Yeah, that's the life, unfortunately.

If you weren't banging any of them I'd suggest therapy, but you are.

How many did you fuck, just curious? If you dated 35 and werne't hooking up with at least 5-6 of them, something's off, and once we know what that is, we can fix it.

Good to hear you're getting them out on dates. That's always been the hardest part for me. The close has never been difficult.

I'm loose with my cash until we hook up, then that stops.

With my heart...its touch and go.

I keep sloughing through numbers though. Somewhere, I have hope.

Keep your chin up. Eventually you'll develop the boundaries necessary to fuck the sluts while keeping your eyes open for the ones you want to be in a relationship wi.

No, you're completely on topic.

good one!

You're a damn attractive man. *wanders off to do another random act of complimenting*

Yes, this is why I ironised about them finding oil in the Arctic, this might make them move...

I highly recommend the book "Models" by Mark Manson (see Amazon). Is has most likely the answers to all your questions and will help you to change your life for the better without playing silly games.

You are a hot mess!

First, if I was going to wonder how you look, it's right there on your avatar. No reason to go to OkCupid.


Next, if I was going to go to OkCupid, just to look up your profile, just so I could flirt and/or ask you out, well, you're already here on INTJf.

Last you would he LUCKY if a girl like me wanted to stalk you. Go see for yourself, scroll way down:

http://intjforum.com/showthread.php?t=81437&page=52

my pics start on page 48 to current page.

Where do you live anyways?


(see, I am not asking you your address, just the name of the town)

Plus just get her off the entire interview questions anyway. Honestly I NEVER ask that dumb stff, it's already on their dating profile what they do for work, that's good enough.

D.C. is a "so what you do?" town, so I avoid that question like a death knell.

A man being too reserved will freak me out, like WTF is he hiding?

Men should be open and lead on the first date. An ask her questions to bring her out.

"Oh so you work around here, what type of industry do you work in?"

And women only ask this stuff to make sure you're not an ax murdering drifter.

Make her feel safe, and like you're not going to boil bunnies!

And she really doesn't care what the NAME of the company is. She's just asking, essentially, what type of work do you do, and for what kind of company.

Ex:

Where do you work?

Oh I work in IT, blah blah

NOT

Where do you work?

I work at X on Bleeker St.

Don't take the woman's questions so literal, she is asking you LITERALLY FOR YOUR PHYSICAL ADDRESS.

Shit just say you live in "x" neighborhood and work in "y" industry.

!!!!

Don't be all like, "Bitch I ain't gonna tell you that stuff!" LOL although this would crack me up

Ha just get her tipsy and KISS HER. If she wants to be kissed, she will have more than one drink on the date. And if she's flirty on top of drinking, just lean in and go for it.

Don't actually use words. Don't literally ASK. This will ruin my mojo.

New suggestion at the bottom of the thread!

Specifically, what do you mean...what boundaries do you desire to set, that may come off as combative?

Is any of this helping you so far?

What is the longest relationship you've ever been in? What did you like the most?