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  1. Sarea
    Today 03:11 AM
    Hahahaha, okay please correct me there as how you just wrote below
  2. BuShinJu
    10-22-2014 12:00 AM
    BuShinJu commented on Suicide notes?
    take it easy man, at least wait a week or two, see if something comes up...
  3. 123456789
    10-21-2014 08:56 PM
  4. Duke City Man
    10-21-2014 04:16 PM
    Duke City Man commented on Immigration is a feminist issue
    I've heard a lot of things about Thailand. Is it true that there are sixty year old Western men that are running around with twenty year old local women?
  5. Visum
    10-20-2014 05:54 PM
    Visum commented on What are you drinking right now?
    good for you you man, I wish you the best on this journey ahead of you.
  6. Monte314
    10-19-2014 08:48 PM
    Monte314 commented on Suicide notes?
    C'mon, RD, no self-death stuff. We want you around here.
  7. vampyroteuthis
    10-19-2014 08:32 PM
    vampyroteuthis commented on Wilma Machado Mumbai
  8. RBM
    10-18-2014 03:41 PM
    I continued to drink, a bit, only at home after my DUI ticket. Then I saw a lawyer. What he said to me, when I related those details to him, was a bit of a wake up call. He said, 'What are you crazy ?

    In short that meant I had to get clean and fast. Stopping totally, immediately, was not a choice any more, but a requirement going forward to prepare for court.

    'Old school', in those circumstances meant I stopped consuming. Period.

    Later, through court ordered outpatient treatment, I learned that not consuming the substance is only part of the formula to achieve sobriety.
  9. RBM
    10-18-2014 03:15 PM
    No one but family knew.

    I was quite introverted, at that time, and didn't share either at work which was full-time or at community college, which was part-time.

    My work life was basically unaffected, in any way observable from there. That means when my driving license was suspended I rode a bike to work, and carried on at work as though nothing was going on in my life.

    I simply dropped out of the classes I was taking at the time, with nothing said to anyone at the college. When I returned a few months later the department chairman expressed an interest in my not attending classes, but even then I kept the details to a minimum.
  10. zibber
    10-17-2014 09:34 AM
    What game? You are very irrelevant in my INTJf experience - this message is the most energy I have ever invested in you.
  11. VF1J
    10-16-2014 07:45 PM
    VF1J commented on Ask me anything about India
    You sound like a fun guy to hang out with.
  12. vampyroteuthis
    10-14-2014 05:20 PM
    Oi. Fellow Indian. We've PM'd at some point, I'm pretty sure.
  13. eagleseven
    10-13-2014 11:40 AM
    eagleseven commented on Turn abandoned homes into homeless shelters?
    In some ways, yes. In other ways (wiretapping, big brother) no. There's a reason a certain part of the country wants to disarm all Americans.
  14. INFJfemale
    10-09-2014 04:49 AM
    He had an unorthodox method of dating. Yours is a lot more unorthodox so the implication is that you will probably not succeed.

    But the world is full of unorthodox people. Good luck.
  15. Sarea
    10-08-2014 11:21 PM
    Sarea commented on Are Fat People Inherently Likeable?
    He's probably one of those people who are fortunate enough to possess laughters which are infectious.
  16. VF1J
    09-29-2014 07:43 AM
    VF1J commented on Is MSG really that bad
    It's not bad, it's a pretty good show.
  17. crow
    09-26-2014 02:46 PM
    I am relatively fine, thank you. I just don't have a lot to say, lately
    I have to say, though, it's nice to be missed!
  18. INFJfemale
    09-25-2014 03:27 AM
    Yes nice to meet you! I'm glad you are not put off by the fervor of my arguments. It's never personal.

    Sorry I automatically assumed racial. But even in culture there is great variability, I'm from Australia where the culture is very open but you still get people who will lie to your face straight out of habit; it's just the way they learned to operate.

    The sad thing about the pocket of India I went to is that the women don't easily form friendships. There are of course, plenty of examples of great friends in India, but the women were quite competitive and nasty toward each other, and the need to hide problems rather than share was common. I think in that respect the culture has a lot to do with it because the women have so much pressure to be the 'honour' of the family and their every behaviour is scrutinised. Even so much as getting a lift with a friend on a motorbike will subject the woman to nasty gossip, or even punishment, and for this reason the women can't disclose.
  19. INFJfemale
    09-24-2014 10:59 PM
    Human behaviour, for example, being deceitful, is caused by the interaction of a range of factors in the individual, and in the environment. The perception of another's behaviour is just as complex. It is very simplistic, and wrong, to say that a characteristic like this is a racial one. It says more about the perceiver, than the one being perceived.

    If you had been abused by authority figures all your life then you might be more deceitful than if you were in a safe situation. However if you had autism spectrum disorder in this same situation than you would still not be deceitful because you would be incapable.

    Imagine a beautiful house with a well manicured lawn and rose garden, with the lady of the house out tending the roses and giving a graceful wave of the hand as you pass by. Would you call her 'deceitful'? Because she drinks on the sly, and her husband beats her weekly. But you would never know that, because the culture says to keep up appearances.

    But you must have had some bad experience. Bad experiences tend to generalise to an entire population. For instance I don't like magpies. They swoop during nesting season, and when I was small I got attacked by an unusually aggressive one in my face. And so this fear has spread to all magpies. Even though the chances of seeing one so aggressive again are very small, and even though they have a beautiful song, I won't tolerate them near me.

    So I am guessing you had some bad childhood experiences in India, and now you hate Indians. How likely is it really that all Indians are deceitful by nature? And more so than any other racial group? Lying is merely a social coping strategy. Every body does it. Except if you have ASD.
  20. count0
    09-21-2014 11:16 AM
    count0 commented on Criminality in India
    Sorry, I must have misunderstood you in an earlier thread. I apologized publicly in the thread.

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