[Muse]

Could I ever know
which path to go?
Did I find sparks
or fireflies?
Are they different
or the same?
Do they not both live in their own way?

[davai]

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, cause I love her and it's all been, and will be all, magical. Yes, this corny too, on occasions, but I know you'd grant me at least this. We're made for each other honey. G'night
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[Noelle]

At the end of the day, I just don't know what's good for me.

That's why I guess I have the overwhelming need to be alone. I don't want to hurt anyone, I never want to drag anyone down with me.

I wish you could understand, but I understand if you don't. Probably means you're better off than me, and I don't hold that against anyone.

Signed,
just me.

[dontmesswithme]

You waste so much time with all your shit. It's so unnecessary. You shouldn't do stupid things like that. You make me tired. Your horseshit is ridiculous. You should be here right now. But you're not. You're not.

[Lilie]

Dear Guy on a Dating Site,

I've really enjoyed the 6 messages we've exchanged so far. You have a lot of my interests including games, books, and music, and you like the same TV shows to the point where you listed the one I happen to be watching right now twice. That's really great! You also don't have or want kids, don't smoke, and are a "serious" atheist. Wow.

You only have one picture but it's very attractive. I'm a little concerned that all of your match questions are private; what are you hiding? I use an anonymous profile to spy on your log-in times so I don't look like a psycho checking your profile all the time, even though I totally am. The time when you logged in and then didn't reply to my message totally freaked me out (actually this is when I started using the anon profile), but you came back later and responded. Whew.

I'd like to thank you for bringing my attention to my insane fear of loss/abandonment. I know I still have a lot of personal issues to work out but sometimes I'm not really sure where to start. This is like gold and I will be diligently googling and analyzing it all day.

I hope you intend to ask me out for coffee in the next message.

Sincerely, Lilie

[manbearpig0]

Lmfao i love how every intj in here made sarcastic letters.

OP, you do realize this is an intj forum, right?

[Foggers]

I'm not over you.

Anyway it should be really fun when you come over here. Hopefully you will want to chill out in the park and watch me play softball.

[JulietCapulet]

Hugs

Genuinely and sincerely.

[Nemesis]

Thank you for reminding me of my humanity. Too bad you'll never know it.

[PRBori]

Dear SO,

Yesterday after you took off and returned, things went sour to the point I thought of calling a cab to head back home and leave you alone, then somehow you came down and we went on to dinner, an awful restaurant that we both agree upon.. (bad idea to listen to the hotel clerk, clearly she has no idea what good food and service is, now we can add it to the scratch list).In any event, things flipped today and where a whole lot better, at least after breakfast before you kept on insinuating I was still mad. Which I wasn't even thought you had invalid reasons for your tantrum, but I must admit, your screaming out at night about personal things was a turn-off. Hell not even a 20yr old in the right mind would do that, but anyway. Thank you for a crazy weekend, I know I was a bit bitchy about it, I had made other plans for the weekend and fishing all day was not part of it. I have lots of work to do, and I need it the time, yes I'm a workaholic, I admit, but for a good reason.

But don't mind me. I'm glad you liked tonights dinner with our own rainbow trout catch. Hopefully next time you give me more time and don't do things spontaneously those impacting my actual plans. It drives me nuts, specially if I have to work.

Much love,

PRBori

[Elenchus]

Dear J,

You are the best part of my day, and the conversations, gifts, movies, dates, hugs, etc have been lovely. But I really wish you'd hurry up and finally admit you like me. It hasn't been much of a secret for the last year.

No pressure.

Love, me

P.S. Just a head's up - I know you like to do things on your own terms, so you'd better hurry up before my roommate finally snaps and demands an explanation herself. You know she'd do it.

[MyotisLucifugus]

J,

It's going to be a while before I can openly tell you that I love you and that you've been included in my future plans, but I do and have. Oh, and your MBTI results were absolutely no surprise. Watching you read through the type description as gleefully as you did made me melt a bit inside. God, you're amazing.

This week is going to be excruciating.

J.

[angelina]

My love, will I ever fall in love with you?
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[JackCY]

hugs

[CakeZ]

Mary.
I don't even know what to say.
I've only been friends with you for a year.
This will be incomprehensible, as I am nervous as fuck just thinking about you.
For some reason, I think you
I don't even know.
I'm not even writing this letter to you
and my heart pounds.
Its horrible.
Even if you wanted to be with me, and I do want to be with you,
I wont.
Not incompetence alone.
I don't want you to have to put up with me
I don't want there to be any chance for me to sadden you at any time.
It would be better,
for I,
To leave you to yourself,
Even if, you desire me.
Eventually, you would surpass the desire of me and lose interest.
And I would let that happen, even though I would not.
I don't want to risk you,
a friendship
or a love.
It simply cannot occur.

From me.

Besides.
Its a waste of time to love.
Not only does it prevent me,
it prevents you.
A hindrance.
A distraction from the world.
Other things must be done, more important than satisfying myself, more so than disappointing you.

[Nancyninja]

Dear possible "crush",
It seems I like you, probably because youre hiding deep seeded emotional problems from me. Also, you've managed to charm me, mostly by physical appearance. You probably like me too, otherwise I wouldn't have considered you. We might happen to form a committed relationship. In the beginning, we will have a lot of fun. You will probably take me out to dinner and to movies a lot to impress me. You will also agree with my opinions no matter how odd they may be to impress me. You will also try to convince me that you have ambition and are intelligent to impress me. You will probably soon realize that I am unaffectionate and that I am limited in my emotional expression pertaining to you. This probably bothers you, in fact you are confused by it and you feel inadequate. These perplexing feelings cause an indirect feeling of passion for me, fear that I will leave you, and a quest to win my love. I am with you because you, beyond physical attraction, because you have eluded me by hiding behind a fasad you created to impress me. At this point I am probably ignoring your imperfections, no matter how significant, which I my fault entirely. I will probably enjoy spending time with you at first and i will belive that i like you a lot. After a short time together, you will probably express your love to me and by subtle implications demand that I do the same. Under this pressure, I will do so, yet I don't, with a 99% certainty. this will make me highly uncomfortable and suspicious of you. A direct result of this will be less intercourse, which will amplify your insanity as the insecure person you are.
I will soon see through this fasad you've created and see your imperfections and come to the realization that you have been leeching off of me. At this point it will be too late as you have already introduced me to all of your friends and family (another one of your ploys to trap me) and they will probably be inviting and very likable because you've probably already told them that I'm your soul mate. This will make me feel guilty as I do experience human emotions too. Now, I will begin to convince myself that I can tolerate you for a longer amount of time and strategizing how to do so. I will soon find that you have no ambition in life but to be supported by me, your family, or the government. All of the fun we had at the beginning will fade exponentially and your spontaneity will disappear. The person that I once found funny, talented, and intelligent will have become someone who constantly talks about the future you see us in. As you are becoming more and more attached to me, I am becoming more and more distant. I will probably grow to resent you but hope that our breakup will be pleasant as I never want to see or hear from you again.
Dear crush, I don't know whether to call you emotionally unstable or legitimately insane. Your only mistake was expecting me to love you, especially immediately, and showering you with affection. Also, lying to me about who you really are. Also, continuing to pursue a relationship with me after understanding that I will never be who you wanted me to be. Also, letting your hygiene and figure go.
My mistake was my blindness of you despite the subtle hints. Also trying to convince myself it would work and not being upfront when I wanted to breakup, which was probably long overdue.
Dear crush, you are one of the most insecure people I've ever met, please go find someone just as insecure to control and who would be willing to marry you after just a month, which is when you will probably propose marriage.
P.s. don't ever call, ever

[notabugiswear]

I'll see you tomorrow! I want to say I love you so badly, but I'll hold on for that sweeping moment where I'll be able to express it via I love you too.

Smiles,
Chris

[The Frozen One]

SO,

I know I am an enigma to you in a lot of ways. I also know that you have trouble understanding me because I don't act in the same manner as many other men. I love you but you have to understand that I am wired differently and that I am not interested in fitting in to the average guy mold. That's not who I am. I've never been that kind of guy nor will I ever be.

You have known me long enough to understand this. I'm the same guy now as I have been day one. I still don't dig pop culture. I still don't like hanging out at clubs or strip bars. I'm still a loner with the exception of wanting you around. I am still fiercely dedicated to you and you alone. That has not changed. It will not change unless it is what you want. If so, I'll move on and wish you well.

Until that time it's still you and I. Fuck the rest of the world. You matter. Others don't. Stop trying to figure me out because you never will. The important thing you need to understand about me are the things that you already know. I love you. I'll never betray you. I'll make sure that you have everything you ever need. No one will ever harm you as long as I draw breath. As long as you understand this, the rest is irrelevant.

Still yours now and forever,
The Popsicle.

[JackCY]

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[PRBori]

Dear SO,

Things have gone sour and yes I've been considering to move out. We seem to have different views on what we want in the relationship. You want a family and family time, I want to focus on work and my business. You love fishing all day long, I feel is a waste of time to stare at the river waiting for a bite. You love drinking daily every night, I'm starting to resent it because I keep hoping you will lower your intake and your not. you want attention when I'm working, and I cannot give it to you right there. You act like a 10-15yr old sometimes, and it drives me nuts. You lack etiquette and sensitivity and sometimes it comes out as someone dis-respectful to others and that drives me nuts. When i say something, you flip it into something else and insinuate things that are way off, so communications is broken. And most important you keep telling me to start looking for a place way to many times when I ask you to limit intake or say anything and I've begun the process. The only concern at this point is that school has not ended and I have no plans on staying in the same area. I plan to move down closer to work to avoid the insane traffic.

But nevertheless, I'm working on it and know that once I'm out there is no turning back, ever, so when I do, do not bother to call and beg me to come back for I won't.

[hallokitty]

Dear you,

(1) Kindly remove yourself from my thoughts.
(2) Can you just kiss me?

Thanks.

From,
me.

[JackCY]

I'm completely lovesick I'll have to do something about it.

[thecalm]

Sunshine! Light me up again if I fade.

[Frenetic Tranq]

You aren't bad. I guess I'll keep you a few more days.

[notabugiswear]

Rob,

Wow. Who knew you were an INTJ after you said that. Babe, I love you too. A lot, okay? I won't ever leave your side, either. I am infinitely and unconditionally yours. I just hope my heart is in good hands, forever is a long time.

Chris