I shall take that as a compliment! :D

THIS. Then I feel terrible if I talk to my friends about it, because they end up saying something along the lines of "THIS IS A GOOD THING I'D LOVE TO BE IN YOUR SHOES"

It was a mind blowing day. Thank you for thinking of me

gawd I was nervous as hell after writing that lol!!

oh cool, ya thats a good way of putting it, 'two way rapport'. I think unrequited interest is closer to lust than anything else(though not always of a purely sexual nature)

You almost sound like you've been to Faire.

It's an interesting day, especially for people watching. There's nothing like the after-hours discussions, though. Some of the favorite parts of my life.

14 years of every weekend for 7 months. More of an education than any school will ever be, and I'm not an asocial INTJ anymore. At all.

Ya, I didn't even bother reading it. I read enough snippets on the thread to see that her advice is completely contradictory to having any sort of stable relationship. It's funny that some women will eat that stuff up and believe anything they read if it's on a relationship blog.

I thought it was a pretty fair synopsis of my point of view. One of the most accurate ones I've seen.

Ah i see. I hope you get well soon. Her advice makes some pretty big leaps indeed. As for me, i am alll caught up on sleep lol. Man it hit me.

re rep-yeah, it is sort of a common enfp thing. As we age, we arent so cuddly, but instead try and solve problems or even be kinda pragmatic. I totally hear you, as people then say we arent being "feeler like". Hugs for you and I hope all is well in your world!

Yeah, this wasn't even a relationship. I should have forgotten a while ago actually.

Surely my man-hating lesbian-ness invalidates my opinion anyway, since I have so much testosterone.

Yep, it's an uphill climb, but none the less, I felt I should introduce humour to it, why not amuse yourself at the expense of the ignorant :D

hehehehe. Love your trademarks.

TOTALLY! At first I couldnt believe such smart guys would say such dumb things, but yeah, they are kind of dumb about the whole thing. They really believe this stuff. I feel a little embarrassed for them.

Well, in the situation in the Bay Area, I never had the chance. This one guy would make snide, sideways comments, but nothing that would lead to a discussion. He just wanted to ruin my self-esteem.

Ehhh....help?!? LOL. I always thought handling emotions would get easier. This doesn't seem to be the case. Oh well. *cry* Just kidding. My tear ducts are broken.