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  1. Auntie
    03-29-2013 03:59 AM
    yes, sadly, Malaysia does have a problem with exported terrorism to Indonesia. Indonesia struggles with it. The camps at Poso and elsewhere have traditionally had outside funding and trainers from everywhere from Syria to Malaysia. Even Great Britain. But Abu Bakar Bashir, was a very famous example of the Malaysian issue.
    Also, fundamentalism is strong in Malaysia outside of KL and a couple other spots. More diverse communities have less of a problem. But years ago, fundamentalism announced itself when schoolgirls who did not wear headscarves were bullied by other students. It has become more accepted but more widespread.
  2. Aeon
    03-23-2013 08:13 AM
    No prob. Enjoy your new tan.

    Oh and if you could prepare for just one thing... Don't forget the bug spray!
  3. Auntie
    03-22-2013 10:22 PM
    That is a good point. If alone I actually would avoid Malaysia as well. Smaller communities can be more heavily islamic fundamentalist than Indonesia. The Bali and Jakarta bomb terrorists were largely from Malaysia or run through Malaysia
  4. paulc
    03-22-2013 06:49 PM
    Hey, where did you find that avatar pic? Who's the artist, do you know?
  5. mastermind23
    03-04-2013 04:37 PM
    I'm still trying to figure that one out for myself, but the solution you proposed currently seem like the healthiest prospect.
  6. Exelone
    03-03-2013 03:16 AM
    Exelone commented on What traits of mental illness do you have?
    avoidancy and paranoia are primary dyads of schizotypal behavior. look into it
  7. Sariax
    01-27-2013 01:30 PM
    Thank you. One thing I forgot to mention was that patience is a huge factor in this whole process. I hope you found and incorporate the answer you were looking for.
  8. antipathy
    01-24-2013 11:06 AM
    I work at a small restaurant, I'm the chef, my boss is the owner, we have different views on quality. I'm sure we'll talk, but I doubt much will come of it. Either way, I'm ready to move on for a host of other reasons.
  9. DesertKnight
    01-23-2013 10:43 AM
    You're welcome
  10. sed0007
    01-22-2013 06:42 AM
    sed0007 commented on Respond only with questions.
    Awesome avatar
  11. Ethereal Dream
    01-21-2013 03:52 PM
    Ethereal Dream
    Reach out anytime - I sincerely mean that
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    01-21-2013 04:04 AM
    4 8 15 16 23 42
    Not sure what you mean exactly, you use difficult language
  13. Ethereal Dream
    01-20-2013 10:08 AM
    Ethereal Dream commented on Why do you struggle with your type?
    I can understand that By the way, nice to see you again!
  14. Ethereal Dream
    08-12-2012 10:57 AM
    Ethereal Dream
    4 years is a long time to know one another and you must really be feeling comfortable with one another to cry on each others shoulders. That is great you have that. What exactly does she do? Does she distance herself or is she clearly cold to you? Every INFJ is different just like INTJ's but many times INFJ's can start to feel down about something (not necessarily anything you have done) and retreat from people, even those closest to them. We have a whole lot of emotion that can be hard to handle for us at times. My INTJ friend never showed any emotion at all until after 10 years knowing her and experiencing a personal hardship like I shared and that was when I realized how much I did mean to her. Sometimes I thought she thought I was a bit crazy because I was very expressive how much I appreciated her and was grateful for her friendship. She never reciprocated that (and that did not upset me and wasn't the reason for me telling her how I felt) so I thought she thought I was odd. It also felt I perhaps made her uncomfortable with my display of affection. Even as an NF affection is still very personal to me. I won't be randomly touching or hugging someone because I want to. I have to genuinely care for you and I think INTJ's are very similar in that regard. I bet this is nothing to do with you but her just dealing with her own personal issues. That is one of the biggest things that bothers me with our type, we can distance ourselves from those that matter most and really cause for some confusion. Even if you just say I enjoy talking to you, I appreciate our friendship will really give her the validation that she is having a positive impact on you. But I can bet you mean tons to her and if she is feeling low she will not want to burden you with that. It sounds like you have something really special going on and I certainly hope she does not reject you. I don't think she will and if she does then something bigger may be going on with her that she needs to deal with on her own terms. She needs to learn to trust that just because you may not give the emotional validation she requires does not mean you do not care. We all express differently and as an INFJ it took me a while to figure that out! Hang in there, I know we can be tough and you sound like a great person that takes her seriously. Let me know how you make out and if I can help out anymore


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