Your sex drive. - Page 3

**Selene** · 05-06-2012, 10:07 AM

When unprovoked, 0.

**MyotisLucifugus** · 05-06-2012, 11:37 AM

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	10 and it gets annoying fast. Anyone know how to stop it? It's always been at 10 since I first had sex (later age than usual). So far to reduce my sex drive, I have tried: aerobic activity (makes it worse) eating healthy (makes it worse) having lots of sex (makes it worse) having no sex (makes it worse) distraction (no difference). In conclusion: this sucks!

This. Add on marijuana, stress, sporadic unsupervised free time and a significant other I see once a week and I wind up spending most of my free moments daydreaming about the next time.

**Selene** · 05-06-2012, 11:40 AM

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	This. Add on marijuana, stress, sporadic unsupervised free time and a significant other I see once a week and I wind up spending most of my free moments daydreaming about the next time.

Spoken like a true soldier with less than 5 years field experience in monogamy. I'm impressed.
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**Littllefilly** · 05-06-2012, 08:13 PM

Originally Posted by clumsywordsmith
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I wonder if the majority of you people have actually -met- someone with an extremely high sex drive. Because, in my book, a ten is the kind of person who has no qualms with fornicating noisily on my futon while spending the night, with no door between their room and the next person's -- who happened to be attempting to sleep less than twenty feet away. Or slips off to their truck for a quick masturbation session before heading back to work.

I'd say I'm around 4-5.

So would doing it in the stairwell of a parking garage, with your husband, while he is not residing at home for a month, or wanting to start a photo album of all the places we have been intimate.. considered high or extremely high, according to your books?

They make ear plugs..lol

**Nonlinear376** · 05-06-2012, 09:58 PM

i'm about an 8 most of the time

**Fluffy** · 05-06-2012, 10:05 PM

Before gym 7
After gym 3
Few hours later 9
Early morning ... maybe a few octillion

**Fox** · 05-07-2012, 09:11 AM

Maybe 4. Can go lower and much higher depending on the environment.

**nashburn8** · 05-07-2012, 06:03 PM

I used to be a beast when I was 18, but I've mellowed out now at the age of 30. The sex drive has been a little higher lately. Maybe its the Wellbutrin.

**Darkrose50** · 05-07-2012, 09:51 PM

Well I suppose such a thing is relative. I remember hearing that you can think of the frequency of sex you would be satisfied with:

1. Twice a day?
2. Twice a week?
3. Twice a month?
4. Twice a season?
5. Twice a year?

If I could I would have sex every other day or so. I would love to have it twice a week, but I can settle for twice a month. Anything beyond that and I get cranky. I would say that my sex drive is an 8-10. When I was younger I would want sex multiple times a day (whenever I could get it).

**Monica** · 05-07-2012, 09:56 PM

9...

^ which I guess in your scale above, Darkrose50 would put me in category (1)

**Metathronos** · 05-08-2012, 07:54 AM

I would say mine ranges from 0-6 or 7ish usually with it sometimes being higher. It depends on many factors. I don't like the average girl per si either. I prefer getting to know them well and their personality and who they are will turn me on along with beauty of course, but I cannot stand fake girls. Bleh. I also get really horny alone in the dark.

**Pinhas** · 05-08-2012, 09:03 AM

I go through phases; some days its tapping out at 10, and I cant think of anything else. On others its 1-2, where I just cant be bothered.

I did find that certain people bring it out of my more than others.

**mzclarol** · 05-08-2012, 05:07 PM

My INTJ friend has an incredible sex drive, for a man of 50. But he's in very good physical shape. The best and most creative lover I've ever had!
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He always amazes me!
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**Zodd** · 05-08-2012, 05:14 PM

Originally Posted by Darkrose50
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Well I suppose such a thing is relative. I remember hearing that you can think of the frequency of sex you would be satisfied with:

1. Twice a day?
2. Twice a week?
3. Twice a month?
4. Twice a season?
5. Twice a year?

If I could I would have sex every other day or so. I would love to have it twice a week, but I can settle for twice a month. Anything beyond that and I get cranky. I would say that my sex drive is an 8-10. When I was younger I would want sex multiple times a day (whenever I could get it).

It was more like 3-8 times a day when my sex-drive was high. Now still a few times a day but more because I'm bored and I like the mindset before and after sex.

**Toolmaker** · 05-08-2012, 05:47 PM

Whats a sex drive? I'm a male and I drive a truck.

**Thinktress** · 05-08-2012, 07:01 PM

	Originally Posted by nashburn8 To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
	I used to be a beast when I was 18, but I've mellowed out now at the age of 30. The sex drive has been a little higher lately. Maybe its the Wellbutrin.

nothing like a little noradrenaline (norepinephrine) to stir things up...

**Mind Marauder** · 06-10-2012, 12:49 PM

During the morning and late at night: 10.
During the day: Between 8 and 9.

I'm a 21 year old male. So this isn't exactly abnormal. However, it can be incredibly annoying, tiring, distracting, etc.

**s4nder** · 06-10-2012, 01:43 PM

If my constantly horny ENFP friend is a 10, I'm probably a 4. I can mostly keep it under control.

**joeleoj** · 06-10-2012, 02:12 PM

When I was 18, I was probably an 11. Now, at 33 (all kidding aside).... 6-7 or so, depending on the situation. I find the more intellectually engaging the activities I am involved in are, the less I think about it, to be honest. My recent ex, who is an INFJ, had a voracious sex drive, but only when provoked.

**QTee** · 03-01-2013, 09:16 PM

This calls for an intj orgy! Hahaha! Jk....

Mine is like 8 maybee...

**Auntie** · 03-01-2013, 10:24 PM

Probably 8 or 9. Depends to a large extent on the environment.

**robotnixon** · 03-01-2013, 10:31 PM

Originally Posted by Darkrose50
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Well I suppose such a thing is relative. I remember hearing that you can think of the frequency of sex you would be satisfied with:

1. Twice a day?
2. Twice a week?
3. Twice a month?
4. Twice a season?
5. Twice a year?

If I could I would have sex every other day or so. I would love to have it twice a week, but I can settle for twice a month. Anything beyond that and I get cranky. I would say that my sex drive is an 8-10. When I was younger I would want sex multiple times a day (whenever I could get it).

But does number of times get at it? Some orgasms might be higher than others, and some people are more/less inclined to supplement with masturbation. For an extreme case, what if you were somebody that didn't enjoy intercourse and never did it, but masturbated almost constantly. Is that somebody with a high sex drive or a low sex drive?

**Auntie** · 03-01-2013, 10:55 PM

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	But does number of times get at it? Some orgasms might be higher than others, and some people are more/less inclined to supplement with masturbation. For an extreme case, what if you were somebody that didn't enjoy intercourse and never did it, but masturbated almost constantly. Is that somebody with a high sex drive or a low sex drive?

Good point.

"Twice a week" of ten minutes and a few grunts versus "twice a week" of two or three hours and va-voom. Big difference.

**Chameleon** · 03-01-2013, 10:57 PM

**too late** · 03-01-2013, 11:07 PM

Honestly, like a 1 on average. That was done by calculating how high (or low) on the scale it would be when I actually DO have a sex drive and then lowering that number depending on how often I get it.

05-06-2012, 10:07 AM	#51
Selene Veteran Member [84%] MBTI: XXXX Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 3,383	When unprovoked, 0.
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Nonlinear376 New Member [01%] MBTI: INxJ Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 19	i'm about an 8 most of the time
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05-06-2012, 10:05 PM	#56
Fluffy Member [06%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 242	Before gym 7 After gym 3 Few hours later 9 Early morning ... maybe a few octillion
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05-07-2012, 09:11 AM	#57
Fox Member [45%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,836	Maybe 4. Can go lower and much higher depending on the environment.
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nashburn8 Member [02%] MBTI: intj Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 88	I used to be a beast when I was 18, but I've mellowed out now at the age of 30. The sex drive has been a little higher lately. Maybe its the Wellbutrin.
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05-07-2012, 09:51 PM	#59
Darkrose50 New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 9	Well I suppose such a thing is relative. I remember hearing that you can think of the frequency of sex you would be satisfied with: 1. Twice a day? 2. Twice a week? 3. Twice a month? 4. Twice a season? 5. Twice a year? If I could I would have sex every other day or so. I would love to have it twice a week, but I can settle for twice a month. Anything beyond that and I get cranky. I would say that my sex drive is an 8-10. When I was younger I would want sex multiple times a day (whenever I could get it).
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05-07-2012, 09:56 PM	#60
Monica New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 21	9... ^ which I guess in your scale above, Darkrose50 would put me in category (1)
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05-08-2012, 07:54 AM	#61
Metathronos New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 3	I would say mine ranges from 0-6 or 7ish usually with it sometimes being higher. It depends on many factors. I don't like the average girl per si either. I prefer getting to know them well and their personality and who they are will turn me on along with beauty of course, but I cannot stand fake girls. Bleh. I also get really horny alone in the dark.
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Pinhas New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 8	I go through phases; some days its tapping out at 10, and I cant think of anything else. On others its 1-2, where I just cant be bothered. I did find that certain people bring it out of my more than others.
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Toolmaker New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 65	Whats a sex drive? I'm a male and I drive a truck.
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Mind Marauder Member [13%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 529	During the morning and late at night: 10. During the day: Between 8 and 9. I'm a 21 year old male. So this isn't exactly abnormal. However, it can be incredibly annoying, tiring, distracting, etc.
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s4nder Member [14%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 595	If my constantly horny ENFP friend is a 10, I'm probably a 4. I can mostly keep it under control.
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joeleoj Member [02%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 91	When I was 18, I was probably an 11. Now, at 33 (all kidding aside).... 6-7 or so, depending on the situation. I find the more intellectually engaging the activities I am involved in are, the less I think about it, to be honest. My recent ex, who is an INFJ, had a voracious sex drive, but only when provoked.
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QTee New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 10	This calls for an intj orgy! Hahaha! Jk.... Mine is like 8 maybee...
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Auntie Member [38%] MBTI: INTx Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 1,542	Probably 8 or 9. Depends to a large extent on the environment.
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too late Member [02%] MBTI: INTx Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 101	Honestly, like a 1 on average. That was done by calculating how high (or low) on the scale it would be when I actually DO have a sex drive and then lowering that number depending on how often I get it.
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