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| Male/sexually active/pro-choice |
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90 | 23.94% |
| Male/not sexually active/pro-choice |
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81 | 21.54% |
| Male/sexually active/pro-life or anti-abortion |
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33 | 8.78% |
| Male/not sexually active/pro-life or anti-abortion |
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31 | 8.24% |
| Female/sexually active and fertile (even if on pill)/pro-choice |
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60 | 15.96% |
| Female/not sexually active or not fertile/pro-choice |
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42 | 11.17% |
| Female/sexually active and fertile/pro-life |
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11 | 2.93% |
| Female/not sexually active or not fertile/pro-life |
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12 | 3.19% |
| Other (pro-mandatory-abortions, don't care, eugenics option, etc.) |
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16 | 4.26% |
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| Abortion: where do you stand? | abortion, ethics |
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#1076 | |||
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Actually it does. Sometimes people are so stupid that you have to put it in writing though. 2) ASSUMPTION OF RISK. I know and understand the scope, nature and extent of the risks involved in the activities covered by this Agreement and that some dangers cannot be foreseen. I understand that these risks include, but are not limited to: equipment malfunction or failure to function; defective or negligent design or manufacture of equipment, improper or negligent parachute packing or assembly; improper or negligent operation or use of the equipment; carelessness of negligence of skydivers/parachutists, instructors, JumpMasters, pilots or ground crew; improper or negligent instruction or supervision. I voluntarily, freely, and expressly choose to incur all risks associated with the activities covered by this agreement, understanding that those risks may include bodily and personal injury, damage to property, disfigurement or death. I voluntarily and freely choose to incur such risks and take responsibility therefore. |
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#1077 | |||
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I agree. People shouldn't be able to deny liability for something that was clearly their choice. If they say they don't know any better, now they know. If they say they can't be liable for a deliberate decision they made, then they're idiots and should have to suffer the consequences because they've been forewarned and have no excuse. |
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It's not "put in writing for stupid people". That's put in writing to avoid being sued. |
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You have a difficult time with big picture concepts. Why does a release of liability exist? Beyond some simple written policy I mean. There is a fundamental reason the a legal disclaimer is needed that goes beyond simply "the law says so." People like to justify killing babies because the law says so, and if anyone mentions the reasons behind the law they writhe in pain and scream "Keep your damn God out of this!" |
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What is it then?
Abortion.
Who did this ? I know I didn't, because if abortion was illegal, I would still say the same things and try to make it legal.
What? Pro-choicers have no problem mentioning the reasons behind that law. I'm guessing you are talking about the reasons to disagree with the reasons behind that law.
Yes, please do.
The right to choose for yourself. Not the right to force anyone else to have an abortion.
Only a limitation to it, which is, the application of this right to fetuses beneath 20 weeks (or more, or less, depending on the person).
are private,
no importance either way as far as making laws goes,
as long as my own body is concerned, I damn well want it too. |
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And using God to justify morals is rational? Using God to justify legislation is rational? |
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Morals are subjective. If you're raised that cannibalism is okay you don't have an aversion to it. If you're raised that rape is okay then you have unpunished rape. Or have you never heard of countries where rapists can marry their victims to avoid prosecution so long as the family, who is afraid their daughter cannot be married to a man of worth because she is no longer a virgin, consents. Hmmm, jail or marriage where I can also legally beat my wife... There is no choice. While my morals scream this is wrong, it's not my society and therefore not my place to judge that it's wrong. The difference between the pro-choice and anti-abortion movement is that one side wants a choice where the cells that medically cannot feel pain and aren't even developed enough to be considered a person because again, medically, it's not viable can be removed from the mother. Yes, the potential life is gone. I don't see the problem considering I see the state the foster care system is already in and the number of parents who can't cope with the children they already have and adoption, is not the perfect solution despite your beliefs and arguments to the contrary. It was the right choice for me and my daughter even now she knows I was young and it was the best choice for us both. Her parents are wonderful people and I'm forever grateful they chose to love her and raise her when I could not. However, I know what anguish I went through with the constant wondering and worrying for 20 years. Every day for twenty years. I know that she went through a lot with questions and wondering every day. I know there is some resentment even though logically it was the best decision. I've counseled girls who have chosen adoption who later committed suicide because they could not handle not knowing. Open adoptions are not always a great option either for any of the parties. It's been shown to cause some adoptive parents to be unable to bond with the child because "the real parents" are around.
Do I think abortion is the correct option for me? No. I've had to make that choice before and it's not something I can do personally. The option is not an option for me. Had I gotten pregnant from rape I cannot say the same thing because it didn't happen so I don't know. Would I hold the hand of any of my daughters (any of the 11)? Yes. If that was their choice I would stand beside them. If they chose to parent or place the child for adoption I'd stand beside them. It's not my choice to make. The anti abortion crowd wants to make the choice for something that's not even viable outside the womb for women when it's really not their business. Worry about the women who chose to give birth to crack babies or HIV babies or the mother who lost her job and CPS took her five kids because she couldn't feed them. They're here, they really do need your protection. If there is a god and someone chooses abortion then she will answer for that. The thing the religious seem to forget is that it's not your place to judge anyone, it's your gods'. But since you like data so very much; The biggest percentage of abortions are performed long before the potential for viability is there. Add in that a large portion of these likely wouldn't have ended in live birth due to spontaneous abortions aka miscarriages.
Gee, I gave the numbers several pages back about the effect forcing women to carry pregnancies they did not want to term.. you had nothing to say to that because there's no way to argue it without the argument sounding stupid.
Even my estimates were off. I said:
In reality the toll for just one state was:
But give them contraception and the costs go down. Imagine that.
Oh yes, taxpayers. That's why we shouldn't allow abortions.
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#1083 |
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Some cultures survived by infanticide. Same principle with abortion. Some kids aren't needed or wanted and may as well die to help the whole. It's no worse than squashing bugs that get on your nerves.
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fair enough. it was a tangent. it really doesn't matter as to my greater point, but you simply won't let any point you see as refutable go.
ah, then you didn't really
again, we've gone off on a tangent; this is not the central point. people will keep killing the babies regardless. it's just that if they can't legally obtain clean, safe medical care in the process, they may also kill themselves, intentionally or unintentionally.
sure; adoption could be improved.
Frame, 1999
at the same time:
now, i've also looked into resources on women who have had abortions. it impresses me that relinquishing a child after birthing it is emotionally, psychologically, and physically traumatic for biological reasons; the hormonal connectivity developed during prolonged pregnancy and during and after birth.
the increase in suicide rates of adopted children and those mothers who relinquish them would disagree with you. |
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Do try to stay on topic. Only pro-choice are mentioning God as some placebo argument to cover their failed logic.
Being a creature of logic, you'll have to explain why every injustice including filicide should be an option in this world. Especially since neither court nor science supports that option as an absolute. By any reasonable impression your only support lies in Godhate. Just scroll back. Who is the first one to mention God every single time? Pro-choice. You only exist here to prove your point, not serve any "noble cause" of justice. That's why you're impervious to all logic and reason. That's why Godhate is your first and fastest coping mechanism. I have been told to keep morals and God out of it over a dozen times, and you will never once find me use either in any argument.
Roe v. Wade. On the basis of elements such as these, appellant and some amici argue that the woman's right is absolute and that she is entitled to terminate her pregnancy at whatever time, in whatever way, and for whatever reason she alone chooses. With this we do not agree. Appellant's arguments that Texas either has no valid interest at all in regulating the abortion decision, or no interest strong enough to support any limitation upon the woman's sole determination, are unpersuasive.Done.
I agree with science and the law, working in reasoned fashion. You believe in any whim of fancy that suits an anarchist.
I'm military. I know more than any there are reasons to limit the right to life. None of your arguments prophesying some dismal future nor mommies paycheck qualify. Everyone in this world gets a chance. I'm all about live and let live.
Which explains your conflict. The moral to kill or torture is private to you?
Sorry sister. That right stops when the rights of others get involved. Your human body and ONLY your human body is yours to destroy.
I already responded to this video. You can't deny that that is just one HUGE appeal to emotion. But I won't play the pro-choice game. Saying something is a fallacy does not directly refute an informal fallacy like an appeal to emotion (although the Choice crowd want to believe it does)
Again you're trying to convince me that laws don't work. That's a real hard sell if all you have is 40 year-old data.
I don't see any reason not to try. Roe v. Wade is incomplete. He determined the both the baby and the mother have rights. Kill the baby anytime you want isn't the only option available. The privacy argument is wholly pathetic. |
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#1086 |
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Had 2 abortions personally, both pregnancies were a huge shock in how close together they were and how "fertile" I was. I went through with both with relative ease and a lot of support from my boyfriend. I don't regret it, I'm just to young/poor to give my life up to having a kid and I am very happy I made that decision. I don't see the big deal with it, it was relatively easy, and minimal pain and stress. Anyways, Pro choice here, I would do it again if it happened, but I am on the pill since the second one... : /
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There is a new and highly sophisticated tool you should investigate. It's called spell check. You might have more fruitful results when you attempt to use a search engine by seeding it with correctly spelled words.
You're misreading and not understanding what the Constitution says and, more importantly, what it doesn't say. Nowhere in the Constitution does it specify that the US Government has a desire to stop religious worship. The main thrust of the first clause of the First Amendment is to prohibit the establishment of a government endorsed religion. Notice that the framers place religious freedom first and foremost because at the time the Constitution was being written, the writers were gravely concerned that they would end up with a state religion and all its burdens similar to the dynamic of the Anglican Church of England. They intentionally wrote a secular document that would prohibit the creation of a state religion.
That's true but you neglect to realize that, in this instance, religion and mythology are synonymous. Religion thinks it needs to establish a basis for morality but fails in epic fashion. All one has to do is read some of the tracts about the supposed paragons of virtue to understand they are miserable examples and do nothing to confirm they are moral beings let alone someone to model our lives after. Not everyone needs a sky daddy to encourage them to behave in a moral manner. Having a conscience is sufficient.
Are you trying to say enforcing the Constitution, particularly the separation of church and state through the First Amendment, is a violation of our Constitutional rights? If so, then you clearly fail to understand the contents and meaning of the Constitution.
Under certain circumstances, that's a false analogy. In a catholic or fishtian school, yes, I could see that happening but, no, not in a secular school. You clearly misunderstand the application and implications of the First Amendment.
The First Amendment is not preventing the establishment of any religion, just a state sponsored one. If you're trying to add the jeebus as martyr myth to the conversation, that's not part of the discussion. Such an addition is merely a vain attempt at deflection in order to hide a vacuity of substance in your point and summarily dismissed.
If you'd taken the time to research any of my earlier posts on religion, it should be quite clear to you that I fully embrace the idea that man invented religion and that religion as a whole is a ludicrous concept. So what's your point? |
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You don't need to need to say anything about your god and morals....your post and "logic" reek of it.
Not if you are pro-life and want to control people.
So why are you sticking your nose in it with your pro-life crap?
Oh so true....
This says more about your views then you know. |
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Epic fail because it also says:
You have tried to shoot down the absolute FACT that women who want an abortion, even if it is illegal except in the cases of rape and incest when in reality it is that VERY thing that lead to Roe v. Wade:
Granted her attempt failed however, people are smarter now and I see false police reports every day.
First trimester abortions are MORE safe than childbirth, in case you missed it. |
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And do try to answer your own questions. Why does a release of liability exist, beyond the fact that the law says so and that people want to avoid being sued?
When you start mentioning souls, they ask you to keep God out of it. Citations to prove it didn't happen like that.
It shouldn't. It's exactly what I said in the post you were answering to:
So, the right to choose (abortion), but within limits. Which is exactly what I was talking about, and corresponds to the pro-choice position I have always defended. Did you have a point...?
What is that conflict?
These acts interfere with the rights of others so they are illegal, as they should.
What?
And a fetus that grows inside my body, cannot live outside of it, and has no mind of its own, is mine to destroy. |
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#1091 |
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Pro-life. I'm glad I wasn't aborted. Women have the right to choose who they have sex with, but not the right to kill or appoint someone to kill an innocent being. If they see beauty in their own life and the lives of others, then why don't they see beauty in a (possible) newborn child that wouldn't be there if it wasn't for them? Who has the right to kill you?
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Before I was born? My mother. However, I was a planned pregnancy. |
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I honestly don't see a purpose to sex besides reproduction, though. I know that there's this mysterious drive to have sex, but I don't know why it's there. Also, it seems that life is beautiful enough for you to not have killed yourself. Do you want to be alive? Is death more beautiful than life? |
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Obviously I will not speak for JustMel, but the only reasons I'm still here are that I would prefer to see our daughter properly launched in life. And if anyone can manage to find a way for her to overcome the health challenges she has, it would be me. The other reason is my religious beliefs don't allow for checking out early.
Having the baby is not what women I know have feared the most. It was the aftermath, even if you put the baby up for adoption. This may have changed by now, but when I was in my early childbearing years just getting pregnant when you were married would lose you your job. Being visibly pregnant when not married would lose you your job, any education, your circle of friends and family, and you might just as well move to another town if you lived someplace small enough to be blackballed from any means of supporting yourself. If you were lucky you might find a nice guy willing to "make an honest woman of you" so you would have some means of support. It may or may not be the actual father. Men could always just walk away from their mistakes. |
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If men got pregnant, abortion would be in the Bill of Rights, and the procedure would be safe and accessible.
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Given insurance coverage for Viagra is never questioned, even though it is never medically necessary, I would say so. |
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Again, the constant "adoption is easy" crap makes me want to punch people in the throat, rip out their vocal chords and wrap them around their head.
I've been there. As a birth mother and it's not easy. It's not something you just do and walk away from. You wonder and have questions every fucking day. Hell every hour most days. You remember their birthday, you hang a stocking for them at Christmas, you wonder about their costumes at Halloween, you wonder what they made their parents for mothers and fathers day, you wonder about their friends, if they have a dog/cat/hamster/imaginary friend, you wonder about all the things you see other kids doing. You wonder if they hate you for the choice you made, if their parents even told them they were adopted, if they have any concept how much you love them. You wonder if you'll ever see them or know they're okay. I got lucky. I only had to ask my questions daily for twenty years. Then I got the answers. Now I have a relationship with my daughter and my grandson. Some women can't live through the constant questions daily. Some go on to have other children and try to forget, some go insane, some kill themselves and some have a dozen other kids by a dozen fathers to try to forget the one child they can't hold. Some choose to never have more children so they don't have to feel that pain again. When I had my second daughter I was so afraid I wasn't going to get to bring her home from the hospital. It was an irrational fear but it was there until the day I put her in the car to leave the hospital. Sometimes we choose adoption because for us there is no other choice and that isn't much of a choice is it? Adoption is not some magical bandaid. It's a choice. Just like abortion. It's a valid choice for some. It's a personal choice for all. |
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I never said it was easy, I just said it makes sense. I have no idea about the emotions people have after giving up a child or adopting one. If you want to adopt, you probably can, but you are taking a risk. You take risks when you have sex, when you give up a child, and when you adopt. I just can't stop thinking about how everyone on this thread could have been aborted and could be "swapped out" by people who could have not been aborted. Isn't life good, even if you deal with pain every day?
Oh, it turns out you were aborted and I've been writing to a brick wall with these posts. (And I've just imagined what you've said) But I don't want to argue on here. It takes way too much time and effort. |
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No it doesn't always make sense. It makes sense for some. Abortion makes sense for others and it's not anyone's business other than the person who makes the choice. You can think that life is great and that's your option that doesn't make it so for everyone.
Swapped out? Nice thought. I can think of a few who should be swapped out. I can think of quite a few poster children for abortion. |
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It would have been more correct to say "I have no idea about what women go through in pregnancy at all, yet that doesn't stop me from forming an opinion that they need to be controlled by me for their own benefit" because that seems to be the jist of your posts.
That, and your arguments stink, and have been refuted throughout the course of this thread. |
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