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I see what you mean. I definitely agree that your concerns are rooted in reality. Escapism is not the solution. I think we agree, my point is you can't change reality before you change your perception of it, and change yourself - that's where you have an opportunity in the first place, and that may be your sole opportunity. I'm not necessarily in a safe zone to say this, but that's beside the point. There are things that are unacceptable and that nobody, or very few people have the power to change. That's a given. However you can chose how you see things, reconsider and act in a sensible way, maybe there are not many things you can actually chose, but a few can in turn bring dramatic changes in your life and the life of others. Starting with what you have: your mind.
How do want to evolve when you restart over and over again??? Who give's a damn about what you might have posted earlier or not as long as you can stand up and say: I was wrong at that time, I see it different today! The ability to admit having made mistakes hones ones personality, stick to it!
Being able to take on advice shows strength of character, some people simply cant do it and become 'stuck' in their ways. You don't need to change your profile, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me, just keep posting n' you'll be fine.