What are some of your annoying self-destructive tendencies? - Page 3

**BlSH0P** · 10-30-2011, 03:40 PM

procrastination

**Slipstream** · 10-30-2011, 08:46 PM

Hiding away from the world for days on end.

**AnotherINTJ** · 10-31-2011, 09:28 AM

Procrastination , isolation, videogame adiction and more procastination .

**Hawkeale** · 10-31-2011, 09:34 AM

Drinking, constantly aggravating my acne making it worse.

**Kuri** · 11-01-2011, 11:45 AM

Lurking online until ungodly hours in the morning, especially when I have an early class or appointment to go to the next day.

**clumsywordsmith** · 11-01-2011, 11:52 AM

My general tendency to find ways to make my life more difficult or shitty the moment it reaches some semblance of happy stability.

**ap3ngu1nsp3aks** · 11-01-2011, 12:14 PM

I tend to overthink things, internalize disappointments, and seethe too much. This stresses me out. As a result, I end up wasting money, time, and brain cells through excessive drinking.

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I tend to overthink, internalize disappointments, and seethe which causes me to stress. As a result, I waste time, money, and braincells through excessive drinking.

**VF1J** · 11-01-2011, 12:51 PM

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	I listen to songs on youtube when I am meant to be studying, or I go on these forums.

Same. Especially the amusing images thread.

**Charlotta SWE** · 11-01-2011, 01:57 PM

Interesting! Destructive habits are as big as constructive ambition. In my case:
Sleep as little as I can
Snusing (tobacco intake the Scandinavian way)
Cigarettes as well
I guess to much alcohol
To much Luther
Perfectionist, must be 110%
... and the weirdest thing of all; I allways ensure to do everything under the worst possible conditions: 1. when I have a deadline I do other things until it is allmost impossible to make it in time, 2. If I have an interview or a meeting where I have to impress to succeed, I do my best to provoke to the limit of irritate. 3. If I have to catch the train or the plane I'm late to the verge of missing... And so on.*

Othesemo · 11-01-2011, 02:40 PM

I tend to lie unnecessarily or for the sake of convenience, then have difficulty admitting it later (which can be a problem if what I was asked was actually important). Half the time, I don't even notice what I'm doing until the next day when the other person gets annoyed with me.

I also cannot get out of bed in the early morning. I can wake up and feel fresh and alert, knowing full well that I have to get up THEN, but I'll just go back to bed. My bed isn't even very comfortable- I just have some sort of pathological attraction to it.

**ollin24** · 11-01-2011, 04:43 PM

Procrastinate

**notarobot** · 11-01-2011, 05:58 PM

When I do what the Mark Zuckerberg character does at the end of Social Network.

**JulietCapulet** · 11-01-2011, 07:45 PM

I like to eat sugar.

**JC22** · 11-01-2011, 07:48 PM

I sometimes forget to charge the ipod before leaving the home.

**KeithP** · 11-01-2011, 11:09 PM

I'm unable to finish projects that I start. Like short stories/novels/starting a business/finding a different job/relationship building/etc. After I get that burst of inspiration, I start them, then after I start thinking about it, all ambition fades or other opportunities arise for me to start on ... and the cycle begins. Or ends ... or begins to end... then begins again.

---------- Post added 11-02-2011 at 02:12 AM ----------

Oh. And I'm an amazing liar. I can about lie my way out of any situation. It's bad, and something I've worked on over the past few years. Lying is an easy way to keep drama out of your life. I wish there was another way to do away with drama that didn't require something so guilt-ridden.

---------- Post added 11-02-2011 at 02:17 AM ----------

And I forgot to add my need to be inebriated nearly daily. Whether through drinks or smoking funny cigarettes. Also a major weak point. And smoking normal cigarettes.

I've got way too many self-destructive tendencies. Maybe this latest post is related to my issue with completing projects.

**Nonsuch** · 11-02-2011, 03:38 AM

Being the only employee in my IT group open about and willing to discuss errors. The rest of the group were working on contract and doing their utmost to give the impression that everything always went well with their assignments, in order that their contracts be renewed.

The end result of this difference in attitude was that our leader got the impression that I
was not a very competent developer while the rest were worth every penny he paid them, however expensive they were.

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**SeverusSin** · 11-02-2011, 10:49 AM

Procrastination, isolation, drinking & weed smoking

**CrudeHypothesis** · 11-03-2011, 01:51 AM

capabilities < perfectionism = procrastination

10-30-2011, 03:40 PM	#51
BlSH0P Member [13%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 527	procrastination
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10-30-2011, 08:46 PM	#52
Slipstream New Member [01%] MBTI: INFJ Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 25	Hiding away from the world for days on end.
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10-31-2011, 09:28 AM	#53
AnotherINTJ New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 21	Procrastination , isolation, videogame adiction and more procastination .
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10-31-2011, 09:34 AM	#54
Hawkeale New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 10	Drinking, constantly aggravating my acne making it worse.
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11-01-2011, 11:45 AM	#55
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11-01-2011, 11:52 AM	#56
clumsywordsmith Member [07%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 318	My general tendency to find ways to make my life more difficult or shitty the moment it reaches some semblance of happy stability.
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11-01-2011, 12:14 PM	#57
ap3ngu1nsp3aks New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 12	I tend to overthink things, internalize disappointments, and seethe too much. This stresses me out. As a result, I end up wasting money, time, and brain cells through excessive drinking. ---------- Post added 11-01-2011 at 01:18 PM ---------- I tend to overthink, internalize disappointments, and seethe which causes me to stress. As a result, I waste time, money, and braincells through excessive drinking.
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11-01-2011, 01:57 PM	#59
Charlotta SWE New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 24	Interesting! Destructive habits are as big as constructive ambition. In my case: Sleep as little as I can Snusing (tobacco intake the Scandinavian way) Cigarettes as well I guess to much alcohol To much Luther Perfectionist, must be 110% ... and the weirdest thing of all; I allways ensure to do everything under the worst possible conditions: 1. when I have a deadline I do other things until it is allmost impossible to make it in time, 2. If I have an interview or a meeting where I have to impress to succeed, I do my best to provoke to the limit of irritate. 3. If I have to catch the train or the plane I'm late to the verge of missing... And so on.*
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11-01-2011, 02:40 PM	#60
Othesemo Core Member [125%] MBTI: INTj Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 5,020	I tend to lie unnecessarily or for the sake of convenience, then have difficulty admitting it later (which can be a problem if what I was asked was actually important). Half the time, I don't even notice what I'm doing until the next day when the other person gets annoyed with me. I also cannot get out of bed in the early morning. I can wake up and feel fresh and alert, knowing full well that I have to get up THEN, but I'll just go back to bed. My bed isn't even very comfortable- I just have some sort of pathological attraction to it.
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11-01-2011, 04:43 PM	#61
ollin24 Member [03%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 146	Procrastinate
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11-01-2011, 05:58 PM	#62
notarobot New Member [01%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 3	When I do what the Mark Zuckerberg character does at the end of Social Network.
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11-01-2011, 07:45 PM	#63
JulietCapulet Veteran Member [96%] MBTI: XNFX Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 3,865	I like to eat sugar.
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11-01-2011, 07:48 PM	#64
JC22 Core Member [112%] MBTI: xxxx Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 4,509	I sometimes forget to charge the ipod before leaving the home.
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11-01-2011, 11:09 PM	#65
KeithP Member [26%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,055	I'm unable to finish projects that I start. Like short stories/novels/starting a business/finding a different job/relationship building/etc. After I get that burst of inspiration, I start them, then after I start thinking about it, all ambition fades or other opportunities arise for me to start on ... and the cycle begins. Or ends ... or begins to end... then begins again. ---------- Post added 11-02-2011 at 02:12 AM ---------- Oh. And I'm an amazing liar. I can about lie my way out of any situation. It's bad, and something I've worked on over the past few years. Lying is an easy way to keep drama out of your life. I wish there was another way to do away with drama that didn't require something so guilt-ridden. ---------- Post added 11-02-2011 at 02:17 AM ---------- And I forgot to add my need to be inebriated nearly daily. Whether through drinks or smoking funny cigarettes. Also a major weak point. And smoking normal cigarettes. I've got way too many self-destructive tendencies. Maybe this latest post is related to my issue with completing projects.
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11-02-2011, 03:38 AM	#66
Nonsuch Member [34%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 1,376	Being the only employee in my IT group open about and willing to discuss errors. The rest of the group were working on contract and doing their utmost to give the impression that everything always went well with their assignments, in order that their contracts be renewed. The end result of this difference in attitude was that our leader got the impression that I was not a very competent developer while the rest were worth every penny he paid them, however expensive they were. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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11-02-2011, 10:49 AM	#67
SeverusSin Member [21%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 878	Procrastination, isolation, drinking & weed smoking
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11-03-2011, 01:51 AM	#68
CrudeHypothesis Veteran Member [74%] MBTI: INTJ Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 2,999	capabilities < perfectionism = procrastination
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