Sometimes I wonder just because I feel charged up after a big party doesnt necessarily mean I'm an E. I sleep for 10 hours and I feel charged up but I never get 10 hours of sleep, the most I get is like 7. I am a light sleeper Are you sure? Do you know ESTPs in real life and do I act similar to them?

I go with the flow most of the time, although for work, I prefer a set schedule. With that, I'm not even sure I use Ni. I don't even know how it works even though I been studying the functions for the past year. Everytime I think I understand something a bit more, I actually understand it a bit less. I'm hopeless!

I wonder that as well. Sometimes after going to a party with lots of people, I leave charged up! Like I feel like I have to do something crazy to expend all that crazy energy. Also, the ENTP is something I have been considering for a while now. But I cant be that because I'm too unimaginative and nearsighted to be one.

Love the avatar!

FYI, I was in a similar situation (not married, though, but almost). Anyway, I kinda knocked back opportunities I had doing the faithful boyfriend thing. My "use by date" expired while I was with her.

Definitely the same for me concerning Se and Ne. Sometimes it just boils down to small things such as "do you enjoy theory more than physical activity?"

With that said, I'm definitely split 50/50

Thanks haha, just wondering if you are still struggling between the S and N gap rendering you as ExFP?

Googling will find more for you than I can provide in a response. Other forums (I can't link due to forum filters) are better at explaining Enneagram. A primary link to use is this one: http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/. That links to the Riso-Hudson version of the Enneagram. It's worth paying the $10 to get the official test. A secondary link to use is this one: http://www.enneagram.net/. This is the Fauvres' site, which includes the "tritype" concept, which helps clarify Enneagram types for a lot of people.

Aww that is so sweet! I know one ENFP and I adore her too! I know you seem to be on the border - that is a very good thing I believe too. You also seem so genuine, thank you and yes I am very glad to see there is some diversity in here. It really helps balance things out and I can't imagine how boring it would be without the variety

Lol yea it is....usually i just point it out to other people but i won't bother arguing seriously or talking to those people who do this...they make up their own definitions for anything anyways.

Thank you And thank you so much for the friend request too! It's nice to meet you and your posts really lighten the forum up. I enjoy this forum because I do love to learn about different people as well and it's cool to also connect with others in various countries. I enjoy that aspect as well. Even being a strong introvert I guess my Fe makes me want to connect. And thanks for being ok with me spamming up your page :P You reach out anytime too. Thanks again!

It's so confusing in this realm for me too and I notice that also - some types randomly coming out with statements from thin air. It is definitely weird and I think that is why people also associate this type as being troll-like. Online is so weird for me - honestly this is the last place I should be venturing. I hope you don't mind me chiming in on your page. I didn't want to jump into the thread and felt pretty sure that wasn't in reference to you. I didn't want you hanging either thinking it was you. LOL and your comment about not understanding them yet still being very loveable I can resonate with! Your brother and Uncle are lucky to have you

I think he is referring to the inferior Fe INTP's have. Nothing in regards to you. I notice a pattern with some INTP's - they seem to be late bloomers in terms of emotional awareness. In fact many come across troll like - like this thread. It's called being a child trapped in an adult body! LOL I say this and my spouse is an INTP - they are honestly very good people despite all these little things here and there. And they certainly are not all like this but it does become apparent at times. Your posts are really sweet BTW and you have far more patience than I do to even address some of these people!

These INTJs....

Being smart implies you can understand things better and faster. Thus, if you disregard personality and imply causation, essentially a smart person will surpass someone of lesser intelligence.

+1

Beautiful analogy

Good riddance. You go girl!

Wow, I am so sorry about that situation,

Cry all you want. Punch pillows (or anything) if you needed it. This shall pass.