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No pun intended? But yeah it really does come down to that. You can never get rid of approach anxiety, especially with people you find very intriguing/attractive. You can however learn to deal with it and control that feeling.
Very good post, you and I seem to agree with some things. Did you see my thread about the 12 points of success with women? I also think most men pass up the opportunity to approach beautiful women because they care too much about the outcome.
I've heard it all, "Old fashioned, old soul, too traditional, boring". Most of all, is "Well that's too bad, you look good in bed.". The worst is when they automatically assume you're naive if you're a virgin. Trust me, I know how to please. I'm just not trying to please you.
"Morals. Always (almost)." <-- Most times not, let's all be real.
It baffles me time and time again how these 20 year old girls talk about their virginity. They speak like they want to get rid of it as fast as they can, like it's a plague. I get a lot of people questioning me as well, "Why wait for marriage? Why not just love the person a lot?"