Yeah, I guess my "off-peak" body isn't that bad.
Ah, my face isn't good enough to stand on it's own haha.
My body used to be much better IMO, but I'll get it back there yet

Actually I could see myself breaking up with a girl I recently met if we had a big fight over something dumb. I think to me I would realize there was some disconnect.

That really is a sad story whether it was cowardice or not on your part, you can't undo the past. But I hope that the next time you *really* like a guy, you won't care about what anybody else thinks and just do what's right for you and him.

Are you angry at your mother for this? I know that if I were you, I'd be more than furious and probably wouldn't speak to her anymore. (My mother is somewhat racist as well, and I often *wish* I had a black boyfriend just to force her to be more tolerant. There are almost no black people around where I live, though.)

Very touching. One simply cannot put a price on family values.

Bahaha... I mean, my condolences on your inability to look your age.

Marhaba to you, too!
Did you think Dubai was like this, ma'am?

Yeah, he can't possibly be relaxing and having fun and being playful-n-stuff and that comes across loud and clear.

Awesome thread, if only I could sum all the info I have in my head right now I will try to post later

I'm British.

You understand each other, mostly...can't explain but i'm sure that there are thousands of them out there. He just happened to be the first one that I met.

Hi,

interestingly enough I guess, I'm not religious at all. I don't need the concept of a God or a religion to act ethically. Wanting sex to be a very intimate thing is just a personal decision and preference of mine. I don't think it's necessary to wait until marriage (I don't actually think that marriage is "necessary", it's just a document, but I'm not against it per se either), but I do believe it's best to wait until you're in a stable loving relationship with someone you can see yourself being with "forever". I really don't like this "Oh you'll be my college boyfriend and afterwards I'll go look for someone new" kind of relationship, eughh.
I'm 23.

"i know I offended you with that post about giving my heart to a future family and children, but I really feel that way, and I don't think it takes anything away from me or makes me submissive. I'm an accomplished person, so I wouldn't be comfortable just playing the dumb Southern housewife role, but I would be happy to give my all to a strong marriage. And I wouldn't mind raising my children, my mom did it for five of us, and I liked having my mom home, so I would try to do it for my kids, as long as finances worked out."

I'm a feminist, but I don't think a woman staying at home and mainly being there for her children while they're still small is a bad thing. I might actually want that myself once I have children, though I'd probably prefer doing *some* kind of work, preferably from home, at the same time. Not a huge fan of sending kids into daycare once they're 6 weeks old or so.

I think the difference between us though is that I don't see that as a woman's "role" or a "sacrifice". If my partner goes working, is that not a sacrifice? And if he wanted to stay at home, that'd be just as fine.

I'm sad to hear that you broke up with that ENFJ because of family pressure. I personally think that family or friends have exactly zero say in who I want to date, it's none of their business whatsoever. If my mother hated the guy I date, that'd only reinforce the feelings I have for him.
Is there not a way for you got get together again? Or is he no longer single?

*shakes fuzzy head.

GIRLLLL YOU BEDDA GO GET YO' SELF SOME OF THAT DELICIOUS MAN PIE! "INTJ WHO?" IS CORRECT! Said the lesbian....

Aww awesome! Looks like I learnt something new too, never heard of them till now haha. Hope you have a great time How're you coping without your INTJ?

That's really exactly what it is. It's sad. They let a few women determine their judgments of us all.

You sure do How're you?

I certainly went through the phase of chasing the wrong women... but I think both sexes go through that phase.

FTFY means fixed that for you Hahahaha how sad would I be if I lied about my gender on intjf? Hahaha funny.

I found the mindmate in a dance class. I planted the first seed when I was 27 and the second 2 years later.
Mindmates are not impossible to find...you just need to hone your radar

It took me quite a few years to get my radar properly calibrated.

Absolutely gorgeous!