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  1. Sarea
    Yesterday 08:23 AM
    Sarea commented on Competitiveness with SO
    thanks for agreeing with my post.
  2. Berserker
    09-21-2016 07:38 PM
  3. lor6
    09-20-2016 12:50 PM
  4. MoonCat23
    09-13-2016 12:30 AM
    if what I mentioned was relative to irrational behavior, what might perhaps rational tend to look like? Maybe the water is muddy in my perspective
  5. Sarea
    08-25-2016 07:01 PM
    I agree with what you say, re: those who are dependent on external validation and their reliances on such ego booster to feel good and valuable (and priceless) would perhaps be negatively affected if such external validations are no longer there.

    But having said that, if it's what keep them moving, without which they would even be functionally dysfunctional, then perhaps those ego booster should be their 'medications' to ensure they can operate well daily, as long as they don't hurt others (ie their relationships if they are in monogamous relationships).

    As for me, I have always found such attentions (to myself) as something I have carried with me as long as I can remember. It's nothing extraordinary, and indeed there are days when I wish strangers stop pausing to approach me to say something flattering, but I guess by default I am equipped to handle whatever coming, and handle them with civility and politeness (exception: really really annoyingly and disgusting lecherous approaches. To which I simply flex my limbs and give them very cold expressions. If they dare to risk me snapping their necks, they are welcomed to do so..)
  6. Sarea
    08-25-2016 06:37 PM
    Will reply this after I check I luggage in.
  7. Sarea
    08-14-2016 02:10 AM
    Why was my thread closed?
  9. Sarea
    08-10-2016 04:47 PM
    My dad (when he turned 55 around 14 years ago) scoffed at the airline ticketing counter when they gave him the OAP discount. Can you imagine that? He actually turned it down, saying that "I am not old, thank you!". Lol!
  10. Sarea
    08-01-2016 07:25 AM
    Same here. I adore poetry but I can't seem to pen a decent meaningful one myself. Last week, one friend emailed me his compilation of poems which he sold online. And I told him I would read over last weekend because he wanted a review. Truth is, they are all good, and i'm amazed that I got to read them straight from the poet himself. But I just don't know yet how to make a review which is deserving, because I am sure emotions would help, but i'm totally hopeless when it comes to expressing words echoing what my emotions convey to me. Words just get stuck somewhere.

    I'm glad that your dad has you to be with. Is he living with you now?
  11. Sarea
    08-01-2016 05:26 AM
    That post was very deep, it's akin to you unravelling your layers right down to core of your existence one by one. It's amazing.

    I was away for about 7 weeks (I think). During those weeks, I was completely offline, and only checked on my email inboxes upon receiving calls from my office. Else than that, I was near 95% incommunicado. It was a wonderful break.

    Just concentrate on finishing your work. I'm guilty of taking a long break off work too. It's not that easy catching up on workloads after such a long break, but I know I have no excuse.
  12. Sarea
    07-31-2016 06:51 PM
    Sarea commented on Describe your personality to me
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  14. ness2361
    05-29-2016 12:20 PM
    ness2361 commented on What do you bring to friendships?
    Nice to see you online. I've missed you.
  15. Sarea
    04-30-2016 06:26 PM
    *thumbs up for the sagging pants posts*
  16. Sarea
    04-29-2016 01:45 AM
    Sarea commented on Misunderstandings produced by age gaps.
  17. gracious
    04-21-2016 05:02 PM
    gracious commented on When Life Gives You Straw
    I'm sorry for your loss.
  18. Sarea
    03-26-2016 05:04 AM
    Sarea commented on How do people not feel shame or embarrassment?
    great post. very insightful.
  19. Sarea
    03-10-2016 03:36 AM
    And then relocate me where? :P

    I know where. One of my favourite places in the UK.

  20. Sarea
    03-07-2016 03:14 AM
    No, you're never stupid. It's my right brain conflicting with the signal that's sent by the left brain. Please put me to sleep (get the strongest dosage from the pet clinic's vet) before I make a fool of myself with my wrong perceptions.

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