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  1. VF1J
    Yesterday 07:43 AM
    VF1J commented on Is MSG really that bad
    It's not bad, it's a pretty good show.
  2. crow
    09-26-2014 02:46 PM
    I am relatively fine, thank you. I just don't have a lot to say, lately
    I have to say, though, it's nice to be missed!
  3. INFJfemale
    09-25-2014 03:27 AM
    Yes nice to meet you! I'm glad you are not put off by the fervor of my arguments. It's never personal.

    Sorry I automatically assumed racial. But even in culture there is great variability, I'm from Australia where the culture is very open but you still get people who will lie to your face straight out of habit; it's just the way they learned to operate.

    The sad thing about the pocket of India I went to is that the women don't easily form friendships. There are of course, plenty of examples of great friends in India, but the women were quite competitive and nasty toward each other, and the need to hide problems rather than share was common. I think in that respect the culture has a lot to do with it because the women have so much pressure to be the 'honour' of the family and their every behaviour is scrutinised. Even so much as getting a lift with a friend on a motorbike will subject the woman to nasty gossip, or even punishment, and for this reason the women can't disclose.
  4. INFJfemale
    09-24-2014 10:59 PM
    Human behaviour, for example, being deceitful, is caused by the interaction of a range of factors in the individual, and in the environment. The perception of another's behaviour is just as complex. It is very simplistic, and wrong, to say that a characteristic like this is a racial one. It says more about the perceiver, than the one being perceived.

    If you had been abused by authority figures all your life then you might be more deceitful than if you were in a safe situation. However if you had autism spectrum disorder in this same situation than you would still not be deceitful because you would be incapable.

    Imagine a beautiful house with a well manicured lawn and rose garden, with the lady of the house out tending the roses and giving a graceful wave of the hand as you pass by. Would you call her 'deceitful'? Because she drinks on the sly, and her husband beats her weekly. But you would never know that, because the culture says to keep up appearances.

    But you must have had some bad experience. Bad experiences tend to generalise to an entire population. For instance I don't like magpies. They swoop during nesting season, and when I was small I got attacked by an unusually aggressive one in my face. And so this fear has spread to all magpies. Even though the chances of seeing one so aggressive again are very small, and even though they have a beautiful song, I won't tolerate them near me.

    So I am guessing you had some bad childhood experiences in India, and now you hate Indians. How likely is it really that all Indians are deceitful by nature? And more so than any other racial group? Lying is merely a social coping strategy. Every body does it. Except if you have ASD.
  5. count0
    09-21-2014 11:16 AM
    count0 commented on Criminality in India
    Sorry, I must have misunderstood you in an earlier thread. I apologized publicly in the thread.
  6. Kali Yuga
    09-13-2014 09:08 PM
    Kali Yuga
  7. clock40man
    09-09-2014 04:45 PM
    Thank you.. 1993 Tudor Submariner.
  8. Dohavior
    09-08-2014 09:21 AM
    Lets just say I really RTFM'd looking for dating tips hoping to find some resourceful and encouraging examples of feminity.

    And one of the things different about today is that women don't often get that whole sexual experience of helping another woman bring life into this world. That empowering self control and awareness it brings really helps form character and create new bonds.
  9. thod
    09-05-2014 08:14 AM
    > Bullshit. Independent farm living is doable.

    Will you mine your own iron to make ploughs?
  10. vedera
    09-05-2014 04:04 AM
    vedera commented on Overly dominant sexuality
    Oh dear, this is rich. May the hypocrites march in single file. Sad.
  11. TzarAlexander
    09-04-2014 12:40 PM
    TzarAlexander commented on Free Study Possibilities in Europe
    Such sweeping generalizations.
  12. Intrinsik
    08-27-2014 11:33 PM
    worst comes to worse they are like 95 percent of the planet and use arabic numerals so you can always just write it down on a notepad.
  13. eagleseven
    08-22-2014 08:47 PM
    Bodybuilding? Or eating more?
  14. eagleseven
    08-22-2014 03:26 PM
    eagleseven commented on Ideal girlfriend
    Not too far from how I imagined ya...
  15. Major Chord
    08-17-2014 10:10 PM
    Major Chord
    Sorry, don't know. If you find out, let me know and maybe one day I'll join you there.
  16. Polymath20
    08-14-2014 08:25 PM
    Simple language is for peasants.
  17. Zsych
    08-12-2014 03:48 AM
    Not particularly. He just seemed to have a pretty positive view (I think - I didn't actually read the whole thread again)
  18. YellowSubmarine
    08-10-2014 02:51 PM
    YellowSubmarine commented on Learning French
  19. Cooper
    07-30-2014 11:25 PM
    Long day.
  20. The Dan Keizer
    07-28-2014 03:16 PM
    The Dan Keizer
    Heh, you would think. But no, I happen to know that he has a deep unhappiness that the booze and drugs and women does not alleviate.

    He lacks purpose, same as most people that behave like him.

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