Hi! Mmm, I guess I felt as though NF defines me better. Thanks for the message and nice to meet you! Merry X-mas :-D

Yes.

Hi Allen! Sorry I missed your IM the other day. My gmail is always open when I'm on but I had it minimized and was busy here on INTJf and didn't see it until I shut down. I hope things are still going well with you and INFP.

I miss your thread, Allen. It seems to be the *only* positive INTJ/INFP thread EVER. Lately it's been all gloom and doom in the R&D subforum. For INTJ/ENFP combos, too, for the most part... bah.

Maybe it will even end up in an MBTI book someday. The book you are going to write about INTJs and INFPs!

I hope things went well the other day! :-)

Happy 6 month, Allen!

I know. Bleh!

Yes, you are imagining the holding back. That's prob. the most logical answer. What fun options. :-) And yay for conversation that includes jokes and deeper themes!

Thanks for noticing the avatar!
I just read the thread update. When will you next get to see her? I'm surprised she's still holding back unless she feels sheepish a little about the weirdness of that conversation. Good to see you are still calm.

Watch that language, Allen! You know INFPs get stressed out by metaphors like "demolishing walls"!! Don't even think such things when standing near your INFP.

Just kidding. Sort of.

Thanks, Allen! I'm fine. With the hot part of summer here, I am looking forward to autumn. I was glad to see recently on your thread that things are well with you.

Hi Allen! I finally have returned! Who knew that piano could actually make you SO tired!? All those really strict conductors and all... anyways, I was happy to find your message! Thank you, that was nice! I'm so glad that things are going well with your INFP! I can "sense" your happiness in your message, LOL!

I'm going to take a bit of time and think about it, but will have some input for you.

I'll take a look.

Ah, yes, we INFPs. We don't know how to react in some situations, it might even be just nerves! I'll give you a personal example: I once asked my romantic interest for some help in a course that we both had. I'm not that great at university level biology, but since that was his major.. When I asked him he said "sure, let's go to the last lab table." and I followed suit once everyone left. I was so nervous and shy that it was just us, that I ended up sitting 2-3 chairs away. He said "...you can move the chair over closer if you want" ... lol, I didn't know how to react, lol. My mind was split: If I don't move, will he take it as a rejection or something, or what happens if I do...? We INFPs are constantly thinking like that too... when we're not paralyzed by nerves, that is. lol

Thanks great Allen! I'm so glad that things turned out great for you - it looks very positive from my point of view. Way to go!

That's so sweet! :-)

I'm fine Allen! And glad to hear that you are back safely and that you and INFP are still together (not that anyone thought you wouldn't be) despite the big trip. :-)

Hey Allen! Are you back from your Eurotrip yet? How'd it go with the surprise?!