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  1. eagleseven
    02-05-2015 11:15 AM
    eagleseven commented on Being practical vs. chasing your passions
  2. Antares
    Once you've been good friends for this long I guess you sort of see her as a sibling- they've been friends for more than 40 years now, and the behavior had emerged in the last few years after she had been laid off. My aunt, her sister in law, has also displayed some shitty behavior towards my mother over the years, which begun when my maternal grandmother clearly preferred me over my cousin (her son). Typical Asian family drama. Mother did a cost benefit analysis and decided that winning an ego pissing contest wasn't worth alienating the people she cares for (my uncle and my mom's friend... she doesn't much care for my aunt). Even this friend isn't a bitch all the time. My mother likes to take the high road. She's sort of a saint sometimes. She can just shrug off these insults after a short while. Enneagram Type 1 at its finest.
  3. eagleseven
    10-23-2014 01:14 PM
  4. eagleseven
    09-17-2014 12:34 PM
    eagleseven commented on Critique this Physique pt.2!
  5. Antares
    Was just reading this post. Dating an ENFJ man right now. He canceled plans several times (we're long distance) because his friends put something upon him and he felt he couldn't say no. Honestly I find it highly disrespectful (to his credit he felt guilty- guilty! To hear that I declined an invitation because we agreed to skype that night). To me it was not a hardship at all. I promised him BEFORE I got the invitation. If I had gotten the invitation before and said yes, I wouldn't have skyped him just because he asked unless it was an emergency. I keep my promises because I respect him and take him seriously. It's an issue of honor. I would do it for anyone I respect. I would respect it if he declined to skype because he had promised his friend first. But he hadn't. Honestly I feel I'm pretty low priority in his life right now, just because I'm not in his physical vicinity to make him feel guilty about turning me down, while they are. If I had been physically present when he got that invitation, I bet he wouldn't have flaked. Did you ever try to resolve this with your ex ENFJ?
  6. desuntcetera
    08-12-2014 05:32 PM
    I actually got the job, but decided not to take it. I think I probably would have if it hadn't been a 2 year temporary job.
  7. 2obvious
    08-11-2014 12:39 PM
    Ah. I think we're talking about the same thing. (DC has a very high level of base education.)

    Regardless of one's umpteen degrees, I consider you "anti-intellectual" when your idea of a "good time" involves turning your brain off. What you do for fun trumps what how your values shape your actions. "Taking oneself seriously" is a negative, ironically in the pursuit of a serious relationship.
  8. 2obvious
    08-11-2014 10:59 AM
    2obvious commented on Intelligent Women Likely Single
    Man, can I relate to that "make my life more exciting" mentality. Although I wouldn't equate it with intelligent women--quite the opposite. It's the anti-intellectuals who care less about what I think and more about how entertaining I seem.
  9. Polymath20
    07-25-2014 10:31 AM
    Polymath20 commented on Economics vs. engineering
    This makes me think "There is supply and demand. Everything beyond that is unprovable theory!"
  10. eagleseven
    07-14-2014 08:03 PM
    eagleseven commented on Bullying and Gay Bashing
    Step one was quitting my job!
  11. Duke City Man
    He'll eventually realize that he must settle for something good enough like you, or be alone.
  12. Underachiever
    You aren't the only one... See my sarcastic comment, lol.
  13. YellowSubmarine
    04-21-2014 09:00 AM
    I wonder what makes the difference between people's mentalities on the subject.
  14. Weltschmerzer
    04-01-2014 04:30 PM
    Care to respond to the car comparison?
  15. Cat1021
    03-19-2014 09:09 PM
    I went back home to Texas. I don't want to settle here, but I'll eventually go back to school. For now, I have a job at a vet clinic, and I'm doing pretty okay on my own.
  16. YellowSubmarine
    03-19-2014 08:16 PM
    YellowSubmarine commented on INTJ Craft of Manliness thread
    Also very respectable. *nods*
  17. ummon
    03-17-2014 06:45 PM
    ummon commented on When a guy flirts a lot...
    yup lol
  18. Cat1021
    03-17-2014 12:07 AM
    No. I left after the breakup. Funny thing is, my original plan was to get a place with the best friend in San Jose and travel to Merced, thus closing in some distance without having to rush the relationship.

    The only thing missing from this new relationship is the Facebook officialness of it. Lol. He's an INTP learning to deal with the feels, and for once he says he wants to do this right, because he's never dated a close friend. It's amazing. I know exactly where I stand with him, so I've not had much reason to feel overly insecure like I did before. All the passion is in the places it needs to be. The simplicity and compatibility is so refreshing.
  19. Cat1021
    03-16-2014 12:50 AM
    Cat1021 commented on INFJ Women
    It's only complicated because he's in Cali. He's been my best friend for 8 years. We're taking it slow. People already call him my boyfriend, but we want more time to spend physically together and prior to me he hasn't been good at emotionally committing. We're definitely devoted and committed to each other.
  20. eagleseven
    03-15-2014 03:21 PM
    I'd have quit if not for this transfer, definitely. Even with it, not a long-term position. I know we've both been over this before.

    I'm happy you got out!

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