Well said

You hit the nail squarely on the head, hence all the lying and manipulation done by some, not all, women.

You are emotional so wind-up that haven't even noticed that you place a post in a thread as a response to a comment? Get some sleep or go working out.

You should stop smoking that stuff you discovered recently...

lol

the teacher or the student?

It's always fascinating when people show who they really are.

I'm sorry you feel that way. My post may have just been a bad attempt at being funny.

Heh, well I'll put a word in for you if it happens to go that far. Shouldn't do though.

Oh! For instance (since this ties into both subjects). One of our ongoing playful arguments is that he would take a billion dollars to never be able to orgasm/enjoy sex again, and I said I would never do that! And to add he already has plenty of money and I don't. Psh! I am determined to change his mind about this. To which, he of course always responds, "Yea sure, I think you should keep having sex with me and try to change my mind. Great idea!".

Maybe we should start a thread on this topic here, since my S/O and I are both INTJs and have opposing views. Money or sex?

Yea. It took dating a jerk for a years to realize what a winner looks like.

Anyway. Of course I agree with everything you are saying. He could lose all his money tomorrow, and I would still love him. I really wouldn't care at all, besides the fact that he might have some kind of breakdown since he admittedly is quite fond of his financial security. I'm the one that still always finds cheap/free things for us to do because it's how I was raised.

I agree. There is no way to know. But does it matter if there is a difference if your mind is reacting the same way?

Hmm, it's too bad you didn't enjoy it. My experiences on psychedelics are some of the most memorable/ insightful of my life. I'll add that I've only done psychedelics (not counting MJ) about 15 times. Anyway to each their own of course. My S/O refuses to touch a drug, he won't even have a sip of alcohol.

I was being [half] sarcastic with my all women comment. In my past relationships, gift giving has been more equal. My current boyfriend just happens to be very very wealthy. I resisted his gifts for a while, it made me uncomfortable. But now I realize he gets joy out of giving, so I just let him do it. They are usually gifts in terms of an activity we can do/learn together. So it works out.

Really the first time I did this, I was kind of in awe at myself. It made sense as it was happening, but then afterwards I was like, what the hell just happened?!. Now it's something I just know I can do on psychedelics. Has yet to fail me.

I'd say I know because as stated the physical effects occur. Also there is this like defining moment from being turned on to actually orgasming on psychedelics. Have you ever had an orgasm on psychedelics? That's an intense experience!

Well I suppose my boyfriend buys me plenty of stuff. Let's be honest now, all women are prostitutes in some way.

On psychedelics, I can trigger it mentally. Meaning I can put my mind in a place where I am almost re-accessing a memory of an orgasm. During the actual orgasm, all the physical signs are there (muscle contractions, etc). But I can do it without touching myself/taking my clothes off.

Sober, I can't trigger an orgasm by mental thoughts alone (although I think I can get there if I practiced more). What I meant in the post was if I am having sex with my S/O and I am turned on by the physical aspect of it, but not the point where I think I am going to orgasm in the near future. I can focus my thoughts on what it feels like to orgasm, and then have one. Again, sober, this only happens with physical stimulation as well. The difference is kind of me being in control of my orgasm or not. I've noticed that usually when he is on top, I am in less control where as when I am on top I decide when I want to have one..

Damn, caring about meaningful connection over $$$!

Yea, that's true. I'd be a classy hoe.

I may have just orgasmed from reading that LOL!