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  1. reiven
    Today 10:22 AM
    reiven
    *tips hat*
    how is my first favourite forum sage?

    (i pondered a few minutes looking for synonym for sage that started with the letter F, but i got nothin)
  2. Monte314
    09-22-2016 11:37 AM
    Monte314
    I am no better than you.
  3. Monte314
    09-22-2016 09:56 AM
    Monte314
    Ooh... picking up your marbles and going home, 'eh?

  4. Monte314
    Non-responsive post... pure mockery. You started it.
  5. toki
    09-20-2016 03:35 PM
    toki commented on The skittle bowl
    the real danger :
  6. Undead Bonzi
    09-16-2016 05:04 PM
    Undead Bonzi
    heyheyhey
  7. Beesnthebreeze
    09-16-2016 12:37 PM
    Beesnthebreeze
    When. I got married, I was of the thibking that he would *never talk to me again* because it had been a year of silence. Maybe longer.

    Immediately after I was married I heard from him and boom. The resurfacing of the feelings. I was committed so I kept mum, but then, I was in an unhealthy relationship, and fell back on him, talking to him about it and getting his opinions.

    The feelings were still there. My mother asked me, the days before I got married. What if hansel said he wanted to be with you, what then? I said well he didn't and he hasn't and I don't think I'll ever hear from him again and =((

    I told her to stop with the false hope, and if he did she knows what I would do and doesn't need to ask.
  8. Beesnthebreeze
    09-16-2016 07:07 AM
    Beesnthebreeze
    thats quite persecutory. Feelings are not evil, and saying how you feel sincerely isn't harmful.

    He could say yanno, yea I actually do, but I'm not going to follow them, he could say whatever he wants or say nothing but acting like they don't exist or ignoring them or me or whatever is really unnecessary. Who fucking cares if some girl that isn't significant to a person in any way declares feelings. And yet, if the feelings do exist it's pretty important to acknowledge them before you make the lifetime commitment in front of ever tom dick and Jerry you've ever met.

    Divorce is.. Not ideal. Being married does not change people's feelings, it can make them more intense, because of the reality that for the rest of your life you can't "go there".

    Unhealthy.

    You're incredibly fearful. Furthermore feelings CAN last a lifetime. Hello! People have lifelong relationships all the times. Romantic, platonic, family..
  9. Beesnthebreeze
    09-15-2016 04:03 PM
    Beesnthebreeze
    We differ in what we view as dramatic. That's the bottom line. I think drama is the cycle of abuse. I do not think drama is transition.
  10. Beesnthebreeze
    09-15-2016 04:02 PM
    Beesnthebreeze
    Plus it's not comfortable to wonder what if.
  11. Beesnthebreeze
    09-15-2016 04:01 PM
    Beesnthebreeze
    So this where I say I'm not afraid of drama. I will not let the risk of discomfort block me from what I want.
  12. Beesnthebreeze
    09-15-2016 03:52 PM
    Beesnthebreeze commented on Hm..
    How would out suggest I do this?
  13. Kisai
    09-12-2016 11:09 AM
    Kisai
    "The Net is vast and infinite" -Ghost in the Shell
  14. Kisai
    09-12-2016 10:14 AM
    Kisai
    Up the rebels.
  15. JTG
    09-09-2016 07:09 PM
    JTG
    I love it when you talk tough to me
  16. eminentThymine
    09-09-2016 08:16 AM
    eminentThymine
    I made a soft grilled steak and a bbq sausage with a side of rice with black beans.

    And for desert I had a waffle with some chocolate covered mango sorbet, if that matters.
  17. ischulte
    09-08-2016 10:09 AM
    ischulte commented on Trump Supporter Husbands
    Fair enough.
  18. JTG
    09-07-2016 09:48 PM
    JTG commented on Region of Residence
    I hope you know I'm just having fun here
  19. gracious
    09-07-2016 04:39 PM
    gracious commented on INTJ's and Watches
    Yum, that is nice.
  20. Smylex
    09-07-2016 02:37 PM
    Smylex commented on INTJ's and Watches
    Nice!!

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