lol

I'm Elbowman, but that's because I'm a superhero

yeah i sent them a nice message to let them know how i felt about it :P cool, that's why my cousin learned japanese. nerds are cool, i love nerds!

yeah i haven't studied it in a while because i stopped going to school. oh someone was telling me about kanji once and i remember getting confused. they took my avatar away because it had the character in it :/ so what got you into studying japanese?

lol i stole it from a chinese study. it's only half the picture but there's 2 men and they both have that character (ba) because baba means father. and i've heard ppl say the character looks that way because it represents eyebrows and a moustache. not sure if it's true though

Yup.

lol

Ah physical contact - my favorite part lol
I don't think I could offer advice since everybody's different and what your INFP prefers might not be the same as mine. But generally, I think you should act normal, be confident, be comfortable, be free to act according to what your mind tells you to.

INFPs love the spontaneity of INTJs which reveals their child-like angle (I remember sometimes - actually it is very rare - my INTJ would sit at the kitchen table and fold paper airplane or use rubber band to shoot some objects. That was some really awesome moments that I have the privilege to witness awwwwwwwww)
INFPs love the moment when INTJs went silent and lost in their thinking mode. The thoughtful facial expression, the day-dreaming eyes, ahhhhh, that's just so manly to me.
INFPs love it when INTJs try to adopt some social manners and act manly and politely just to please us awwwwwwwwwwww
INFPs love it when we know INTJs are interested in us physically but still treat us like 'sacred' human being and never have intention to go beyond the line except sometimes initiating some small physical intimate (standing really close, accidentally touching hands/laps)

INFPs love it when INTJs feel secure and comfortable enough around us that when talking with us, they look warmly and deeply into our eyes, their voices are soft and caring. At that time, it seems like we INFPs become little girls enjoying every beautiful little things in life while INTJs stand silently besides smilingly watching us and protecting us in case dangers come.

So, that's my opinion. Awwwww, your INFP is so lucky since you really cares about her. I wish my INTJ could care about me so much like that

It's one of the preloaded avatars on the site, I just chose it from a list. Probably someone around here knows where it came from, but I don't.

*takes yo guns*

Cheers!

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Please notice about small things she mentions in conversation (we INFP often express ourselves in small/subtle details in conversations which people often fail to notice), notice about her preferences (be it food, lifestyle, music) and bring it up in future talks. I bet she will melt silently inside when you can remember such small things about her.
Above all, my advice is: being yourself – being authentic, being comfortable with yourself, doing whatever you think is right and would like to do. We INFP love this authenticity and this is enough to hold our attraction for you. However, for the relationship to progress, please show us more of your emotional feelings towards us. Please keep it consistent that you are interested in us (even when you have a bad day or when you think you are becoming needy and have to play cool to draw us back) (If we ever see small hints that we interpret to be of you being less/no longer interested, we will quickly disappear from your life for fear of annoying you). Please show us subtle hints that you like us but too shy to approach us (e.g. smile to us, more kind to us than other people, care about us, help us). Over time, as the mutual feelings increase, either you or the girl could be the one to make the first move. In my case, this is me but unfortunately, my INTJ did not respond in kind and now I’m in a stagnant situation and don’t know if I give up or not.
But hey, that’s my advice and I hope it helps you somehow. Good luck with your INFP^^

Oh hi, I’m sorry for late reply and hopefully your relationship is still progressing well ^ ^

INFPs ask and care a lot about other people but rarely do we talk about ourselves since we think no one would understand and be able to relate. We are even more cautious with words when it comes to talking with the person we fell in love with because: i) INFPs are not good at verbal communication. Often times what we’re saying does not fully capture what we’re thinking. We think deeply but the words come out just shallow and superficial. We know the other person detects something ‘special’ in us so we don’t want to damage that illusion by saying shallow words out loud; ii) We want to please the other person but at the same time don’t want to be noisy or disturbing. We try to think of topics to start the conversation but have a hard time figuring out which one would be the most suitable. Therefore, we often end up attempting to strike up small talk since it’s safe but of course boring to us and we don’t have much to contribute in.
We love it when you let your guard down and show us (and only us) your vulnerability (e.g. some bad habits, emotional mood, some difficulties you are experiencing). By this way, we know that you trust us and allow us into your inner world. INTJs are tough outside but fragile and sensitive inside which triggers our feelings and (emotional) protection for you.
For conversations, please try to return in kind when we ask you questions. This way, we know you care about us also. For example, when I ask my INTJ how the weather is in his country, he would answer and ask me the same question. Sometimes, please make an effort to initiate some conversation (even if it is small talk), since if we are always the one striking up the talk, we may end up thinking that you’re not interested in us and just answer our questions out of politeness.
If she asks you something, try to answer and elaborate it and maybe further expand it to other subjects and be the one to ask her questions. As for me (I don’t know if it applies to other INFPs), topics I love are psychology and philosophy, all stuff related to why human act and think in particular ways. If you could find her interests, sometimes you could subtly mention it and I bet she will quickly detect and answer you in a very enthusiastic manner. In addition, we are also absolutely fine with small talk when it comes from the person we love. Try to create a comfortable environment around her (teasing her, being more playful in your own way). The more she feels comfortable around you, the sooner she will open up herself.
In conversations, please smoothen your voice a little bit (and you can still keep your sarcastic voice with other people – that way we know we are treated privilegedly). Show your INFP girls some appreciation (only show it when you really think it’s worth it – we are very astute at detecting fake compliment).

huh, what are you talking about?

No

O . O no lol why?

I just picked up a couple of random books at the book store. Zen is more of a philosophy than a practice. You don't need to meditate or anything. There are a lot of parallels between the meanings of Eastern and Western philosophers, though Eastern philosophy tends to focus on the personal and subjective while Western focuses on objective and existential.

I studied Zen for a few years and continue to practice what I learned, so arguably "yes" although to any other Buddhist, "no".

Too much work... Low five?;P

I forgot what I was talking about... anime and weird religious stuff...I had a point I SWEAR!!! XD