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    11-24-2015 09:54 AM
    "I honestly don't remember, nor do I remember who said it first."

  2. Async
    11-24-2015 09:29 AM
    Async commented on The first time we said I LOVE YOU
    ditto. It doesn't really matter.
  3. Johwa
    11-13-2015 07:06 PM
    Yes, and I can't understand why setting should make a difference. I feel that on some level it's cognitive dissonance; that people just don't want to imagine themselves in the shoes of that person that's so different from themselves.
  4. Johwa
    11-13-2015 06:54 PM
    I guess what I don't understand is why others can't relate unless they feel it can happen to them. It confuses me.
  5. Smylex
    11-10-2015 04:49 PM
    Smylex commented on INTJ pets
  6. Distance
    10-28-2015 05:22 PM
    Distance commented on The INTJf Gossip Thread!
  7. doll
    10-28-2015 01:57 PM
    doll commented on Can an INTJ have such childish interests/hobbies?
    well said.
  8. AOA
    10-16-2015 03:41 PM
    AOA commented on INTJf cliques.
    LOL "holdyourhead was never heard from again ..."
  9. Madden
    10-16-2015 02:08 PM
    Madden commented on INTJ pets
    Cat cave.
  10. dontfuckwithme
    10-15-2015 06:23 PM
    dontfuckwithme commented on INTJ pets
  11. Smylex
    10-15-2015 06:08 PM
    Smylex commented on INTJ pets
  12. Bisclavret
    10-09-2015 12:50 PM
    Bisclavret commented on The Thinking About Having a GF Thread
    That was well synthesized. You've covered a lot of the mental landscape, thoughts, and conclusions that I have arrived at on my own as well. I think the key point you mention is this: rejoining the image of the ideal with realistic expectations and opportunities. Practically speaking, it's something I'm still working on applying.
  13. EchoFlame
    The difference I see is that specific people abuse capitalism, causing harm. I do think a few careful laws could improve it drastically if so many weren't ready to skip town. I staunchly dislike socialism as I think it abuses everyone who doesn't benefit from it. I think anyone could benefit from capitalism if they went about it right. I don't see a misuse for socialism, I see a system specifically designed to attack certain people to give others resources. There seems to be no mutual gain for those that pay for it. I actually believe the poor should be fed, etc. but I think it is wrong to force people to feed the poor. I can't allow a system I see as immoral come about, even if I see the result be desirable for certain people. The teaching a man to fish, don't just feed him fish is a strong part of my morality.
  14. EchoFlame
    Yes, some might say that..
  15. Bisclavret
    09-29-2015 01:28 PM
    Bisclavret commented on The Thinking About Having a GF Thread
    Hey, it's fine. I'm not fond of being a one man show anyhow. You do pose some good questions though; I'll have to reread through what you wrote, later.
  16. Borntothink
    09-15-2015 07:23 AM
    Borntothink commented on INTJ and Ignoring
    Thank you holdyourhead That explains it on various different levels. I must have been, somehow, a part & an extension of (work & private events leading to serious emotional reactions) circumstances that triggered this response in someone when I was near. You explainded it very well. I appreciate it! It is hard for me to let go until I collect all the pieces and can make sense of this experience. I am now about finished completing my "pattern". It was a very surreal encounter (one I won't forget anytime soon and the image is kind of stuck in my memory bank. This went on for 6 months plus). Now it is time to move on (at least I hope so) as my very patient friend (and people on this forum) keeps on telling me and reminding me of. That persistency of mine and the need to understand can be a very pain stricken & time consuming process at times.
    Thx again
    I also can relate to your comment about hearing but not being able to grasp the spoken words to me instantaneously and verbalizing a response immediately. I hear them from a distance and they are moving slowly towards me, and then it hits me, and the words take shape in my mind. If I am being preoccupied with "trying to understand", my answers come with a delayed reaction. My children often get frustrated with me. I keep on telling & reassuring them that I am not ignoring them, that I did listen & hear them but was busy thinking & processing. I never understood why they didn't believe me. It might after all be the introvert and INTJ in us. I guess you have to think like us in order to "get us".
  17. Borntothink
    09-11-2015 12:26 PM
    Borntothink commented on INTJ and Ignoring
    I did post a question for you on the INTJ and ignoring thread in regard to the freeze state. I have been trying to understand more about it since I believe that I have witnessed it. Thx, any help would be appreciated.
  18. MissKat
    09-02-2015 09:38 PM
    MissKat commented on How to convince my girlfriend do anal?
  19. gracious
    09-01-2015 05:38 PM
    So INTJs can take a hint!
  20. unkindhuman
    08-07-2015 10:41 AM
    unkindhuman commented on I have 3,999 posts.
    congrats on 4000!

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