It resonates with older more (in)experienced INTJ's too. I think the reason it is accepted is that it's the easiest way. The cowards way.

That could be true. Hmmm....

lol. It's always nice to know I'm not alone. Check out this thread I started awhile back...

When I was a kid and we had to go to church, it made me so confused and angry, the fact that I wasn't allowed to wear pants.

ENFPs, like any other type, can develop a crush or infatuation. It happens. I believe it happens with all types. However, because ENFPs are so Fi, I think that lends itself to a rich fantasy life. INTJs are not so different.

The difference for me is that...while I have fantasized or even crushed on a guy, I don't act on it. I recognize what I'm doing, figure out why, and get my head straight.

Lol, that's the ironic part. Was dumped for being too robotic, then all I did was cry for half a week.

Yes it could be. Or then again it might not be.

Better?

and it's only 12,660

You have to be determined and work really really hard at it.