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Maybe, the results are intriguing but I agree that more knowledge in needed in this area. For an alternative way of contemplating our argument, well this is easy, i'll refer to Angelina's comment below....
It's possible, but not easy and pretty soon the mind is once again taken over by automatic thinking, try it and see how long it takes. So it's a limited ability and I'd venture to guess it's not type related, being part of the human condition, though type may very well indicate some of the content and structure. |
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But you're a person, not a rock. What makes you so motivated to know what life is like for a rock? |
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Hmm, there's a lot here. And a lot of things come to my mind. "I used to think it was a terrible thing that life was so unfair. Then I thought, 'what if life were fair, and all of the terrible things that happen to us came because we really deserved them?' Now I take great comfort in the general unfairness and hostility of the universe." |
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yet another way to look at it (without reading every reply in detail) is to ask "What/why/who is the 'you' that didn't ask to be born?"
Do you think your worldview prevents you from seeing the wonder and mystery of existence, the joy of life, the bliss of being...? A myriad bubbles were floating on the surface of a stream. 'What are you?' I cried to them as they drifted by. 'I am a bubble, of course' nearly a myriad bubbles answered, and there was surprise and indignation in their voices as they passed. But, here and there, a lonely little bubble answered, 'We are this stream', and there was neither surprise nor indignation in their voices, but just a quiet certitude. - Wei Wu Wei are you a bubble? or are you the stream? ---------- Post added 04-11-2012 at 01:07 PM ----------
i love that... |
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Apparently you have yet to grok:
Good Luck in finding a groking. |
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karma's indeed a bitch (or a princess), though.
When you give a shilling to a beggar - do you realise that you are giving it to yourself? When you help a lame dog over a stile - do you realise that you yourself are being helped? When you kick a man when he is down - do you realise that you are kicking yourself? Give him another kick - if you deserve it! -wei wu wei (i love Heinlein) |
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Sorry kids, for bothering you with such big questions! I already know the answers myself, but I was just trying to test you guys.
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I think it's normal to be occasionally upset by life, or not happy with our existence, or to feel confused, our existence is beyond comprehension. |
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So? Change. |
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Only if you choose to take meaning out of them. |
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Close enough |
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The reason for why I wish a man is mostly because I'm from a very traditional and religious family, so girls are expected to act certain ways, but I don't believe in those things. They aren't forcing me to do things I don't like..but if I was 100% myself then I would "break their hearts"... so I'm between two worlds. It would be more acceptable for men to not accept those kind of rules, so there won't be any broken hearts lol. So instead of changing all the rules alone by myself, I just wish I was a man. haha! Because I have other things that's going on my head too, so I can't use my energy on that lol.
Another reason is that men don't need to use make-up. But this--->"I wish I was a man" thing is only a little part(maybe 1%) of why I want to NOT exist, but can't NOT exist. You know what? Forget this To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. |
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I have been asking myself some of the questions in this thread, and have some of my own questions.
@disillusioned: Thank you, your thoughts were very interesting and encouraging. I have two problems with them, though, which I hope you (or anyone else) might consider: 1. I understand that Frankl says it is necessary for human beings to find some meaning in life. But how can I convince myself that whatever meaning I could choose is not a delusion? How do I know it is "right", when there are so many meanings to choose from? And how can I firmly believe it if I know that I am just "feeding" it to myself to exist? 2. I have a problem with "being myself" on the one hand and "being anything I choose to be" on the other. The first assumes that the self is static, the second that it can be changed at will. What's the truth? If both are possible, when should we resort to which? Thanks! |
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Very true. |
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I feel like I'm polluting this cute forum with negativity and pessimism by sharing my dark thoughts and feelings about life!
To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. I'm depressed folks, so this is the only place I can express my feelings that I've been hiding on the inside my whole life from the real world. I know that my negativity won't affect anybody, but I'm realizing that it becomes a little bit annoying To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. I will heal myself soon, so forgive me for this negativity. It'll be over, I know it. Thanks to those who wasted their time on answering me, and sorry if I've been a little bit rude! To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. |
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Hmm, you must first understand where meaning comes from. I wrote on this in a paper where I was explaining that meaning is subjective while morality is universal. Some people ask how can one be subjective and the other be objective? I explain:
You have a misunderstanding of what it means to "be myself". It does not mean static or unchanging, it merely means acting in accordance with your true self. So an example, you can act authentically and still manage to change throughout your life based on new experiences and the attainment of new knowledge and also through reflection and your own will. If at any moment you do not like who you are, you are free to change. If you truly want to change then it will not be inauthentic to change and thus you are acting in accordance with your true self by seeking change. I asked this same question in meditation I said 'I want to change a certain aspect of myself, but if I change would I still be being myself?' My voice of reason said to me: You can change without changing who you are. |
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So, where is the objective morality in this case ? |
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I have talked about objective morality in other threads. He asked about meaning, I merely shared with him a small section of a paper where I addressed both. I will not derail this thread with a debate over relativism and absolutism. |
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I'm addressing you cause you referenced the argument. This is a 'meta' question, if you will, as I have absolutely no interest in 'the abortion argument', per se. |
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First off, it does not make sense to ask where objective morality is in this case. Morality is either objective or subjective. If it is objective it would be objective in every case. If what you meant to ask is 'how do we know' what objective morality is in that case, then that would be a question of the epistemology of morality not the ontology, and that is off topic as this thread is about ontology and the nature of existence and being. Also, it is not a topic of the ontology of morality but of meaning, free will and purpose (i.e. topics addressed in existentialism, not ethics). |
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Thank you very much, disillusioned. Your answer was very interesting and helpful to me. No questions at the moment, but I can't guarantee that it will stay that way
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What precisely do you mean by the "female role"? |
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Nope, you sound like the cute one. Too many smileys. |
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But they are for free! I'm afraid of not having enough time to use them all! |
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no. mathematics does not exist in such a universe.
math is a language that describes, and what would be described still exists, but not the description... |
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