdness behind it all. She decided to cut ties with him.

I would like to say though that for the time being this issue is resolved. I don't wish for you guys to waste anymore time on a relationship problem.