Awesome post.

You're my hero

Then how experienced are you with women?

What are you talking about? Are you a chick or dude?

Thanks! I already found another little kernel on another thread...can't remember which one,off the top of my head...I think it was about MBTI,maybe gender roles.I tend to theorize a lot but mostly hit upon interesting articles and vid's online that remind me of threads or concepts and then search for an appropriate thread to post them to.I'll keep you in mind (;

Hi, I'm another forum member who likes your simple and rational posts. I found some on the 'Friend Zone' thread.
Thanks for helping to maintain my sanity by leaving us all something meaningful to read on this often nutty internet.

Noticed a long time ago but was hoping sanity would set in prior.

Is he still emasculated if he is getting laid?

I'm happy you are posting again. Even if you waste some of your posts on lost causes. :-p

Oh the complexities of people and dating them! Lol. This is very true. Admittedly so, my boyfriend and I have a pretty equal partnership, but there are some gender roles in our relationship, and for all the headaches he's given me, I'm pretty satisfied with it. Do I wish he'd keep me in the forefront of his thoughts more often? Sure. Do I want him to be clingy and at my every beck and call? Probably not. XD

My boyfriend's sister theorized to me it's because they aren't thinking of their SO the way women think of theirs. For many women, their SO is in the forefront of their brain at almost all times. Everything they say, think, do...women are constantly putting themselves in their boyfriend's shoes and making decisions based on how she think he might feel about it. Men? No. They don't think that way. Their logical minds focus on the problem or situation at hand, so if a decision or a person in that man's day doesn't involve his girlfriend, he's probably not keeping her in mind. Logic vs emotion?

lol between this and LadySpock bitching at us, what the hell are are we supposed to do?

lol i dont know why but sensing the grave confusion in your question and then immediately seeing your dragon thing avatar at the same time made me lol

You need to be posting.

Change your avatar back to the GP01.

We both know what you meant.

You did NOT just OMG me.

My dates do not try to touch boobies on the second dates. At least, if they want to make it out alive, they don't try. Thank you for being the first man to "go there" on the PUA stuff. It is rampant on here. As a woman, I really didn't even believe people actually do this stuff, although I have read about it online.

That's not true. I actually rely on two INTJ ex's for advice, because I like self-improvement, and they are two of the smartest, most insightful people I know. ENTP values INFJ advice. Lots of others.....you're probably right, it's a waste of effort.