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  1. Minerva
    Today 12:08 AM
    Minerva
    COOP!

    Good night. I am off...
  2. Madden
    Yesterday 02:07 AM
    Madden commented on Random Thoughts Thread
    ????
  3. TzarAlexander
    09-16-2014 09:55 PM
    TzarAlexander commented on 20 Occupations Test
    Were you and I the same type? See page 1, last post.
  4. willc
    09-16-2014 10:41 AM
    willc commented on Damn...it hurts
    you're very right being around someone who doesn't give a flying fuck or enough of a fuck is shitty
  5. JustMel
    09-16-2014 09:04 AM
    JustMel commented on Cooper's Mind (or what's left) II
    If I could afford you I sure as hell would do so. This is making me nuts.
  6. Madden
    09-15-2014 10:07 PM
    Madden
    Click the image to open in full size.
  7. Sarea
    09-15-2014 02:53 AM
    Sarea commented on The Vent Thread
    lol, ditto
  8. vedera
    09-15-2014 02:44 AM
    vedera commented on The Vent Thread
    Well this is new and unexpected.
  9. SnakeMXIM
  10. doll
    09-14-2014 01:05 AM
    doll commented on A charming psychopath or some other weirdo?
    you were nominated for the "wordy" award for being succinct. i can see why.
  11. CheCosa
    09-12-2014 03:38 AM
    CheCosa commented on Glad to be here
    That made me mind-chuckle.
  12. MortRouge
    09-12-2014 12:31 AM
    MortRouge
    Thank you for the "welcome". I speculate we may have interesting conversations in the future.
  13. vedera
    09-10-2014 11:26 AM
    vedera commented on Good evening!
    Accurate.
  14. wolkenkraetzer
    09-09-2014 01:22 PM
    wolkenkraetzer commented on Introversion Level
    I'm an "extreme introvert" as well, so you're not alone.
  15. Artio
    09-07-2014 08:32 PM
    Artio commented on Member Pictures: Volume 22
    Nah, that was a smile, dammit.
  16. eagleseven
    09-05-2014 10:19 PM
    eagleseven commented on 5 Years
    Ha!
  17. Pegasusette
    09-04-2014 01:01 PM
    Pegasusette
    I had an after thought this morning. Very strong so I thought I should send it. The thing about forgiveness feels like it is about YOU. I mean...you are the one who needs to be forgiven - by YOU. Im no mind reader, but...my sense is that you are crucifying yourself for making this mistake -or mistakes. How could you not see it coming? how could u let yourself fall? .... ....

    This was the hardest step I ever took in my life. It was harder to forgive myself than my ex BF or husband. The details dont matter - its how do you get there? Its not magic, my friend. Its deliberate - taking control back of your mind. Right now youve got a well worn path to this pool of shitty thoughts and feelings. The task is to literally rewire the mind to not go down that path anymore. Just STOP yourself when you see yourself slipping. Find a moment every day to repeat something - while shaving or brushing your teeth - whatever. I forgive myself. I forgive myself...It doesnt have to be specific yet. Just do that little bit for yourself. Do it alot.

    I found that my slip n slide down into the pit became less frequent..and I gained strength to pull myself out of it. It wasnt until i really felt a change in how I saw myself, that I could forgive my father....

    I hope this helps.
  18. iHeartCats
    09-04-2014 09:45 AM
    iHeartCats
    Click the image to open in full size.
  19. eagleseven
    09-04-2014 04:59 AM
    eagleseven commented on The Vent Thread
    Rofl
  20. Pegasusette
    09-04-2014 01:10 AM
    Pegasusette
    Okay....it does, truly. Forgiveness goes a long way too, if, when it's affordable. Especially for a broken heart. My INTJ former boss didn't know me well at all but we had that presence thing, know? He saw all the way through all of my shit and just called it. He said, I don't know if I've ever met anyone as angry as u. I don't know what's behind it, but it's going to kill u if u don't figure out how to process it and let it go.

    He went on to share some stuff about himself that blew me away....in truth I think he had such am impact because he was right about me,,,,and because I respected him so much.

    My anger went back decades. I was so used to it. But I was ready to end it's grip. It changed my life.

    Anyway...talk to u later. Gotta crash
    Peace

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