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If you both like each other that much then it shouldn't feel as being tied down. I don't know, I personally love being in love because I think life is freaking boring and tasteless when you're not. So, I'd say just dive in! What do you lose?
Maybe because your OP is hard to understand for me. At first, I thought you were talking about women who withhold sex, but you said you weren't. You brought up the example of drinks at the bar, so I talked about that example, but again that's not it either. What is the point you are trying to make? Just that some women are angry when their manipulative ways do not succeed? But why only women?